I Discovered My Mate's Sister's OnlyFans and Told Her to Be Careful, Now My Mate Hates Me

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What do you do when you stumble across your mate's sister on Only Fans? This man tried to protect her anonymity, but when someone else exposed her, he found himself in hot water with his friend and their group. Was he wrong to keep it a secret?

Read the full story to find out the consequences of his actions and whether he broke the bro code.

Discovering a friend's sister's OnlyFans caused a fallout 💔

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Standing up for a mistreated friend can have consequences 😕

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Caught my mate's sister on OnlyFans, advised her, now hated.

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Trying to be a good friend, but accidentally discovered her secret.

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Friend discovers mate's sister's OF, warns her to be careful.

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Helpful advice leads to reconciliation and a hug 🤗

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An anonymous person leaked her OnlyFans content to her parents 😱

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Backlash for warning a friend's sister about her OnlyFans account.

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Navigating the ethics of OnlyFans: To tell or not to tell?

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Navigating the delicate balance of friendship and accountability 👀

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Redemption in progress: A man tries to make amends 👍

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A man discovers his mate's sister on OnlyFans and tries to protect her anonymity, but his actions backfire.

In a world where s*x work is becoming increasingly normalized and OnlyFans accounts are a dime a dozen, a man found himself in a tricky situation when he stumbled across his mate's sister on the site. Wanting to protect her anonymity and privacy, he reached out to her and suggested she blur out some identifiable features in her photos.

She was grateful and made the necessary changes, but unfortunately, someone else identified her and sent the evidence to her parents. This resulted in a huge fallout, with the sister being called all sorts of names and the man being accused of breaking the "bro code."

The situation raises questions about the stigma surrounding s*x work and the need for privacy and anonymity in this line of work. It also highlights the risks involved and the importance of taking precautions to protect oneself. The fallout between the man and his mates is a reminder of the toxicity that can exist within male friendships and the need for open-mindedness and respect for others' choices.

In the next section, we will take a look at some of the reactions to this situation and what it tells us about society's attitudes towards s*x work.

Gentleman helps friend's sister with OnlyFans, family sucks.

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Defending a s*x worker while hypocrites consume and shame her 😐

kkbelles | kkbelles

Defending her right to anonymity, not bro code BS. NTA 🙌

TheBrassDancer | TheBrassDancer

Respecting privacy and autonomy, NTA advises on sister's OnlyFans.

gingasmurf | gingasmurf

NTA is praised and the friend is called out for his disrespectful behavior towards women.

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Protecting someone's privacy is always the right thing to do 🤐

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

Breaking the 'bro code' was worth it 👏🏼🤝 Respect for handling it maturely!

Phil_Oop_North | Phil_Oop_North

Defending a friend's sister's OnlyFans earns backlash. NTA wins.

throwawaygrosso | throwawaygrosso

Supporting s*x workers and calling out slut-shaming. 👏

nicarni | nicarni

Respect privacy- NTA. Sibling's OF is not your business.

bob_the_driver | bob_the_driver

Respectful OP defends friend's sister's OnlyFans, shuts down judgmental friends 🙌

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Challenging societal double standards around adult entertainment industry. 🙌

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Supportive comment and empowering reply 💪👊

hey-demons-its-me-ya | hey-demons-its-me-ya

Be a supportive friend to her and ignore the haters 😎

LB1251 | LB1251

Supporting a woman's autonomy gets backlash. Hypocrisy at its finest 🤒

thekelsey21 | thekelsey21

Mind your own business 💼, no need to shame anyone's choices.

chill_stoner_0604 | chill_stoner_0604

Defending a friend's sister's OnlyFans against toxic behavior. #nta 🚫🤢

RealisticSquirrel705 | RealisticSquirrel705

Supporting s*x workers and calling out toxic behavior 👍🏼

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Defending sister's honor vs. loyalty to bros 🤔👬 NTA

SkankBeard | SkankBeard

Friend defends sister's OnlyFans, OP questions friendship 🤔

trilliumsummer | trilliumsummer

Supporting s*x workers and setting boundaries. 👍 NTA.

Majestic-Fix8638 | Majestic-Fix8638

Don't let his anger get in the way of logic 🤔

peely_gonna_stealy | peely_gonna_stealy

Keeping quiet is key. 🤫 NTA did the right thing.

Moonshae295 | Moonshae295

Bros before OnlyFans: Upholding the bro code reigns supreme. NTA 👊

Judge_MentaI | Judge_MentaI

S*x worker stigma and sexism among male friends. Stand up!

burntasawitch | burntasawitch

Supportive comments show empathy for sister's OnlyFans predicament 😔

theshadowppl9 | theshadowppl9

Standing up for Belle, the hero we all need 🦸‍♂️

CIChild | CIChild

Defending a bro's sister shouldn't lead to hate 😕

dratseb | dratseb

Breaking the 'bro code' to support women. ✔

AproposofNothing35 | AproposofNothing35

Commenter sarcastically criticizes porn addiction and supports NTA's actions.

Michael_Chandra | Michael_Chandra

Being a good friend pays off 🤝👍

VictorianPlatypus | VictorianPlatypus

Breaking the 'bro code' - why it's toxic 🤝💔

filkerdave | filkerdave

Respecting boundaries: NTA for advising on OnlyFans safety 👍

Fuzakenaideyo | Fuzakenaideyo

Defending Belle against social media rant, NTA. 😤

kelster13 | kelster13

Keep being a good guy 👍, NTA and proud!

dozybees | dozybees

Being a good friend means looking out for each other 👍

Lotex_Style | Lotex_Style

Encouraging comment receives positive feedback 👍

thewintersofourpast | thewintersofourpast

Stand up for what's right! 🙌🏼

whitewer | whitewer

Breaking the bro code: why NTA is the new norm 😎

spoonpk | spoonpk

Empathetic response to a delicate situation. 🤝

beachygirl12 | beachygirl12

Commenter receives praise for respecting girl's wishes 🙌

Valor816 | Valor816

Being a good friend pays off, even if it's not immediate. 👍

SPJ83 | SPJ83

Double standards in porn highlighted as man respectfully warns friend's sister.

Final_Candidate_7603 | Final_Candidate_7603

Respect women and ignore toxic AHs for ultimate BDE 👏

10FightingMayors | 10FightingMayors

Defending Belle's OF account makes you NTA, not your fault.

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Supporting s*x workers and shutting down sexism! NTA 🙌

DanetteGirl | DanetteGirl

Breaking the bro code to protect women 👏👏

jaimelachevre | jaimelachevre

Calling out the hypocrisy of slut-shaming and paying for OF. 👏🏽 NTA.

EchoAquarium | EchoAquarium

Body autonomy matters, NTA. Mate needs to respect sister's choices. 😊

vambot5 | vambot5

Keeping secrets can cause trouble 😕

jimmystar889 | jimmystar889

Commenter praises OP for being a good person in tough situation 👍

cest_la_via | cest_la_via

Standing up against sexism, you're not the a**hole

BestGirlDoppio | BestGirlDoppio

Learn something new today? 🤔👷‍♂️

anbigsteppy | anbigsteppy

Mind your business, and you're NTA for being a good friend 👍

alexisir | alexisir

Breaking the bro code to protect family. 👌

Mooncraftress | Mooncraftress

Kudos to this respectful and supportive NTA for standing up against slut-shaming 💪

The-Moocat | The-Moocat

NTA for calling out misogynistic behavior towards OnlyFans creator.

Life-Win5432 | Life-Win5432

Supporting s*x work and calling out misogyny 👏👏

islandcatgrrl123 | islandcatgrrl123

Supportive comment thanking a friend for being cool and non-judgmental ❤️

ravencrowe | ravencrowe

Don't judge someone for their choices, especially if they're empowering ❄

subtlesphenoid | subtlesphenoid

Respectful bro code: NTA warns friend's sister of OnlyFans; gets shunned.

EvolvingEachDay | EvolvingEachDay

Calling out hypocritical friends for slut-shaming 👏🏼🙌🏼

The-Cosmic-Ghost | The-Cosmic-Ghost

Supportive comment defends OnlyFans creator and condemns unconsensual distribution.

ZenAddams | ZenAddams

Standing up for a friend's safety is always the right move 👍

FigureEast | FigureEast

Breaking the bro code or protecting a sister? NTA wins!

Jaymes_Squeak | Jaymes_Squeak

You're a true friend! 👏

Larcztar | Larcztar

Supporting s*x work and calling out language policing 🙌

GirlJessy | GirlJessy

Being called a decent person is always a win 🎉

zeezle | zeezle

Supporting Belle > toxic masculinity. 🙌

alysl | alysl

Standing up for a friend's privacy 🤝 #FriendshipGoals

loopylandtied | loopylandtied

Standing up against revenge porn is always the right thing 👏

mynemesisjeph | mynemesisjeph

Be a friend to Belle, not her toxic brother. #NTA 🙌

in35mm | in35mm

Being a good friend is always the right thing to do 🤝

HighAsAngelTits | HighAsAngelTits

Finding better friends is key 🔑. NTA for standing up for yourself.

SuccubusxKitten | SuccubusxKitten

Defending a sister's privacy shouldn't affect your friendship 😔

TheDevilsAdvokaat | TheDevilsAdvokaat