Woman Leaves Hospital After Boyfriend's Family Keeps Her Waiting Outside His Room

Alfe Mercado
Hospital lobby
Unsplash | Ante Samarzija

A woman visited her boyfriend in the hospital after he was admitted for a knee injury. Upon arrival, his family told her to wait outside the room for three hours while they ignored her. Feeling upset and unimportant, she left without saying a word. His mother later scolded her for leaving and told her to feel grateful for her boyfriend's recovery. But was she wrong for leaving? Read on to find out.

Loved one's hospitalization: When to visit and for how long?

sarah-justin3534 | sarah-justin3534

Left waiting outside boyfriend's room by his family. Heartbreaking 💔

sarah-justin3534 | sarah-justin3534

Girlfriend ignored for 3 hours, leaves hospital without a word 😔

sarah-justin3534 | sarah-justin3534

Don't be selfish, be grateful for getting him back 😊

sarah-justin3534 | sarah-justin3534

Shamed by boyfriend's family for leaving him on medication 😔

sarah-justin3534 | sarah-justin3534

Waiting outside boyfriend's room for 3hrs - guilty or justified?

sarah-justin3534 | sarah-justin3534

Deciding when to leave loved ones behind. 🤔

sarah-justin3534 | sarah-justin3534

Woman forced to wait outside boyfriend's hospital room by family 👩‍⚕️👨‍⚕️

When your partner is in the hospital, you expect to receive comfort and support from their family. However, that wasn't the case for this woman who waited for three hours outside her boyfriend's hospital room. After being completely ignored by her boyfriend's family, she left feeling upset. But when she opened up to her boyfriend's mother about how she felt, she was scolded and made to feel guilty. She was told that her boyfriend's accident and recovery weren't about her and that she should be grateful instead of sulking and craving attention. But was she really in the wrong for leaving? In situations like these, it's important to consider the feelings and needs of everyone involved. Let's look at this situation and see what the comment section says about it.

NTA for leaving after being kicked out and kept waiting.

Sleepy_felines | Sleepy_felines

NTA comment receives support for standing up to disrespectful boyfriend's family.

gemma156 | gemma156

Don't let anyone disrespect your time ⏰🚫 NTA

RebelGrrrrrl | RebelGrrrrrl

After 5 years together, the boyfriend's family keeps her waiting outside. NTA

ForwardPlenty | ForwardPlenty

Did she make any effort to re-enter the room?

One-Ad-4136 | One-Ad-4136

Commenter and replies doubt validity of woman's story.

PotentJelly13 | PotentJelly13

Boyfriend's family leaves girlfriend waiting 3 hours outside hospital room 🏥

Aggressive_Theme7229 | Aggressive_Theme7229

Engaging with the story's missing pieces earns YTA comment backlash 😑

BrunoGnarz | BrunoGnarz

Curious about the three-hour wait at the hospital?

9okm | 9okm

Her absence wasn't intentional, but was it understandable? 🤔

BaltimoreBadger23 | BaltimoreBadger23

Confused commenter seeks clarification on hospital visitation rules 🤔

cfghjiuyfddssfgg | cfghjiuyfddssfgg

Asserting boundaries and leaving hospital politely but firmly. 🙌

VaderTheInhaler | VaderTheInhaler

Boyfriend's mother controls who visits him at the hospital. ESH.

DocSternau | DocSternau

Boyfriend's family keeps woman waiting outside hospital room for 3 hours 😡

IsThatMarcy | IsThatMarcy

Curious commenter wants more details on bizarre hospital visit.

Thespine88 | Thespine88

Unraveling a suspicious story 👀

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA, but unclear situation. Hospitalization may not equal serious injury. 🤔

Material_Positive_76 | Material_Positive_76

Long wait or lack of care? Couple's bond questioned. ❤️

IndigoSunsets | IndigoSunsets

Support for NTA comment sparks discussion on relationship advice.

tatasz | tatasz

Partner's family's strange behavior leaves woman waiting outside hospital room

TermAggravating8043 | TermAggravating8043

Tips for visiting a loved one in the hospital 🤒

[deleted] | [deleted]

Commenter questions if woman tried to resolve conflict before leaving.

YakingB | YakingB

Escape this toxic family before it's too late! 🙌

emccm | emccm

Investigating if the hospital staff and family treated her unfairly 🤔

Murderbunny13 | Murderbunny13

Woman stood up by boyfriend's family at hospital, gets support. ✊

Volcheka | Volcheka

Girlfriend defends herself after being kept waiting for hours. 🙄

MelodyRaine | MelodyRaine

Clarification requested by commenters about hospital visit etiquette.

Withered-Violet | Withered-Violet

Confusing situation with boyfriend's family waiting in hallway for hours 🤔

slowjackal | slowjackal

Supportive girlfriend waits 3hrs at hospital & still labeled NTA 🙌

Rud1st | Rud1st

Commenter questions the full story and suggests confronting the situation 💬

Lorneod | Lorneod

Savage revenge or justified payback? 🤔

darkmoonfalling | darkmoonfalling

Quick thinking and self-respect, NTA for leaving hospital.

Soggy-Strawberry-474 | Soggy-Strawberry-474

Supporting a loved one in the hospital takes patience and understanding ❤️

Plenty_Anything8552 | Plenty_Anything8552

Waiting outside the room for 5 yrs boyfriend? ESH 🤦‍♀️

stabbyspacehorse | stabbyspacehorse

Curious about hospital visitation policies? This commenter is too! 🤔

Pins89 | Pins89

Relationship issues arise in a hospital waiting room 😷

Disastrous-Fuel-2757 | Disastrous-Fuel-2757

Unanswered questions and strange circumstances at hospital visit 🤔

nemc222 | nemc222

Missed opportunity for closure, but communication may not be easy.

Nvrfinddisacct | Nvrfinddisacct

The boyfriend's family's behavior speaks volumes. 🤐

West_Sample9762 | West_Sample9762

Don't let his family treat you like a dog 🐶🚫 Stand up for yourself!

sadpotato | sadpotato

Stand up and fight for your rights 💪🏼

Bathroom-Afraid | Bathroom-Afraid

Commenter questions OP's relationship status with a touch of suspicion 🤔

Earthscale | Earthscale

Commenter raises valid questions about the OP's actions and motives 😕

CryptographerOk9856 | CryptographerOk9856

Communicate with your boyfriend, don't let his mother's narrative win! ✅

Terenai | Terenai

NTA for feeling disrespected and ignored by boyfriend's rude family 😒

LesPolsfuss | LesPolsfuss

Boyfriend's mom tries to kick out girlfriend, shocked she leaves. NTA

Freyedown | Freyedown

The girlfriend waited outside for 3 hours, what happened?

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't wait for those who don't respect your time ⏳

[deleted] | [deleted]

Left waiting 3 hrs, then called selfish for leaving 🙄

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Don't wait for those who don't value your time 🕰️

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

Commenter shares similar experience and defends OP, NTA.

thatwe1rdcat | thatwe1rdcat

Woman defends leaving hospital after waiting 3 hours for boyfriend's family

Valendr0s | Valendr0s

Commenter questions lack of information in suspicious post.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Waiting outside for 3 hours? Not cool. NTA 💁‍♀️

Throwaway-2587 | Throwaway-2587