Woman Freezes Boyfriend’s Card After Sister Spends Thousands

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A woman is asking if she's in the wrong after freezing her boyfriend's card. Her boyfriend's sister spends his money without limits and the woman is now pregnant, covering 70% of their expenses. After finding out that the sister spent over $3k in a week, the woman froze the card to avoid running out of money again. However, the boyfriend got angry and called her selfish. What do you think? Who's the a**hole in this situation? Read on to find out.

Supporting the boyfriend's family taking a toll on finances ❄️

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Irresponsible sister causes chaos, boyfriend turns a blind eye

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Sister uses boyfriend's card and puts family against her 😠

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Struggling with finances, woman discusses splitting expenses with boyfriend 💰

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Boyfriend's sister spends 3k on his card, girlfriend freezes it 🔒

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Woman freezes boyfriend's card after sister spends thousands 💳❄️

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Woman freezes boyfriend's card after sister spends thousands 💳

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Frustrated wife freezes husband's card after sister's lavish spending 🤦

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Woman wants money back, freezes boyfriend's card. AITA?

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OP receives backlash for freezing boyfriend's card; asks for support ❤️

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🚫❄️ Woman freezes boyfriend's card after sister spends thousands

When money gets tight, it can put a strain on any relationship. But what happens when your boyfriend's sister takes advantage of his generosity by spending thousands on his dime? This woman froze her boyfriend's card after discovering his sister had charged over 3k on his account in just one week. Despite her boyfriend's annoyance, she stood her ground, arguing that he should focus on providing for their own child instead of sponsoring the life of his irresponsible sister. But was she wrong to freeze the card? The internet weighed in with their opinions, some calling her selfish while others praised her for taking a stand. What do you think? Read on for more details and reactions.

OP's boyfriend prioritizes sister's spending over their unborn child. ESH.

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Freezing his card was an overreach but leaving him is necessary 💔

Nuttonbutton | Nuttonbutton

Put yourself and your baby first. NTA. 👏

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Expecting someone to change for a child is crazy 🤷‍♀️

SDstartingOut | SDstartingOut

Controlling behavior and financial irresponsibility in relationship. 😔


Protecting your assets from a parasitic sister and spineless BF 🙅‍♀️

T1s1phon3Aaronz | T1s1phon3Aaronz

ESH, but freezing his card was not the solution 😬

KineticSerenity | KineticSerenity

Selfish parents put child's needs last, freeze credit not feelings 🤦‍♂️

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Time to focus on your future and baby 👶🏽

Dry_Dragonfruit_4191 | Dry_Dragonfruit_4191

Taking legal action against ex and sister for financial damages 💰

Gypsy-Nyx | Gypsy-Nyx

Woman freezes boyfriend's card after sister spends thousands - Commenter advises to cut off sister's financial support

lemons66 | lemons66

NTA for freezing the card, but the relationship is toast 👋💳

The_Fires_Of_Orc | The_Fires_Of_Orc

Break free and prioritize yourself and your baby. 🚀

Witch_on_a_moped | Witch_on_a_moped

Relationship doomed: Freezing card won't fix financial irresponsibility. 💔

eregina3 | eregina3

Woman should leave and file child support for her and baby 👋

AriDiamondGold | AriDiamondGold

Empathetic advice for a pregnant woman dealing with a selfish partner.

bunn-ie | bunn-ie

Controlling boyfriend's finances is not justified 🙅‍♀️

mdthomas | mdthomas

Money fights in relationships can get messy 💸

Sascha2538 | Sascha2538

ESH, but give him a wake-up call about financial abuse 💸

Ok-Macaron-6211 | Ok-Macaron-6211

NTA for wanting him to contribute equally to bills, but freezing his personal card is not okay 😕

lamendezflo | lamendezflo

Boyfriend's sister causes chaos while girlfriend is the villain 🤔

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Ultimatum time: Therapy or child support. ESH in situation.

sunnydays0306 | sunnydays0306

Excel can be a great tool to visualize expenses 💰

vidhicity | vidhicity

Protect yourself and your baby. It's time to leave. 💪

lotusabyss | lotusabyss

Boyfriend chooses sister over gf and child. 🤔 #NTA

armedmommy | armedmommy

Unresolved issues and a baby on the way. 😔

DisneyAddict2021 | DisneyAddict2021

Stand up for yourself and your baby. You're NTA 👏

Effective_Sound_697 | Effective_Sound_697

Spot on! 🤣 The boyfriend's sister is the real culprit here.

fragilemagnoliax | fragilemagnoliax

Suggesting solutions to a financial problem in a relationship 💰💔

mgwats13 | mgwats13

Communicate with him or break up before the baby's born. 🤔

redcore4 | redcore4

Controlling his money was not right. Sister is a leech.

TypicalHall1811 | TypicalHall1811

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries 👊🏼

gia_sesshoumaru | gia_sesshoumaru

Questioning the relationship status with a hint of sarcasm 😒

stacity | stacity

Commenter questions the decision to have a child with irresponsible partner.

Every_Caterpillar945 | Every_Caterpillar945

When your partner is married to their sibling 👀🤔

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Harsh question, but valid. Is he really worth it? 🤔

Medeya24 | Medeya24

Secure your child's future with court-ordered child support 💰💼

Inner-Ad-1308 | Inner-Ad-1308

Time to move on? 🤔 NTA but not a healthy relationship.

svifted | svifted

Taking control of finances and parenting as a single mom 💪

Paulie227 | Paulie227

Supportive comments, baby on the way! 🤰👶

TiffanyH70 | TiffanyH70

Filing for child support is the way to go 💪

newbeginingshey | newbeginingshey

Partner prioritizes sister over baby, commenter recommends counseling and boundaries 💔

RocketteP | RocketteP

Take legal action against him and his irresponsible sister. 💸⚖️

Special-Cat7540 | Special-Cat7540

Freezing boyfriend's card after sister's spending spree 💳

IamForester | IamForester

🚩 Dump him ASAP: Woman advises freezing boyfriend's card

f4tBatman | f4tBatman

File for child support to get fair share of income 💰

gorenglitter | gorenglitter

Boyfriend prioritizes sister over baby, OP needs to set boundaries 💰👶

Fun-Attorney4071 | Fun-Attorney4071