Father Chooses to House One Son and Kick out The Other After Disturbing Discovery

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A father is in a difficult situation after his son's marriage crumbles due to infidelity. One son is the victim, while the other is complicit in the affair. The father must choose between his two sons as one is thrown out of the house. Is he playing favorites or doing what's best for his family?

The situation is complicated by financial struggles and COVID-19. The father is faced with criticism from both his ex-in-laws and his own conscience. Will he make the right decision, or will he be seen as an a**hole for choosing one son over the other?

Heartbroken father forced to choose between his sons 💔

choseotherson | choseotherson

Father disowns son, hides reason from family, isolates himself and son.

choseotherson | choseotherson

Son's infidelity leads to family division and financial struggles.

choseotherson | choseotherson

Father kicks out son with a disturbing discovery 😱

choseotherson | choseotherson

Father kicks out son for betraying family in marital affair.

choseotherson | choseotherson

Ex-husband faces backlash after housing one son over the other

choseotherson | choseotherson

Respecting boundaries: Father chooses sides after disturbing discovery

choseotherson | choseotherson

Tough love or being an a**hole? A father's dilemma 🔥

choseotherson | choseotherson

Father kicks out son for affair with other son's wife 🤯

A father faces backlash for choosing to house one son and kick out the other after discovering that he had an affair with his brother's wife. The cheating son had been living with his father due to financial problems caused by the pandemic. However, after the disturbing revelation, the father gave him a timeframe to leave.

Meanwhile, the other son had just left his wife after discovering her infidelity and refused to come back home with his brother present. The father believes that he needs to respect his son's wishes and protect him from further emotional distress. However, he faces criticism from his ex-in-laws and his ex-wife for playing favorites and not mediating between his sons.

The situation has left the father feeling angry and conflicted, questioning whether he is an a**hole for not helping out his other son. Read on for the public's reactions to this family drama.

NTA. Father defends decision to kick out son for sleeping with brother's wife.

Apart-Sleep-5627 | Apart-Sleep-5627

Commenter suggests ex-wife should house son, sparks agreement from others 👍

Careful-Listen2277 | Careful-Listen2277

NTA for kicking out brother who had an affair with sister-in-law.

newbeginingshey | newbeginingshey

Sibling betrayal leads to harsh consequences. NTA takes action.

usernamesarestewpid | usernamesarestewpid

NTA for prioritizing the innocent brother. 🙌

[deleted] | [deleted]

Cheating ex gets a taste of his own medicine 🤷🏼‍♀️

SteampunkHarley | SteampunkHarley

Father's tough decision after betrayal earns NTA judgement 👍

CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000

Family betrayal? NTA dad chooses loyalty over blood ties 👊

Mysterious-System680 | Mysterious-System680

Brother's betrayal leads to tough love and job search.

No_Meringue_9031 | No_Meringue_9031

Commenter calls out others for not helping, supports NTA verdict

cave_mandarin | cave_mandarin

Protecting the victim. 👏 NTA for taking action.

zodiac-war | zodiac-war

One son kicked out for bad behavior, father not in wrong 👍

Snoo_7492 | Snoo_7492

NTA. Father praised for standing up to son who ruined brother's marriage. 👏

Vixtal | Vixtal

Commenter sympathizes with Jack and calls wife's affair partner a moocher.

MRSAMinor | MRSAMinor

Andrew burned his bed, now he'll have to sleep on random couches 💁‍♂️ NTA

GreekAmericanDom | GreekAmericanDom

Choosing between sons leads to justified NTA response 👍

curious_seahorse1 | curious_seahorse1

Andrew gets kicked out for sleeping with his brother's wife 😬

Redbarrow_7727 | Redbarrow_7727

Tough love? Comment suggests son face consequences of his actions.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Son had a free ride & could've moved out. NTA 👍

Corduroycat1 | Corduroycat1

27-year-old son kicked out for screwing over family. 💥

squeezil | squeezil

Commenter supports father's decision to kick out son for inappropriate behavior.

MainComposer3645 | MainComposer3645

Supportive response to tough love parenting 🤝

Respoken_text | Respoken_text

Father takes a stand to protect his betrayed son. 👏

roxxkie97 | roxxkie97

Commenter gets forgiven for pseudonym mistake 👍

stalefuzzball85 | stalefuzzball85

Choosing one son over another is heartbreaking. NTA for prioritizing Jack.

Initial_Garlic7876 | Initial_Garlic7876

Tough choice between sons, but did the father make the right call?

Competitive-Proof410 | Competitive-Proof410

Brother sleeps with sister-in-law, gets kicked out. NTA.

Dense_Homework2908 | Dense_Homework2908

Supportive reply with legal insight 🤟

briecarter | briecarter

Betrayal has consequences. No pity for the disloyal 🤷‍♂️

Disastrous_Branch_57 | Disastrous_Branch_57

A tough situation. Empathy for the father's dilemma. 😢

SoapySoap147 | SoapySoap147

Standing up for family, NTA earns respect 👍

Freakin_Merida88 | Freakin_Merida88

Brother learns actions have consequences, gets kicked out. NTA 👍

Odd_One_9972 | Odd_One_9972

Fair parenting or favoritism? The debate continues. 🤔

niennabobenna | niennabobenna

Teaching tough love: Father's consequences for son's actions. 👨‍👦

Justahotdadbod | Justahotdadbod

Short and to the point. 👍

4feicsake | 4feicsake

Ex-husband's terrible actions lead to son's eviction. NTA.

nerdy_latino | nerdy_latino

Supportive comment, praising the parent for good decision-making 👏

escape777 | escape777

Commenter suggests editing names for clarity; parent agrees.

magali_with_an_i | magali_with_an_i

Teaching empathy through tough love? 🤔

Cassubeans | Cassubeans

Tough love or justified punishment? NTA dad kicks son out

I_Have_A_Question28 | I_Have_A_Question28

Tough love wins. NTA chooses son wisely 👍

rydendm | rydendm

👍 Good call. No a-hole here.

elepheyes | elepheyes

Setting boundaries and prioritizing mental health, NTA brother needs therapy

bigmisssteak7 | bigmisssteak7

Dad makes tough call and earns praise as a great parent 👍🏽

ms_angry_cookie | ms_angry_cookie

Sibling rivalry taken to the extreme 🤪

smurfgrl417 | smurfgrl417

Being a good father means doing what's right. 👍

TheWanderingMedic | TheWanderingMedic

Breaking the trust- a brotherly betrayal 😔👬

hurrayinfamy | hurrayinfamy

Savage suggestion for father's son eviction 🤭💥

Taurus67 | Taurus67

Choosing sides: Father kicks out son after disturbing discovery

howdouhavegoodnames | howdouhavegoodnames

Andrew gets what he deserves 😏

Specific_Simple_8865 | Specific_Simple_8865

No middle ground. NTA agrees with father's tough choice.

RawbeardXX | RawbeardXX

Choosing between sons - did he make the right call? 🤔

Pure_Development_889 | Pure_Development_889

Cut off and considered dead to the family as a hole 💀

Trasl0 | Trasl0

Ex-wife trivializing sons' fight, commenter is NTA 👍

simslover0819 | simslover0819

Support for OP's decision to stand up for betrayed son ❤

reedpig | reedpig

Tough love or playing favorites? A father's decision sparks debate 🤔

mangababe | mangababe

Heartbreaking family dilemma - a father's tough decision.

Geezheeztall | Geezheeztall

Being an only child has its perks 😉

Kaiser93 | Kaiser93

NTA for choosing one son over the other 💔

Limerase | Limerase

Support for father's decision to kick out one son

clemenspoint | clemenspoint

Commenter expresses justified anger towards a family betrayal 👊🤬

blueblossom17 | blueblossom17

Andrew got what he deserved 😏👍

flawandordersvu | flawandordersvu

Supporting the victim and not the perpetrator. NTA 👍

melympia | melympia

Cutting toxic family members? NTA, be a great parent 👍

itsdandito | itsdandito

Father makes tough but fair decision, deemed not an a**hole

mdthomas | mdthomas

Sibling rivalry at its worst 🙄

Expensive-Network-93 | Expensive-Network-93

Parenting done right! 👏👍 Making tough decisions for the betterment of your child's life. Ignore the haters. 💪

kaitlynnkidd | kaitlynnkidd

NTA, one son must face consequences of affair with brother's wife 🤦‍♂️

fulcrum_ct-7567 | fulcrum_ct-7567

Commenter supports father's decision to kick out son's homewrecker friend.

aaronwarnerswife | aaronwarnerswife

Heartbreaking family betrayal, NTA for choosing to protect yourself.

CharliPants | CharliPants

Sibling drama: NTA chooses brother's wife over entitled Andrew

BipolarBippidyBoo | BipolarBippidyBoo

Son cheated on, dad kicks out other son. NTA.

neeksknowsbest | neeksknowsbest