Family can be a blessing and a curse. In this case, it's both. My sister's fiancé, Dale, is not someone I want to be around - let alone live with. He has a track record of being rude, obnoxious, and freeloading. As if that wasn't enough, he's unable to hold down a job and has a history of getting fired or quitting. My sister is pregnant, and they need a place to stay. She's asking me to let them stay with me, but I hesitate to say yes. I'm worried about the potential headache of having Dale in my home. Despite my concerns, my sister is angry with me for not trusting them and being unwilling to help her fiancé out. Am I The A**hole for not wanting to house Dale?
Family Drama: Pregnant Sister Asks To Move In With Her Fiancé, But I Can't Stand Him
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Family drama ensues as a man (Dale) with a reputation for being a rude, obnoxious slob is asked to move in by his pregnant fiancé's brother. The brother is concerned about Dale's history of not paying rent, getting fired from his job, and causing trouble in public. Despite attempts to avoid interactions with Dale, the brother is now faced with a difficult decision on whether or not to let him stay. Read on to find out if he should put up with his sister's fiancé or stand his ground.
Comment section comparing the unlikable Dale to different fruits 🍑🍍🍊🥭
IAmHerdingCatz | IAmHerdingCatz
NTA for not letting sister's problematic fiancé in. Suggestions for clear boundaries.
Ctiiu | Ctiiu
Protect your home from potential tenant drama. NTA.
CelticSkye | CelticSkye
Fiancé with a bad track record, NTA won't take him in
[deleted] | [deleted]
No fiancé allowed in the house, sister agrees. 🚫
Glittering-War-5748 | Glittering-War-5748
Supportive comment, no need to deal with problematic fiancé
Sheila_Monarch | Sheila_Monarch
NTA! Your house, your rules. She needs a reality check 😎
godless-life | godless-life
Protect yourself from unwanted tenants with tenant laws 👍
Zombiemommy1980 | Zombiemommy1980
Don't let him guilt you! You'll regret it. 🚫
Mpg19470 | Mpg19470
Supportive advice to pregnant sister dealing with difficult fiancé.
Boozychka | Boozychka
Setting boundaries is important. NTA for protecting your space 🚪
cecassafrass | cecassafrass
Sister's fiancé a nightmare? ❌ Extend hand to her? ✅
issoecoisadefudido | issoecoisadefudido
NTA, but Dale needs to go 🤞
WadeJHawkins | WadeJHawkins
Stand your ground, NTA! 🙌 Don't let Dale in 👎
MyFriendsCallMeEpic | MyFriendsCallMeEpic
Protect your home 🚫 and relationship 💔, NTA. Don't let them stay.
MinxyChick | MinxyChick
Sister's fiance may end up living with you, NTA.
iiiBansheeiii | iiiBansheeiii
Don't invite toxicity into your home. #NTA 🚫
Johnsonah | Johnsonah
Protect your home from jerks 🚫🙅♀️
I-cant-hug-every-cat | I-cant-hug-every-cat
Protect your home! 🚫🏠 Don't let Dale in 😉
manderifffic | manderifffic
Supportive advice: Taking time away from fiancé may help sister 💪
HollyGoLately | HollyGoLately
Don't invite Dale! 🚫 NTA for standing your ground.
CMSkye | CMSkye
Protect your boundaries. Keep the emotional vampire out. ❌
Cappmonkey | Cappmonkey
Protect your peace ✌️. Don't let this toxic fiancé move in.
InfluenceAny1735 | InfluenceAny1735
Don't let Dale ruin your home 🚫🛌 Stand your ground
Bunnawhat13 | Bunnawhat13
Setting boundaries with pregnant sister's boyfriend is tricky 🤔
[deleted] | [deleted]
Stand your ground! Don't let him move in 👊
lc_2005 | lc_2005
Standing up to a disliked brother-in-law-to-be. 🚫🤵
Flangella-Fairyfloss | Flangella-Fairyfloss
Sister's fiancé overstaying welcome? NTA, don't let it happen.
ghosted_fruitmelon | ghosted_fruitmelon
Don't let her fiancé ruin your home 🏠🚫
wind-river7 | wind-river7
Family can't ignore red flags, NTA for setting boundaries 👍
crella-ann | crella-ann
Commenter's NTA verdict receives no objections from commenters.
snowkitten21 | snowkitten21
Protect your boundaries, don't let him in. 🚫
Rnotmyrealdad | Rnotmyrealdad
Commenter expresses concern for sister's future child. 😳
Kitsumekat | Kitsumekat
Commenter calls out sister's fiancé with clever insult 👏
sangfoudre | sangfoudre
Standing up for yourself against abusers is important ❤️
neje | neje
Short and sweet: commenter is NTA.
UltimateBe | UltimateBe
Trust your instincts and say no to your pregnant sister.
Dimityblue | Dimityblue
Be cautious of Dale's sneaky moves! 🕵️♀️📬
john_myco | john_myco
Don't let guilt take over. Stand your ground 🙅♀️
Whatever2030 | Whatever2030
Setting boundaries with your sister's fiance? NTA ⚖️
[deleted] | [deleted]
Valid concerns about pregnant sister's fiancé moving in. NTA 👍
dactotheband | dactotheband
Clear judgement! What's the story behind it? 🤔
ctj1700 | ctj1700
Supporting pregnant sister but not her fiancé. 👍
happycoffeebean13 | happycoffeebean13
Don't let Dale weasel his way in. Set boundaries with sister.
CompetitiveLecture5 | CompetitiveLecture5
Commenter refuses sister's fiancé to set foot on their property.
Legan_Ironfist | Legan_Ironfist
Not the a**hole, but why? Tell us more 🤔
Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612
Supportive comment urges moving on from toxic fiancé 🤝
Kittykittygumdrop | Kittykittygumdrop
Letting go of toxic relationships is hard, but necessary 👍
nova9001 | nova9001
Sister's fiancé is a clown, hoping she realizes it soon 🤡
newsforyababy | newsforyababy
Don't sacrifice your peace of mind for your sister's fiance 🙏
msmith730 | msmith730
Prioritize baby or sinking ship? NTA draws the line
Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113
Commenter calls out sister's fiancé in brutal yet funny way 💩
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Supporting pregnant sister without the fiancé. 🤰💰
Numerous_Team_2998 | Numerous_Team_2998
Protect your space 🚫🚶♂️
Wibblejellytime | Wibblejellytime
Short and sweet - a NTA judgement with no drama 🙌
openingoneself | openingoneself
Supportive brother sets boundaries for pregnant sister's fiancé. NTA 🙌
JustnoSnark | JustnoSnark
Sister's fiancé is a no-go. NTA for setting boundaries.
rashhannani | rashhannani
NTA stands their ground against potential pandemic squatters. 👌
notevenapro | notevenapro
Stand your ground! 💪 He's been a pain to others.
smegheadgirl | smegheadgirl
Boundaries set, door open. Keep calm and stand firm!
icecreampenis | icecreampenis
Sister's fiancé causing family drama, NTA for saying no 🚫
IcelandicDogMom | IcelandicDogMom
You're NTA for not letting your sister's fiancé move in—he needs to step up.
Adorable_Specific_37 | Adorable_Specific_37
Don't let guilt sway you! A freeloading fiancé is trouble.
helloworld367-202 | helloworld367-202
Questioning sister's fiancé: NTA's approach to family drama.
nomad_l17 | nomad_l17
You don't have to accept him as family. NTA 😊
Slokoki | Slokoki
Don't let Dale overstay his welcome! 🚫
MalignantPingas69 | MalignantPingas69
No Dale, no problem! Stand firm and welcome your sister 😊
SnooCats6410 | SnooCats6410
Set boundaries with pregnant sister's fiancé to avoid complications. 👍
Front_Thought_9988 | Front_Thought_9988
Stand your ground! 🚫🏠 Sounds like trouble waiting to happen.
couchnapper3 | couchnapper3
Standing up to a bad fiancé- NTA brother wins!
KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild
Avoid eviction, avoid the fiancé 🏨🙅♂️
DLS3141 | DLS3141
Sister's fiancé wants to move in, but OP says no 🚫
AdrielBast | AdrielBast
Comment section gets spicy as users roast Dale mercilessly 🤣
Allthebestnamesrgon | Allthebestnamesrgon
Setting boundaries with a toxic partner. 🚫
[deleted] | [deleted]
Avoid being a Dale, be NTA 👍
[deleted] | [deleted]
Supporting pregnant sister but not her fiancé for stability 🤰
MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench
Don't invite toxicity into your home, tell him how you feel 😕
catsmom63 | catsmom63
Sister's fiancé has a history of bad behavior, proceed cautiously 🚨
Queen_beeeeee | Queen_beeeeee
