Man Calls Wife Every Morning To Wake Up For Toddler, Is He The A**Hole?

Alfe Mercado
Toddler
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A father seeks advice on whether it's wrong to check on his toddler every morning. He works long hours but always checks on his son remotely via a nursery cam app. When he sees that his son is awake and waiting in his crib, he calls his wife to wake her so she can start their day. However, his wife thinks he's micromanaging her parenting and calls every morning to tell her how to do her job. She has a routine, but the father thinks it needs to be better because his son has to wait so long. Is the father being controlling, or is the mother being negligent? Read on to find out.

Dedicated dad calls wife to wake up for toddler, thoughts?

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Father shares his successful sleep routine for his toddler 🌛

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Dad's morning routine for toddler raises questions, opinions divided ⏰👶

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Doting dad's morning routine with toddler melts hearts ❤️

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Husband struggles to get wife up for toddler duties. 😴⏰

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Husband's morning call to wife turns into breakfast battle 🍳

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Husband's morning wake-up calls for toddler - loving or controlling? 😴

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Struggling mom questions waking routine for toddler, seeks advice 🧐

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Redditor banned for a rule violation, seeks to clarify misunderstanding.

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Husband clarifies wife's parenting skills in Reddit post 🤔

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Husband criticized for waking wife to care for toddler, resolves issue.

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Husband defends himself after post goes viral 🙄

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Understanding the wife's medical issues and the man's dilemma

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Explaining the vitamin B-12 levels in a controversial parenting article.

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B-12 supplements ruled out as reason for chronic fatigue

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Dad shares wife's struggle with postpartum depression and treatment options 💊

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New medication helps mom tackle tiredness and gain energy ✨

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Husband calls wife for toddler, wife's poor scheduling blamed.

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Social media addiction affects new mom's sleep schedule 📱😴

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Husband and wife disagree on the cause of her fatigue 😴

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Defending his wife's parenting skills against online criticism ❤️👏

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Man admits to calling wife lazy, but blames lack of sleep 😴

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Father defends use of cameras to monitor toddler's safety 📹

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Husband wants wife to wake up earlier for toddler, thoughts?

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Grateful OP thanks commenters for eye-opening discussion with wife. ❤️

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Don't be quick to judge: a lesson for all of us 🙏

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Clarification on wife's medication causes controversy in comment section

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Readers twist stories with juicy details. 🤫

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Man calls wife to wake up for their son every morning 😴

A man has been calling his wife every morning to wake up for their toddler after he sees their son awake and waiting for her on the nursery cam app. The man works long hours and is concerned that his son is waiting too long for his mother to wake up and start their day. However, this morning routine has caused arguments between the couple, as the wife feels that the husband is micromanaging her and her parenting skills. The post has received much attention online, with many people weighing in on the situation. Some have criticized the husband for not understanding his wife's situation, while others have suggested that the couple seek professional help to address any underlying issues. Despite the controversy, the man has clarified that he loves his wife and believes she is a wonderful mother. This section will explore some of the comments and reactions to this post.

Leaving a toddler alone for hours in the morning is not okay 🚫

WinterBourne25 | WinterBourne25

Child's quiet behavior prompts humorous comments, while some criticize OP.

coffeecoffi | coffeecoffi

Man's micromanagement causes stress for wife, YTA 🤦‍♂️

oxPsychoticHottie | oxPsychoticHottie

Mother's chronic fatigue is causing neglect, NTA for calling out.

HistorySweet9902 | HistorySweet9902

Micromanaging wife's parenting decisions? 🤔 YTA, OP.

mc2banks3352 | mc2banks3352

Father receives backlash for calling wife to wake up for toddler

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Letting babies have some alone time is good for them 😉

msdu5276769 | msdu5276769

Husband calls wife every morning to help with toddler, but is he wrong? 🤔

Ogreguy | Ogreguy

OP is controlling and creepy for spying on his wife. YTA 😒

ttnl35 | ttnl35

NTA for wanting to ensure child's well-being in the morning.

harlowloverrr | harlowloverrr

Don't ignore your wife's needs, but NTA for caring about your child's wellbeing. 🧑‍👩‍👦

Sneezydiva3 | Sneezydiva3

Commenter calls out husband's behavior as villainous and dystopian 😱

Encartrus | Encartrus

Man insists on waking wife for toddler, commenters disagree. 🤔

Robsnier | Robsnier

Mom fears partner's emotional neglect of child, contemplates leaving. 😔

ildhjerte | ildhjerte

NTA dad calls wife for toddler, but needs to provide more support.

blackgroundhog | blackgroundhog

Husband interrupts wife's schedule, ESH. Need better communication and plan.

undead_sissy | undead_sissy

Parenting struggles: Commenter with 5 kids sympathizes with morning routine.

tgordon0622 | tgordon0622

NTA dad expresses concern for toddler's care, suggests communication with wife 💬

Convetti | Convetti

Commenter suggests motion sensors instead of waking up wife. 👍

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Commenter questions neglect of toddler, replies agree with concern 😕

cutestsea | cutestsea

Is sleeping 10 hours a night normal? 🤔

sonicblue217 | sonicblue217

Commenter calls out controlling behavior, suggests more involvement at home 👀

One-Pause3171 | One-Pause3171

Calling wife every morning for toddler, not AH territory. Wife needs rest 😴

ResponsibilityNo3245 | ResponsibilityNo3245

Mom prioritizing sleep over child? NTA for stepping up. 😴👶

R0mansM0mmy | R0mansM0mmy

Husband criticized for waking wife up for toddler, YTA verdict.

sperans-ns | sperans-ns

Communication is key 🔑 Don't micromanage your spouse.

ncslazar7 | ncslazar7

Concerned husband seeks advice for wife's chronic fatigue syndrome

Huntsvegas97 | Huntsvegas97

NTA for waking wife up, but communication is key 🗤

_flyingmonkey | _flyingmonkey

Commenter calls out YTA for exaggeration, sparks debate 🔥

cinnamngrl | cinnamngrl

Controlling husband causing chaos while working from afar 😒

el-ay-cee | el-ay-cee

Husband's morning routine questioned amidst possible PPD and responsibilities.

Indicababessss | Indicababessss

Controlling husband calls wife YTA for not waking toddler.

RadientCrone | RadientCrone

Safety first! NTA for waking wife up for toddler.

Little_Lexis13 | Little_Lexis13

Controlling behavior causes stress and is unhelpful. 🤨

Labelloenchanted | Labelloenchanted

Working long hours, but NTA for expecting wife to wake up?

BeatrixFarrand | BeatrixFarrand

Supporting a neglected child, but be empathetic towards the wife. 👥

fizzpop0913 | fizzpop0913

🔥 Dumpster fire in the comments, approach with caution.

Trolivia | Trolivia

Father's concern for toddler's hygiene praised by commenters 👍👶

Devildog3269 | Devildog3269

Parenting advice? Commenter gently calls out YTA for waking wife.

OhioGirl22 | OhioGirl22

Sleepless nights causing marital tension? 🤔

cocomilo | cocomilo

A helpful reminder to prioritize your toddler's basic needs 👍

thesnarkypotatohead | thesnarkypotatohead