After losing a lot of weight, a woman is infuriated at the way people are now treating her. She explains how being overweight affected her life, from the constant jokes and comments to the scrutiny over her food choices. She stopped caring in her 20s and started moving her body for enjoyment and to alleviate her depression. She’s now vegan and has lost a lot of weight. People are nicer to her, but she’s angry about the way they’re treating her differently. At a family event, she asked people to stop commenting on her body, but they persisted. She snapped and told them how disgusting it was. Her family is upset with her for making things awkward. Is she the a**hole ?
Overcoming fat shaming: one woman’s weight loss journey
Navigating toxic comments on body image and weight loss
Embracing body positivity in a society that glorifies thinness
Veganism as a lifestyle choice for physical and mental well-being.
From size 18/20 to 10/12, woman is ambivalent about weight loss.
Feeling noticed and appreciated after weight loss transformation ✨
Positive attention after weight loss, but at what cost?
Woman frustrated with being treated differently after weight loss.
OP asks family to stop commenting on weight, met with resistance
Overcoming fatphobia from family and finding true support system
Woman calls out family’s double standards in concern for health ⚖️
Woman confronts family’s shallow weight loss comments
Family pressures woman over weight loss, causes uncomfortable gathering. AITA?
OP decides to end anonymity, what’s the reason behind it?
Woman stands up for herself, refuses to apologize for setting boundaries
Wrapping up the discussion with some final insights
Advocating for equality in body positivity
Create a loving environment for all body types ❤️
Take control of your health and speak up for yourself
Embracing body positivity amidst weight loss criticism
Looks can be deceiving, health is not just skin deep
Debating health vs. body size: a nuanced conversation
Get ready to face the heat in the comments
Positive comment section filled with gratitude and sparkle emojis ✨️
Short and sweet goodbye message from the commenter
Woman tells family to stop commenting on her weight loss
A woman who recently lost a lot of weight shares how people’s treatment of her has changed since she became smaller. She talks about the difficulties of growing up fat and how she reached a point where she didn’t care anymore. She also shares how she lost weight unintentionally while enjoying her life and alleviating her depressive episodes. However, she’s angry about the treatment she receives now that she’s smaller. People are nicer to her and she’s treated with basic human decency, which infuriates her. She shares her experience at a recent family event where people persisted in commenting on her weight loss , even though she asked them to stop. She called out her family’s fatphobia and how they only care about her looks, not her health. Her family left soon after and she’s left wondering if she’s the a**hole. Read on for comments and reactions.
Stop commenting on people’s bodies, even if you think it’s a compliment.
Empowering response to weight loss comments.
Reflecting on unconscious bias toward overweight individuals, 100% NTA.
Family’s supposed support can be the worst. Weight is not about health.
Standing up to family’s weight comments, NTA!
Weight loss is not always a good thing. Congratulating people on it can be problematic.
Fighting weight bias, one comment at a time!
Supportive commenter shares experience of weight loss and body shaming.
Acknowledging unconscious bias can lead to growth and healing. ✨
Body shaming is toxic, NTA for standing up for yourself
Defending weight loss and mental health, NTA comment wins.
Empathetic comment validates struggles with weight loss ❤️
Celebrate yourself! NTA for reminding your family of your value
Standing up to family’s body-shaming sparks argument
Don’t comment on anyone’s weight, it’s not your business
Empathize with hurt feelings, NTA comment receives support
Defending her right to body autonomy and exposing weight bias.
Strangers praised weight loss, but family’s compliments only caused harm
Commenter shares a story of a lost friend to emphasize concern.
Woman upset men hit on her after weight loss, ESH.
Empowering comment, stand up for yourself!
Congrats on your weight loss, but NTA for setting boundaries
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Rejecting fake beauty standards, commenter stands up for self-love ❤️
Commenter criticized for misplaced rage in weight loss argument.
Commenter suggests weight loss made OP happier, receives backlash.
Commenter accuses woman of immaturity for rejecting family’s concern
Losing weight and receiving attention can be overwhelming
Woman defends her weight loss, family disagrees. NTA wins.
Debating the thin line between body positivity and health concerns.
Commenter praises OP for standing up to weight-shaming family.
Self-love is important, YTA comment sparks discussion
Controversial comment receives no replies
Comment suggests therapy for bitter OP. ♀️
Weight loss does not define you. NTA.
Traumatic brain injury led to harmful weight loss obsession. NTA.
Mixed feelings on weight comments, but going off is extreme
Empathetic reply applauds OP’s handling of insensitive family
Overcoming weight-related insecurities and living life on one’s own terms
Overcoming depression and unhealthy eating habits is commendable ✨
Encouraging comment on weight loss, shows empathy and support.
Empathetic response to weight loss comment with a touch of sarcasm
Stand up for yourself, but don’t expect them to understand
Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries.
NTA. Calling out rude behavior is uncomfortable, but necessary
Boundary respected, family ignored. NTA stands her ground.
Society’s beauty standards affect how we’re treated.
Overcoming depression is hard, congratulating weight loss is messed up ✊
Struggling with weight loss due to medication side effects
The struggle of being treated differently after weight loss
Set boundaries for body talk. ♀️
Not the a**hole for setting boundaries
Body shaming is never okay. Your health is between you and your doctor.
Supportive comment applauding for standing up to family’s comments
Losing weight comes with its own set of challenges
The complexities of commenting on weight loss and body image
Supportive commenter empathizes with OP’s experience and sends virtual hug
Diabetic woman shuts down weight loss inquiries with snark.
Kelly Osborne’s weight loss praised in comment section, NTA!
Weight loss changes perception, but not the need for sensitivity.
Is this comment calling BS on the article?
