Turning 30 can be a big deal, but one man's expectations for his birthday month have left his wife feeling overwhelmed and frustrated. He wants a month-long vacation from his responsibilities as a partner and father, but his wife can't afford to pick up the slack. Is she being selfish for refusing to cater to his demands? Or is he being ridiculous for expecting so much? Read on to find out who's the A-hole in this situation.
Man Expects Month-Long Birthday Vacation From Responsibilities, Wife Refuses
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🎉Husband's month-long birthday expectations clash with wife's responsibilities👩👧
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Husband demands month-long birthday celebration, wife refuses, AITA?
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Man expects month-long birthday vacation from responsibilities, wife refuses 😳
Turning 30 is a big deal, but expecting a month-long birthday vacation from all responsibilities as a partner and a father? 🤔 That's what one man's "birthday month expectations" included, and his wife does not have it. She refused to agree to anything on his list, which included not doing any chores or paying rent for the month, playing Xbox for hours without interruption, and skipping workdays to sleep in. 🙅♀️ Although the man argued that his parents and friends had done this for him in the past, his wife couldn't afford to comply with his demands and needs his help. 💰 Now, he's giving her grief and avoiding her, making her wonder if she went too far. AITA? Let's take a look at what the comment section has to say about this entitled birthday behavior. 😬
Wife refuses to give husband a month-long birthday vacation. NTA
Mofukin_Irisden | Mofukin_Irisden
NTA for calling out entitled birthday month request 🎂
RedoubtableSouth | RedoubtableSouth
Commenter finds the situation hilarious, questions the husband's maturity 🤣
yourlittlebirdie | yourlittlebirdie
Don't be a narcissist, be grateful for cake and ice cream 🎂🍦
Solrackai | Solrackai
Commenter agrees with husband's entitlement, receives support and humor.
TigersLovePepper3 | TigersLovePepper3
Man demands month-long birthday vacation from responsibilities, wife refuses. NTA
Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy
Commenter and reply agree: husband is a self-centered loser 🙄
BiTimbersFan | BiTimbersFan
Wife shuts down husband's month-long birthday vacation request 🙅♀️
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Commenter calls out OP's husband for acting like a child 🙄
RedGambit9 | RedGambit9
Man expects month-long vacation from responsibilities, including sleeping around 🤨
Historical_Alarm_889 | Historical_Alarm_889
No birthday month entitlement, even for royalties 👑🎂
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NTA - Did you marry a toddler? 😂
hollyjazzy | hollyjazzy
NTA expects birthday month off, wife refuses. Ridiculous entitlement 🙄
yhaensch | yhaensch
Set boundaries, it's a day not a month 🎂🚫📅
Responsible_Phase890 | Responsible_Phase890
Husband wants month-long vacation from responsibilities, wife refuses. NTA.
mizfit0416 | mizfit0416
Commenter questions why woman is with lazy husband, agrees NTA.
fourintwelve | fourintwelve
Mom had a rough 30th birthday due to complications, NTA.
brainwashedbyscience | brainwashedbyscience
Op's husband expects a month-long vacation for his birthday 🙄
sawta2112 | sawta2112
Fed up with your lazy partner? Divorce papers make great gift 🎁
Interesting_Sea_7815 | Interesting_Sea_7815
Marriage imbalance leads to justified NTA judgement. 💪
oksccrlvr | oksccrlvr
Commenter calls out immaturity of birthday vacation request 🙄
SnooBunnies1088 | SnooBunnies1088
A reminder that love is not selfish, even on birthdays. 💕
Dull-Brilliant-4660 | Dull-Brilliant-4660
Birthday month off from parenting? NTA thinks otherwise 🤔
jacquilynne | jacquilynne
Commenter calls out entitled behavior with a no-nonsense approach 👏
user24568 | user24568
Partner demands month-long birthday vacation, commenters call out selfishness 💁
Serious-Papaya-7713 | Serious-Papaya-7713
Wife suggests fair exchange of birthday month vacation rules. NTA.
walbaxal | walbaxal
Wife refuses husband's month-long birthday vacation request. Red flag? 👀
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Wife refuses month-long bday vacation from responsibilities. NTA.
Octopie1107 | Octopie1107
Wife refuses husband's month-long birthday vacation: NTA comment.
Ancient-Regular4007 | Ancient-Regular4007
Rude comment receives no sympathy from comment section 😑
rekniht01 | rekniht01
Husband's entitled birthday dream month stirs up marital conflict. NTA's response echoes our thoughts 💭🤔
gozba | gozba
Wife threatens to divorce husband over his month-long birthday vacation demand 🤯
OneTrueMel | OneTrueMel
Commenter calls out immaturity, no one disagrees 🤔
Potential_Speech_703 | Potential_Speech_703
👏 NTA's verdict: Self-absorbed birthday boy gets rejected 👏
LollipopThrowAway- | LollipopThrowAway-
Commenter calls out entitled behavior with humorous tone 🤣
Mr_Extraction | Mr_Extraction
Wife denies month-long birthday vacation to immature husband 🙄
GlitteringPaint899 | GlitteringPaint899
Emotionally immature man wants month-long frat boy vacation, NTA agrees
ScarletteMayWest | ScarletteMayWest
Partner expecting month-long birthday vacation, refuses responsibilities. NTA.
Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1
Taking a birthday PTO is enough 🎂👍
DocChloroplast | DocChloroplast
Commenter calls out immature behavior, no replies.
Kmia55 | Kmia55
Wife denies month-long birthday vacation, NTA comment agrees.
queen_perra | queen_perra
Spouse's entitlement to month-long birthday vacation causes uproar. NTA.
ohsogreen | ohsogreen
Commenter advises OP to ask husband to grow up. 💪 NTA
Miss_Basu | Miss_Basu
Commenter relates to lazy husband, receives no sympathy from wife 🤨
Kobe_no_Ushi_Y0k0zna | Kobe_no_Ushi_Y0k0zna
Playful comment sparks gender stereotypes debate 🤔👥
ButteryBisquit | ButteryBisquit
Commenter finds husband's request ridiculous, supports wife's decision 🤣
Any-Comment-7575 | Any-Comment-7575
Commenter supports the husband's behavior, wife disagrees. #NTA 🤔
ctonj | ctonj
Birthday month? Yes. Month off responsibilities? No. NTA.
bek410 | bek410
Adults don't get month-long birthday vacations 🙄
atomicmindfuck | atomicmindfuck
Man tries to shirk responsibilities for birthday, wife says no 🙅
BeneficialDark1662 | BeneficialDark1662
Commenter shuts down entitled husband with fiery insult 🔥
swwefftuu | swwefftuu
Man wants month-long birthday vacation, wife refuses. NTA comments.
cosmic_jenny | cosmic_jenny
Commenter calls out lazy partner, sparks discussion 👀💬
Unusual_Individual93 | Unusual_Individual93
Curious about age and occupation. Christmas expectations as retaliation? 🤔
watchingonsidelines | watchingonsidelines
