Losing a parent is never easy, but for one teenager, it’s been made even harder by the expectation that she becomes her father’s replacement wife. Despite already handling all the household chores, her dad continues to make demands and criticize her efforts.
When she finally confronts him about the unfairness of it all, she’s met with criticism from her aunt. Was she in the wrong for standing up for herself and setting boundaries? Read the full story to find out read more.
Heartbroken family copes with tragic loss of beloved mother

Teen takes charge of household duties after mom’s death

Teen girl stands up to unreasonable demands from grieving father

Teen girl juggles school, chores and dad’s unfair expectations

Teen girl takes charge of household duties after mom’s death ✌

Teen girl stands up to dad’s criticism of her eggs

Teen girl stands up to dad’s unreasonable demands

Teen calls out dad for insensitivity after mom’s death

Navigating family conflict after loss. AITA?

Teen girl stands up to dad’s unreasonable demands after mom’s death ♀️
Handling the loss of a loved one is never easy, but when it’s your mother, the pain can be unbearable. For this teenage girl, not only is she dealing with her own grief, but she’s also taken on the responsibility of handling all the chores and work around the house while her dad and brother are struggling to cope.
However, her dad’s unreasonable demands and constant comparisons to her mother’s way of doing things have pushed her to her breaking point. After being woken up at 6 am to make breakfast and being criticized for not making the eggs perfectly, she finally snaps and tells her dad that she’s not his replacement wife.
But was she wrong for standing up for herself? Let’s take a look at what people have to say in the comments and reactions about the situation .
Daughter forced into parent role after mom’s death is not the a**hole

Grief therapy is necessary for healing

Supportive replies defend OP against unsympathetic aunt’s criticism

Setting boundaries with family after mom’s death. NTA.

NTA for standing up to unreasonable demands from grief-stricken father.

Supportive commenters urge teen to seek help and safety. ❤️

Grieving daughter stands up to dad’s demands, needs a break

Teen girl deserves better after mom’s death

Standing up to unreasonable demands after mom’s death

Stand up for your right to a childhood Your dad needs to learn basic life skills

Protect yourself from adults who prioritize a parent’s pain over yours

Grieving daughter stands up to father’s unreasonable demands

Time to break free ️. NTA, you deserve better.

Grieving teen stands up to unreasonable dad with aunt’s interference ♀️

Stand up for yourself and let him do his job

Setting boundaries with a grieving parent

Teen girl refuses to be her family’s caretaker after mother’s death

NTA. Unreasonable demands on grieving daughter. Heartbreaking similarity to friend.

Standing up to parentification and prioritizing mental health
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Gender bias in household chores is unacceptable. #NTA

Teen girl rightfully demands support from grieving father. #NTA

Teen girl asserts independence from demanding father. #NotHisServant ♀️

Daughter not the a**hole for standing up to misogynistic father.

NTA stands up to emotionally abusive father, needs support

16yo expected to handle mom’s role after her death. NTA.

Commenter calls out aunt and dad for bad behavior

Teen deals with parentification, seeks help to cope with grief

Supportive commenters rally around grieving teenager

Grieving teen calls out dad’s unreasonable demands – NTA

Stand up for yourself and seek help if needed

Gender roles don’t define household duties. #NotTheA**hole

Grieving daughter stands up to abusive dad, gets support ❤️

Teen girl stands up to toxic father after mom’s death. NTA ❤️

Empathy for the loss, support for standing up to unreasonable demands
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Standing up for oneself against a difficult family situation

Teen girl stands up to unreasonable demands after mom’s death

Stand up for yourself! Contact social services ASAP. ⚖️

Daughter stands up to abusive dad after mom’s death.

Prioritize school and self-care during grief

Don’t let grief turn into emotional abuse. #NTA

Sending love and internet hugs. Don’t skip school for chores

Teens should not be solely responsible for household after mom’s death

Stand up for yourself and don’t let others dictate.

Setting boundaries during grief is important. Definitely not the a**hole.

Father’s creepy behavior towards daughter after mother’s death. NTA.

Don’t let your dad control you. Stand up for yourself!

Seek help from other adults to escape unreasonable demands.

After losing her mom, a teen stands up to her dad

Compassionate comment supports teen girl’s struggle with grieving father

Teen girl faces unreasonable demands from dad after mom’s death

Grieving OP stands up to dad’s demands, not the a**hole

You are NTA. Don’t let anyone belittle your grief

Grieving daughter stands up for herself, not a replacement for mom

Teen girl takes charge after mom’s death. NTA for setting boundaries.

Set boundaries and take care of yourself during this difficult time
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Commenter expresses concern and urges for help for abuse victims.

Teen girl stands up to unreasonable demands from grieving dad.

Supportive commenter offers helpful advice and condolences

Commenter calls out dad’s inappropriate behavior towards daughter.

Don’t let your dad neglect your grief. Seek help.

Supportive dad shares advice on coping with grief ❤️

Daughter stands up to father’s inappropriate behavior after mother’s death

Stand up to unreasonable demands. Seek help from a counselor.

Don’t parentify yourself, be a teenager and seek counseling

Stand up to unreasonable demands and run for peace ♀️

Teen girl defends herself against hurtful aunt after mom’s death ❤️

Teen daughter refuses to be her dad’s replacement wife

Be your own advocate!

Heartbreaking comment receives no response from insensitive family members.
