Man Leaves Dinner With Family After Sister Repeatedly Calls Him Gay In Front Of Girlfriend

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A man and his girlfriend go out to dinner with his family, but his sister repeatedly insults him by calling him gay, making his girlfriend uncomfortable. Despite multiple requests to stop, the sister continues and even goes as far as to suggest he's having a secret relationship with one of his friends. The man decides to leave the dinner, leaving enough money to cover his and his girlfriend's portion of the bill. His family calls him an a**hole for leaving them to pay for the rest. Was he in the wrong to take action and leave the dinner? Read on to find out.

Struggle of a private man with noisy family and girlfriend.

taconcertgay | taconcertgay

Sister won't stop calling him gay, he leaves dinner upset 😔

taconcertgay | taconcertgay

Sister repeatedly calls him gay, making girlfriend uncomfortable. 😔

taconcertgay | taconcertgay

Man stands up to homophobic sister at dinner with girlfriend 🏳️‍🌈

taconcertgay | taconcertgay

Leaving family dinner over homophobic jokes? No joke! 🏳️‍🌈

taconcertgay | taconcertgay

Is it wrong to leave family dinner over hurtful comments?

taconcertgay | taconcertgay

Man leaves family dinner after sister repeatedly insults his sexuality 🙄

A man who had been in a happy relationship with his girlfriend for over four years was insulted by his sister who kept calling him gay at a family dinner. The sister even went as far as to accuse him of using his girlfriend as a cover for his supposed homosexuality. The man asked his sister to stop but she wouldn't, and eventually he decided to leave with his girlfriend in tow. The family was left to pay for their own food and drinks, but they later bombarded the man with messages and calls, calling him an a**hole who can't take a joke. Who's in the wrong here? Is it ever okay to make fun of someone's sexuality, even if you're family? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

NTA. Standing up to bullies is never a joke. 🚫👊

yanivelkneivel | yanivelkneivel

Sister repeatedly calls him gay in front of girlfriend. NTA, disinvite them.

Fergus74 | Fergus74

Sister's 'joke' crossed the line, time for no contact 😤

Atreyu1215 | Atreyu1215

Calling someone gay as a joke isn't funny. NTA.

theresbeans | theresbeans

Standing up to family's toxic behavior. Good for you! 👍

Brei75 | Brei75

Leaving an abusive conversation is always the right choice. NTA 🚪

DragonFireLettuce | DragonFireLettuce

Sister repeatedly calls him gay, family supports her. He leaves.

Kris_Third_Account | Kris_Third_Account

Standing up for yourself with grace and class. 👏

Rich_27- | Rich_27-

NTA for leaving dinner after sister's homophobic insults.

Old-Relief5873 | Old-Relief5873

Standing up to emotional abuse from family. 👏

Electrical_Age_6542 | Electrical_Age_6542

Family's homophobic behavior leads to dinner disaster, NTA.

TategamiMaya | TategamiMaya

Standing up to family disrespect, NTA 🙌🏽

UnluckyDreamer1 | UnluckyDreamer1

Standing up against homophobic behavior is always the right choice 🌈

AffectionateMine2220 | AffectionateMine2220

NTA for leaving dinner with family after sister's homophobic behavior 🚶‍♂️💰 Propose to GF, tell family they're not invited unless they apologize 🌈

Panda_monium_927 | Panda_monium_927

Setting boundaries with family. NTA 👍

Heraonolympia123 | Heraonolympia123

Setting boundaries with family: NTA, go no contact if necessary 🚫👥

Wowwalex | Wowwalex

Stand up for yourself and cut toxic people from your life 💪

Silmariel | Silmariel

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important 🙌

Triplicated | Triplicated

Standing up to family's homophobia is important, good for you!

UndeadArmy16 | UndeadArmy16

Sister's homophobic behavior rightly called out as psycho 😱

bahard9 | bahard9

When is a joke not just a joke? 🤔 NTA stands up to abuse.

KevsBigTruck | KevsBigTruck

NTA stands up to homophobic sister, wedding drama ensues 👬💍

Welshie_Fan | Welshie_Fan

Family disrespects OP's girlfriend and calls him gay, NTA for leaving.

AlissaMing | AlissaMing

Family's reaction to homophobic comments was mixed 😕🤷

hdawne12 | hdawne12

Standing up to homophobic comments and uninviting family to wedding 👊🌈

bigdoug94 | bigdoug94

Bisexual commenter shares experience with annoying comments on sexuality.

SirLow8846 | SirLow8846

Standing up for yourself is not a joke. NTA

DocSternau | DocSternau

Sibling rivalry leads to dinner disaster 💥

chubbywhiteboy420 | chubbywhiteboy420

Sister's immature behavior called out with a NTA judgment 👏👏

zellyland | zellyland

Set boundaries with family and cut off toxic relationships. NTA.

Sufficient-Lynx-2339 | Sufficient-Lynx-2339

NTA. Commenter shares similar experience with homophobic family friends.

ScattyTenebris | ScattyTenebris

Sister repeatedly calls him gay, NTA goes no contact

TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680

Sick of being the butt of the joke? Cut toxic family.

MaryAnne0601 | MaryAnne0601

Taking a stand against family bullying is important for mental health 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Sister's immaturity exposed in comments on brother's sexuality 🌈

Jerratt24 | Jerratt24

Standing up to homophobic bullying. NTA for leaving dinner.

Gobadorgosleep | Gobadorgosleep

Sister's homophobic behavior leads to family dinner disaster 😠👎

MissionRevolution306 | MissionRevolution306

14-year 'joke' about sexuality crosses the line. NTA.

Aatjal | Aatjal

Standing up against hurtful jokes. NTA for leaving dinner.

TheTor22 | TheTor22

Sibling boundaries crossed: Sister's obsession with brother's sexuality questioned.

same_as_always | same_as_always

When jokes go too far: respecting boundaries in relationships 🤔

ceilylou | ceilylou

NTA! Your toxic family did you a huge favor 😊

Ok_Finance_5188 | Ok_Finance_5188

NTA! Stand up against casual homophobia 🌈❤️

Calcairetest | Calcairetest

Sister's comments may be projection. NTA. Good luck OP! 🤞

TheSilkyBat | TheSilkyBat

Speculation about sister's sexuality causes tension at family dinner 🤔

Philthybrews | Philthybrews

Leaving dinner after being repeatedly called gay by sister

MelonSegment | MelonSegment

Malicious sister's comments risk ruining the relationship, NTA.

BikingOtter | BikingOtter

Stand up to bullies, even if they're family. 💪 NTA.

samtapti | samtapti

Standing up against harassment, NTA comment wins hearts ❤️

Raida7s | Raida7s

Sometimes love means keeping your distance ❤️

ProfessionalSugar790 | ProfessionalSugar790

Standing up against harmful 'jokes' - NTA 👏🏼

Firefox_Alpha2 | Firefox_Alpha2

Setting boundaries with family. 🙌

Top-Passion-1508 | Top-Passion-1508

Cutting toxic family ties. 🙅‍♂️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Calling someone gay as a joke is not funny. NTA.

pro_conser333 | pro_conser333

Standing up to family bullying. NTA 🙌

Nandoholic12 | Nandoholic12

Man stands up to homophobic sister at family dinner. NTA 🏳️‍🌈

SnooRecipes5769 | SnooRecipes5769

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. NTA strikes back.

Plenty_Metal_1304 | Plenty_Metal_1304

Protect your relationship and cut toxic family out 💔🚪

SandiFeet | SandiFeet

Standing up to family bullies 🙌🏼

LilitySan91 | LilitySan91

Sister's homophobic behavior justified man leaving family dinner. 🌈

grayhairedqueenbitch | grayhairedqueenbitch

Standing up against homophobic sister and family. NTA 🌈❤️

Infamous_fire94 | Infamous_fire94

Sibling jokes gone too far? NTA for setting boundaries 🚫👥

JdorianIRL | JdorianIRL

Standing up for yourself against family is tough, but necessary 💪

Pokefan8263 | Pokefan8263

Calling someone gay as an insult is unacceptable. NTA.

ConsistentVersion337 | ConsistentVersion337

Sibling rivalry? Ask if she's projecting her own sexuality 🤔 NTA

VLC31 | VLC31

"Haha you're gay!" Not funny at 34. #NTA 😒

MaybeIwasanasshole | MaybeIwasanasshole

Cutting off toxic family members. 👏

LekuvidYisrool | LekuvidYisrool