Bride-to-Be Goes Off on STBH for Returning Her Dream Wedding Dress

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A bride-to-be is in shock after her fiance returns her wedding dress without her permission. She had bought it for a couple of thousand, but her soon-to-be-husband (STBH) said it was too expensive and suggested she rent one instead. After she refused, he took it upon himself to return the dress and get the money back, causing her to blow up at him. He then accused her of setting the tone for their marriage by being irresponsible with money. Who's the a**hole in this situation? Read on to find out more.

Wedding planning brings out the worst in couples sometimes 💐

sealine5033 | sealine5033

Frustrated bride-to-be fights for her dream wedding dress 💍

sealine5033 | sealine5033

Make your wedding day special with the perfect dress 💍

sealine5033 | sealine5033

Bridezilla vs. STBH over dream wedding dress vs. rental suggestion

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Groomzilla strikes again: Returned bride's dream dress for being 'expensive' 😒

sealine5033 | sealine5033

Bridezilla goes ballistic on fiance over dress 😱

sealine5033 | sealine5033

Bride-to-be faces financial conflict with STBH before wedding day 💰

sealine5033 | sealine5033

Bride-to-be stands up for dream dress against judgmental STBH 👰

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Groom still holding money for dream dress, bride seeks resolution

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Dream wedding dress drama 💔💍

Wedding planning is stressful, but when the STBH disagrees with the bride-to-be's dream wedding dress, things can get heated. In this post, the bride-to-be shares her frustration with her STBH for returning her dream dress, claiming it's a waste of money. While the STBH suggests renting or buying a cheaper dress, the bride-to-be argues that it's her right as a bride to have the dress of her dreams. The argument escalates, and even the STBH's mother gets involved. Read on to find out how this bride-to-be tackles the issue and how it sets the tone for their future marriage dynamic.

Red flags abound! Commenters warn of controlling fiance and meddling MIL.

JayMeiCee | JayMeiCee

Controlling fiancé returns dream dress - NTA deserves refund 💰

Pleasant_Birthday_77 | Pleasant_Birthday_77

Bride-to-be's fiancé stole and sided with mom. Cancel wedding? 💍

mdthomas | mdthomas

Red flags in wedding planning, consider counseling. NTA.

TooGood2beDrew | TooGood2beDrew

Consider financial compatibility before saying 'I do' 💰💍

splishyness | splishyness

Fiance commits cardinal sins and mom fights his battle. 🤦‍♂️

crockofpot | crockofpot

Bride-to-be is NTA, but her fiancé and his mom sure are 🚩

Natfreerider | Natfreerider

Commenter suggests couples counseling or ditching fiance. 💔

Emmiburr | Emmiburr

Bridezilla or not, returning a bride's wedding dress without discussing it is wrong 😒

agathalives | agathalives

Bride-to-be's fiancé steals and sells her wedding dress 😱 RUN!

ladylaaa | ladylaaa

A serious comment with a humorous twist 😂

Wetnosedcretin | Wetnosedcretin

Wedding expenses causing financial tension. Communication and budgeting needed 💰💬

bass9045 | bass9045

Bride-to-be faces judgment for prioritizing 'girly' things 💄💇

procrastinating_b | procrastinating_b

Money and a dream dress cause conflict between couple 💰👰

survivoroftequila | survivoroftequila

Supportive comment and reply suggest controlling fiancé, with snake emoji.

bikergeekx | bikergeekx

Money issues causing pre-wedding tension 💰💔

HoldFastO2 | HoldFastO2

Bride-to-be fights for dream dress, STBH holding money hostage 🤯

goodwithsalt | goodwithsalt

👰💔 Keep the dress, dump the fiancé. NTA wins.

VolGalBrad | VolGalBrad

Debate over validity of the story's main plot point 🤔

justheretosavestuff | justheretosavestuff

Wedding canceled? Commenter thinks not, not the a-hole.

Decent_Sky_9880 | Decent_Sky_9880

Dump him! 💔👎 NTA for standing up for yourself.

Mean_Environment4856 | Mean_Environment4856

Fiancé insults her appearance and returns her dress! 😡 NTA!

consectariana | consectariana

NTA, but huge red flags. Consider reading r/JustNoMil for support.

Help24-7 | Help24-7

Think twice before marrying someone who runs to mommy 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Wedding planning uncovered some serious communication issues. 🤔

saurellia | saurellia

Red flag alert! 🚩 Bride-to-be receives returned wedding dress

plasticinsanity | plasticinsanity

🚨 Red flag alert! 🚨 Bride-to-be's fiancé is controlling and critical.

canuck_2022 | canuck_2022

Red flag alert! 🚩 Controlling partners are never a good idea. 💔

teresajs | teresajs

Her fiancé's lack of respect for her opinion is concerning 😬

thewhiterosequeen | thewhiterosequeen

👰🏻👗 Bride's partner controlling her wedding look? 🤔 NTA for setting boundaries.

Dry-Comment-6889 | Dry-Comment-6889

Don't settle for a Wish dress! Dodge that bullet 💍💔

invomitous-rex | invomitous-rex

Bride-to-be stands up for herself and dodges a bullet 💍

diskebbin | diskebbin

Money troubles causing wedding dress drama 💰💔

slutforlibraries | slutforlibraries

Partner's behavior could lead to controlling and abusive relationship. 😔

whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73

Don't get another dress, get a future without this guy. 💔

Professional_Ad9013 | Professional_Ad9013

Commenter's intense reaction to unknown situation. 🤪

Taleya | Taleya

Objective strangers warn bride-to-be of disaster in marrying Mamma's boy 👰‍♀️🤵

SpecialistOk577 | SpecialistOk577

Stand your ground! 💪 You deserve to feel beautiful on YOUR day!

mochimellow369 | mochimellow369

🚩 NTA commenter warns of controlling behavior and lack of respect.

Odd-Target3043 | Odd-Target3043

Money, religion, and household chores are major stressors on relationships 😬

PickleLips64151 | PickleLips64151

Future spouse trying to control your money? 🤔 Have a talk before the altar. 💍

Illustrious-Tour-247 | Illustrious-Tour-247

Take control of your wedding dress! 🙌👰 But, is he the one? 🤔

EzrasWriter | EzrasWriter

Commenter calls out bride's boyfriend with a fiery NTA 🔥

Low-Total9121 | Low-Total9121

Commenter warns about controlling fiancé in wedding dress debacle 👰‍♀️💔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Wedding size doesn't matter, trust does. Should she call it off?

Mericatt-Gamer | Mericatt-Gamer

Justified NTA ruling, partner's mom interference raises red flags 👍

bamf1701 | bamf1701

Prioritize love over the perfect dress ❤️

MollyRolls | MollyRolls

🚫 NTA. Red flags all around. Dump him before it's too late.

Big__Bang | Big__Bang

Choosing acronyms over the word fiancé? NTA but reconsider relationship 💔❌

[deleted] | [deleted]

Bride-to-be receives dream dress, but also red flags from STBH 👀

mm172 | mm172

👰🏼💔 Bride-to-be's dream dress returned by STBH, rethinking marriage 🤔

Careful-Bumblebee-10 | Careful-Bumblebee-10

🚩 Red flag alert: Controlling groom returns bride's dream dress.

Zookeeper-007 | Zookeeper-007

Money talk before wedding is crucial. 🤑 ESH for poor communication.

jimfish98 | jimfish98

Commenter predicts divorce in a dress debate 💍💔

Frosty_Engine_7575 | Frosty_Engine_7575

👰🏻‍♀️💔 Reassessing the relationship after controlling dress incident. NTA.

anaisaknits | anaisaknits

Is spending lavishly on weddings a recipe for divorce? 💍

Lanknurful | Lanknurful

Commenter calls out STBH for being sexist and dishonest. Raises valid points about finances and joint expenses. 💍

Usrname52 | Usrname52

Commenter advises bride-to-be to reconsider marrying a mama's boy 💍

deathtofumanchu | deathtofumanchu

Money troubles before marriage? 💸💍 Think twice about tying knot

AbbyBirb | AbbyBirb

Fiery finance debate sparks doubts about marriage readiness 💰🤔

Cartoonlad | Cartoonlad

👰🏼👎🏼 Bride-to-be's STBH shows controlling behavior by returning her dress

Various-Bridge-325 | Various-Bridge-325

Wedding expenses causing conflict? 💸💍

Erdb33rmaedchen | Erdb33rmaedchen

Potential warning signs of abuse, run before it's too late ⚠️

EbbAccording834 | EbbAccording834

Money talks, and this NTA knows it 💰💬

JoeMamaGamers | JoeMamaGamers

Marriage is about teamwork, not control 💍👫

VoyagerVII | VoyagerVII