BI Woman Not Welcome At Sister's Catholic Wedding

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A woman is faced with a difficult decision regarding her sister's wedding. The woman, who is bis*xual, has been in a relationship with another woman for the past year. Her sister's fiancé and his family are very Catholic, and the woman fears her partner would not be welcome at the wedding. Her sister and parents have clarified that they do not want her partner to attend because they do not want to start drama with her fiancé's family. The woman has offered to pay for her partner's expenses, but her sister and parents are still against it. Ultimately, the woman makes a decision that is true to herself and her partner but causes major drama within her family. Read on to find out what happens next.

Excluded from sister's wedding due to my s*xuality 💔

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Navigating religious acceptance as a BI woman in a Catholic family 🏳️‍🌈

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Navigating homophobia at a Catholic wedding 🌈

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Excluded from sister's wedding for being in a same-s*x relationship ❤️👭

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Fighting bigotry with love, but family won't accept my partner.

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Self-employed BI woman excluded from sister's Catholic wedding 🚫

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

LGBTQ+ exclusion from family events still prevalent in society.

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

AITA for being excluded from my sister's Catholic wedding?

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Overwhelmed by support after being excluded from sister's Catholic wedding ❤️

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Eloping after being excluded from sister's Catholic wedding 😁

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Love knows no boundaries 💕

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Navigating family's disappointment after coming out as BI 🌈

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Sister prioritizes appearance over sister's s*xuality at wedding 😔

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Excluded from sister's wedding for being bis*xual, facing future ostracization.

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Standing up for my partner and my beliefs 🌈✊

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Standing up for my wife at my sister's homophobic wedding.

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Choosing between sister's Catholic wedding and pride parade celebrations. 🎉

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Sister's fiancé a pushover? 🤔 Bride's family not accepting 🚫

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

Beach wedding deemed okay for heteros*xual couple 😒

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

BI woman excluded from sister's wedding, hopeful for family acceptance ❤️

throwawaynz2000 | throwawaynz2000

BI woman elopes after not being welcome at sister's wedding 💒

A BI woman was not welcome at her sister's wedding due to her s*xuality, and her family didn't want to 'start drama' with the fiancé's homophobic parents. The woman offered to pay for her girlfriend's expenses but was still excluded. The situation escalated to the point where the woman eloped with her girlfriend, and her sister was upset because she won't have a bridesmaid. Although the woman allowed her family to make things right, she refuses to attend any family function without her spouse. Read on to see how the situation unfolds.

Bride's sister excluded from wedding for being bi - NTA

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Stand your ground, NTA. Send tissues as a wedding gift. 🎁

PintSizeMe | PintSizeMe

Stand strong on your values, you're not the problem 💪🏼👩‍❤️‍👩

HolyUnicornBatman | HolyUnicornBatman

Defending a BI woman's right to bring partner to family events 🏳️‍🌈❤️

m0ro_ | m0ro_

Honesty is the best policy. 🤷‍♀️

ReddityJim | ReddityJim

Be true to yourself and don't compromise. NTA 👍

zntlmpnd | zntlmpnd

Family prioritizing in-laws' comfort over accepting sister's s*xuality 🏳️‍🌈

princess_peachofshit | princess_peachofshit

Accepting LGBTQ+ friends - how one couple made it work 🌈❤️

misskissholder | misskissholder

Celebrate your identity and be proud! 🌈👭

JagoKestral | JagoKestral

Supportive comment about BI woman's family, suggests avoiding wedding

twnbay76 | twnbay76

Commenter acknowledges NTA but questions seriousness of relationship 👀

fiestymcknickers | fiestymcknickers

Overcoming family's prejudice for a brother's wedding 🙌

whalesurfer3 | whalesurfer3

Savage response to exclusion from sister's wedding 👀💍

British_Baggy-ette | British_Baggy-ette

Commenter calls out family's homophobia at wedding, supports OP

plumbus_hun | plumbus_hun

Family support should come before wedding etiquette 👏

Seabreeze24m | Seabreeze24m

Commenter is not the a**hole, but why?

Juksujoo | Juksujoo

Keep it up! You're doing the right thing! 👍

DatL3afN1nja | DatL3afN1nja

Supportive reply to LGBTQ+ discrimination; stand up for yourself 💪🏳️‍🌈

brynleeholsis | brynleeholsis

Love is love! 💕 NTA for standing up for your partner.

formerfatboys | formerfatboys

Stand your ground and set some rules! 🙌

kittenesque02 | kittenesque02

Live and let love. 💕 NTA for being true to yourself.

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Supportive comment section, standing up against intolerance ❤️

corner_tv | corner_tv

Stand your ground and don't let bigots win! 👊

j33 | j33

Standing up for LGBTQ+ family, even if it means missing weddings 🏳️‍🌈

mushroomramen | mushroomramen

Living as yourself is not a statement, it's survival 💜

duraraross | duraraross

Partner not welcome at family wedding, NTA for being upset 😡

Ihavelostmytowel | Ihavelostmytowel

Avoid homophobic family, prioritize your own well-being ❤️

donorak7 | donorak7

Supportive comment encourages standing up against homophobia 🌈

QuasiGizmoto | QuasiGizmoto

Stand up against homophobia, call them out on social media 🌈✊

Common-Crow-7132 | Common-Crow-7132

Standing up against discrimination. Definitely NTA 👏🏼

Ut_Prosim | Ut_Prosim

Make your girlfriend welcome or fumble for an excuse. NTA 👍

DiTrastevere | DiTrastevere

Fighting bigotry with love. NTA stands strong against family.

Tinker_Witch444 | Tinker_Witch444

Stand up for who you are and what you believe in ❤️🏳️‍🌈

Gwennylou | Gwennylou

Family's choice to exclude bi woman from wedding, NTA

Walktothebrook | Walktothebrook

Breaking barriers 🌈: Commenter calls out religious bigotry.

Grimlocknz | Grimlocknz

Don't exclude family members from your wedding photos 👨‍👩‍👧. It's not fair 😕

pro_confused | pro_confused

Commenter calls out everyone as TA. 😏

FlightRiskRose | FlightRiskRose

Be true to yourself, not what others want you to be 🌈

Fiyerossong | Fiyerossong

Stand by your girlfriend and let her explain to her family 💪

kikirio58 | kikirio58

Heartwarming poem in support of excluded sister at wedding ❤️

Intelligent_Slice_34 | Intelligent_Slice_34

Be true to yourself, no matter what others expect. 🙌

HooRYoo | HooRYoo

Don't make excuses for their homophobia, enjoy Hawaii instead 🌴🌺

Projectonyx | Projectonyx

Stand your ground and don't attend the homophobic wedding 🙌

lorde_vick | lorde_vick

Are they excluding all unmarried partners or just same-s*x ones? 🤔

anna-nomally12 | anna-nomally12

Supportive comment encourages public social media announcement. 🌈👩‍❤️‍👩

Dammit_Janet5 | Dammit_Janet5

Love is love. NTA for wanting to bring your partner.

ProfGoodwitch | ProfGoodwitch

A supportive sibling gets ordained to officiate LGBTQ+ weddings ❤️🏳️‍🌈

marshmall00 | marshmall00

Family's homophobia exposed at sister's wedding. NTA stands strong.

mad_jaime | mad_jaime

Stand your ground! 🌈

grant_f14 | grant_f14

OP's sister needs to woman-up and face homophobic in-laws drama 💪

VT_Maid | VT_Maid

Family drama over BI wedding invite, NTA stands her ground

Pavsters | Pavsters

Celebrate your love and leave the bigotry behind 🌈✈️💍

daphydoods | daphydoods

Clear and concise, NTA sentiment 👍🏼👍🏼

magdeg | magdeg

Be your authentic self! 💪 You deserve better. NAH.

Pur1wise | Pur1wise

One commenter thinks bride's sister is being an a**hole.

BeneficialLog6231 | BeneficialLog6231

Don't invalidate someone's s*xuality, even if it's 'just a phase' 🌈

lovebeinganasshole | lovebeinganasshole

Support for same-s*x relationships in Catholic weddings ❤️👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

Kellyandria | Kellyandria

Rejecting LGBTQ2+ people is shameful. Positive resolution for OP. ✊

Zeboim7 | Zeboim7

Love is love, family should support. 🌈


Stand by your partner or stand alone 💔

Nickyx13 | Nickyx13

Respect for living authentically and putting love above bigotry ❤️

Medievalmoomin | Medievalmoomin

Being true to yourself is never wrong 🌈

Original_Jilliman | Original_Jilliman

Be true to yourself and don't make excuses. 💪

TheFoxAndTheRaven | TheFoxAndTheRaven

Heartbreaking response to sister's homophobic wedding invitation 😢❤️

calligrafiddler | calligrafiddler

Stand up for yourself and your identity, NTA 🏳️‍🌈

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NTA stands up for herself against family judgment 👏👏

XenaSerenity | XenaSerenity

Unapologetic and empowered. 🙌🌈

initiatefailure | initiatefailure

Stand up for love 🌈 Don't let them exclude your girlfriend.

rpepperpot_reddit | rpepperpot_reddit

Living authentically despite family's disapproval. You're amazing! 🌈

WitchyCatMother | WitchyCatMother

Embrace your choices and don't look back!

Siiniix | Siiniix

Shutting down homophobia with class 👏🏼👏🏼

badalki | badalki

Standing up to toxic family members. 🙌 NTA!

QuatraVanDeis | QuatraVanDeis

Standing up for your partner's acceptance at family events. 👏

UnivScvm | UnivScvm

Bis*xual not welcome at sister's wedding. NTA for standing up.

iamthenightrn | iamthenightrn

Conditional love goes both ways. NTA 🙌

tickledbylola | tickledbylola

Be proud of who you are! 🏳️‍🌈 NTA for wanting to be included in your sister's wedding.

PinkedOff | PinkedOff

Be true to yourself, but also consider your sister's feelings 😕

ottobot1832 | ottobot1832

Sister prioritizes appearances over her sister's feelings. 🤷

nkh86 | nkh86

Be true to yourself and your relationships, you're NTA 🌈💕

Billy-Bickle | Billy-Bickle

Family's rejection of BI woman at wedding is horrible 😔

TheBitchyKnitter | TheBitchyKnitter

Homophobic family excludes sister and girlfriend from wedding. NTA. 👏

hivemind3dindividual | hivemind3dindividual

Fighting bigotry with simplicity 💪 NTA comment

fargoLEVY13 | fargoLEVY13

Don't let your sister's fiancé off the hook 👏

NoDimension2877 | NoDimension2877