I Kicked Out My Sister and Her Family After Defending Her Step-Son's Unsanitary Behavior

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What happens when family members overstep boundaries and refuse to take responsibility for their actions? A young woman shares her story about how she had to kick out her sister, her sister's husband, and her nephew after her sister's step-son's unsanitary behavior became too much to bear.

The situation escalated when the step-son threatened to share her profession as a sex worker with the family. Is kicking out family ever justified? What would you do in this situation? Join the discussion now.

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Kicked out family for unsanitary behavior; sister plays victim 🙄

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Clarifying that legal advice is not the focus 🚫⚖️

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Sex worker kicks out sister and family after step-nephew's unsanitary behavior

A sex worker took in her sister and family after they were left homeless. Things went well until the sister's step-son refused to clean up his unsanitary room. When the sex worker cleaned the room herself, the step-son threatened to expose her profession and called her derogatory names.

The s*x worker kicked out the step-son and her sister and her family when they defended him. Read the full story for the reactions and comments to the situation.

Kicked out sister's family after defending step-son's unsanitary behavior. NTA 💪

Screamqueenjames | Screamqueenjames

Standing up for yourself against disrespectful guests 👏🏼

rtgd_mmm | rtgd_mmm

Setting boundaries with family for unsanitary behavior 👀

Ok-Bass2557 | Ok-Bass2557

Commenters agree: Holding men accountable can lead to world peace! 🙌

PickleAfficionado | PickleAfficionado

You did the right thing. NTA 🙌

lil-peanutbutter | lil-peanutbutter

Change the locks, NTA. The step-son was a potential r*pist.

sleepthedayzaway | sleepthedayzaway

NTA claps back at sister's hypocrisy with glass house reference 🏠👀

pamelaonthego | pamelaonthego

Exploring the impact of bad parenting on children's behavior 👨‍👦

juno_october | juno_october

NTA! 👏🏼 Don't put up with that kind of disrespect in your own home. 👎🏼

lordehelpus | lordehelpus

Standing up for yourself and your cleanliness is NTA 👏🧼

Ok_Peace_8267 | Ok_Peace_8267

20-year-old stepson acts like a slob and throws tantrums 🙄

dobber1965 | dobber1965

Expose his dangerous behavior to warn others. Stay safe. NTA 👍

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Don't fall for their BS! You're 1000% NTA 👏

Hot-News8042 | Hot-News8042

Supportive comment advises precautions against potential revenge porn threat 👍

pnwcatman420 | pnwcatman420

Defending your home and safety is paramount. NTA ✅

MaryAnne0601 | MaryAnne0601

NTA for kicking them out, disrespectful stepson, sister's behavior unacceptable.

RhubarbRocket | RhubarbRocket

Commenter agrees with OP and calls out misogynistic behavior 👍

LivSaJo | LivSaJo

NTA stands up to sister's bad choices with unsanitary step-nephew 🙌

AshlandSouth | AshlandSouth

Supportive commenter applauds OP for kicking out unsanitary step-nephew.

Aspen_Pass | Aspen_Pass

Take control and stand your ground. NTA! 💪

Mindless_Ad_7700 | Mindless_Ad_7700

👍 Not the a**hole, great job!

navoor | navoor

Step-son's unsanitary behavior causes family rift. NTA not sorry.

VlaxDrek | VlaxDrek

Consequences needed for unsanitary behavior at age 20. NTA.

PickleAfficionado | PickleAfficionado

Sibling drama ensues as family hygiene comes into play 🤬

LovableLayla | LovableLayla

Stand your ground! 🙌 Family or not, prioritize your health.

kiwifarmdog | kiwifarmdog

Defending unsanitary behavior? NTA did the right thing 👍

Diasies_inMyHair | Diasies_inMyHair

Support for OP's decision and a jab at the freeloading BIL 💰🚫

Amethyst9494 | Amethyst9494

Heartbreaking comment about a toxic family situation 😢

JustMissKacey | JustMissKacey

Standing up for yourself and your home 🙌

riyusama | riyusama

Asserting ownership: NTA kicks out sister's family over unsanitary behavior 😱

Supafly22 | Supafly22

NTA receives support after sister's ungrateful behavior 🤝

rnngwen | rnngwen

Kicking out sister's family for unsanitary behavior. NTA wins.

Koreanboie156 | Koreanboie156

You're not the a**hole 👍

musical_spork | musical_spork

Ungrateful houseguests? This commenter is definitely NTA 🙅‍♀️

lunapuppy88 | lunapuppy88

Supporting sex work and standing up to entitled step-children 🙌

maureen_leiden | maureen_leiden

Commenter defends OP's actions with a supportive tone 👍

Dry-Clock-1470 | Dry-Clock-1470

Agreeing with the decision to kick out family. 🙌🏼

RealisticWin3801 | RealisticWin3801

Defending against unsanitary behavior and victim blaming. 🤔

CriticalSimple3122 | CriticalSimple3122

Commenter supports OP's decision to kick out sister and family.

LaughingRampage | LaughingRampage

Setting boundaries is important! 🙌🏼

robynxcakes | robynxcakes

Defending your family can be tough, especially when it's messy 😬

CanLuciusSwim | CanLuciusSwim

Defending family doesn't excuse unsanitary behavior 👎

tawny-she-wolf | tawny-she-wolf

Setting boundaries in your own home is important. 💪


Let's teach kids to behave! 🧒🏼👍

bscrolling | bscrolling

👍 Not the a**hole! Commenters agree family was entitled.

Chrysania83 | Chrysania83

Keep the peace at home. NTA for setting boundaries.

Elena_Kyle | Elena_Kyle

Being grateful for generosity is an important virtue 🙌

Successful_Moment_91 | Successful_Moment_91

Standing up to sexism 👊 NTA sets boundaries with family

StrykerC13 | StrykerC13

Standing up to unsanitary behavior and disrespect 👍

AshenRabbit | AshenRabbit

Concerns over family's hygiene behavior sparks home eviction 🤢

empress_2022 | empress_2022

20-year-old's unsanitary behavior leads to eviction, justified according to commenter

EnvironmentalGroup15 | EnvironmentalGroup15

👍 Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. Good riddance 👋

kb-g | kb-g

Standing up to entitled step-nephew and defending boundaries 👏🏽

Kellsie_ | Kellsie_

Respect goes both ways. NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

Possible_Cow6432 | Possible_Cow6432

Defending unsanitary behavior? 🤢 NTA did the right thing.

Dvdasalover42 | Dvdasalover42

Don't bite the hand that feeds you! NTA 🙌

esqweasya | esqweasya

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. 💪

laavuwu | laavuwu

A blunt and outraged response to unsanitary behavior.

5tar_k1ll3r | 5tar_k1ll3r

Comment receives support for standing up to family member's behavior 🔥

polarkats | polarkats

Family drama and unsanitary behaviors, who's the a**hole here? 🤔

dheffe01 | dheffe01

Not the a**hole for standing up against unsanitary behavior 👌

livin4fun78 | livin4fun78

Standing up for cleanliness and kindness. 🧹✨

VictoriaRose1618 | VictoriaRose1618

Standing up for cleanliness 👍 You're NTA

No-Treacle5105 | No-Treacle5105

Celebrating a clear NTA judgement 🎉👏

Lazyassbummer | Lazyassbummer

Curious about the backstory behind sister's relationship 👀

pleasantvalleyroad | pleasantvalleyroad

Defending against unsanitary behavior, NTA reigns supreme 👑

BeneficialHurry8644 | BeneficialHurry8644

Standing up to disrespectful family members like a boss 👊

sdbinnl | sdbinnl

Don't mess with cleanliness! NTA and stand your ground 🧹

sreno77 | sreno77

Defending family or upholding hygiene? NTA made the call 🧐

Haunting-Row-3961 | Haunting-Row-3961

You're NTA and we've got your back 👍

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