A 17-year-old girl has taken on the responsibility of taking care of her three younger siblings, paying for bills and healthcare, and even dropping out of high school to work as a nanny. Despite working two minimum-wage jobs, her struggling dad has refused to accept help from food banks or financial aid. When the girl suggested it, she was met with resistance and told her dad to 'swallow his pride and go to a food bank'. The argument has caused a rift between them, but who's in the wrong? Read on to find out.
Teen Yells at Struggling Dad to Go to Food Bank, but Is It Justified?
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A 17-year-old girl took to Reddit to ask if she was in the wrong for yelling at her dad to go to a food bank. The girl's mom left shortly after her little sister was born, leaving her dad to raise her and her two siblings on his own. Her dad's small business went under a few months ago due to the COVID-19 shutdowns, and he has been struggling to find a job to support his family ever since. The girl ended up dropping out of high school to take care of her siblings and got a job as a nanny that allows her to bring her siblings to work. Despite her job, the family is still struggling financially, and the girl believes that they qualify for financial aid and food stamps. However, when she brought up the idea of going to a food bank, her dad refused and said he doesn't need help. This led to a heated argument between the two, and the girl is now asking if she was wrong for yelling at her dad. Read on for the community's reactions and advice on how to handle the situation.
Father's pride obstructs family's welfare, commenters offer assistance resources 🤝
Geek_Egg | Geek_Egg
Teen urges dad to go to food bank for sick sibling 🍝
sighcantthinkofaname | sighcantthinkofaname
Teen puts her future on hold to support struggling family ❤️
Muninwing | Muninwing
NTA, but dad needs to register for SNAP and food banks 🍎🥕
C_Majuscula | C_Majuscula
Commenters share personal experiences with receiving government aid during tough times.
ssodabee | ssodabee
Empathetic comment thread highlights options for struggling families. 🤝
Ok_Yellow8056 | Ok_Yellow8056
NTA comment on dad's lack of responsibility, with supportive reply.
flowersandpeas | flowersandpeas
Daughter calls out dad's pride for not going to food bank 🍲
Little-bit_ | Little-bit_
Commenter advocates for diabetic teen's health with empathy 🩺
BookReader1328 | BookReader1328
Helpful advice for struggling family's healthcare and food needs 🙏
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17-year-old becomes breadwinner for family, faces tough choices. NTA.
mental_out | mental_out
Encouraging support in tough times 💪
yogasmom | yogasmom
NTA helps struggling dad, but brother's diabetes adds urgency 💡
Wise_Impression_6391 | Wise_Impression_6391
Persuading struggling dad to view government aid as tax refund 💰
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User suggests USPS as job option for struggling dad 👍
Lady_Incubus | Lady_Incubus
Volunteer's passion for food bank inspires commenter to take action 🍎🥕
comptchr | comptchr
Breaking the stigma around social programs 💪🏼
dshade14 | dshade14
Parent's pride shouldn't compromise children's basic necessities. NTA
Kghp11 | Kghp11
Formerly food-insecure commenter advises struggling dad to use food bank 🍎
lemjne | lemjne
Commenters agree that tough times don't make anyone an a**hole.
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Struggling family needs food bank, commenter supports swallowing pride.
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Support struggles continue with absent parent 😔
MistyDayforpresident | MistyDayforpresident
Navigating food insecurity and family stress with empathy and communication 🍎
chubby-wench | chubby-wench
Explore state programs for childcare and medical coverage for your family 🏥👩👧👦
RedHeadedStepDevil | RedHeadedStepDevil
Encouraging support for struggling teenager dealing with absent mother.
NoAcanthocephala2727 | NoAcanthocephala2727
Commenter challenges dad's privilege in accessing food stamps 💪
sweadle | sweadle
System failure acknowledged: Commenter supports teen's suggestion for food bank.
Improbablyfromhell | Improbablyfromhell
Teen advocates for siblings' health, suggests calm talk about assistance.
holisarcasm | holisarcasm
Heartbreaking struggle of a hardworking parent disrespected by child.
LavenaMarie | LavenaMarie
Going to a food bank is tough, but necessary for survival. 💪
Lurkingentropy | Lurkingentropy
Not the a**hole, but why? Tell us your story 👀🤔
IndividualDismal1722 | IndividualDismal1722
Commenter blames American government and big businesses for family's struggles. 💰🚫
annoyingcaptcha | annoyingcaptcha
Teen rightfully suggests dad visit food bank 💪
galaxybookworm123 | galaxybookworm123
Being poor shouldn't be a source of shame, prioritize your kids 👏
coconutshave | coconutshave
Consider Job Corps for free trade school training and job placement 🏭
Scouthawkk | Scouthawkk
Supporting social safety nets benefits everyone in the long-term. 🤝
gwie | gwie
Supportive comment urges self-care and action for struggling parent 🙌
doublestitch | doublestitch
Empathetic commenter supports teen's call for dad to use food bank ❤️
emherrera1960 | emherrera1960
Encourage dad to use tax-funded SNAP program and not feel ashamed 💪
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Share the grocery expenses, share the grocery choices 🛒💰
DinosaurBabyDoll | DinosaurBabyDoll
Take what's yours! 💪🏽
fadgeoh | fadgeoh
Empathetic comment encourages humbling self-care with a helping hand.
ProudBoomer | ProudBoomer
Suggests ways to get more help and offers support 🤝
rak1882 | rak1882
Importance of good and healthy diet for body and brain development 💪
Operakittycat | Operakittycat
Supporting the local food bank is crucial. Glad dad's applying! 👍
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Suggest a solution: Plant a vegetable garden for healthy meals 🥕
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Commenter sympathizes with struggling dad and criticizes absent mom.
Abrassive_Sound | Abrassive_Sound
"NTA- Dad should take the assistance he's paid for 👍"
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Breaking the stigma of financial struggle and accepting help 💰
ghostboymcslimy | ghostboymcslimy
Empowering response to food bank suggestion 🙌
Pretend-Panda | Pretend-Panda
Self-care is crucial, especially for those with UC! ✨
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Support for struggling dad and hope for better future.
canvasshoes2 | canvasshoes2
Daughter encourages dad to seek help from food bank. #SupportSystem 🤝
deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau
Putting pride aside during a pandemic. 🙌
tinyriiiiiiiiick_ | tinyriiiiiiiiick_
A helpful suggestion for healthcare coverage 🏥
Squinky75 | Squinky75
Putting family first 🙌
HeroORDevil8 | HeroORDevil8
Commenter urges struggling dad to seek Medicaid for diabetic son.
goddessoftrees | goddessoftrees
Supportive comment section offers hope and encouragement 🙏
jaaynt | jaaynt
Empathetic comment praises brave teenager for supporting her family.
floofelina | floofelina
Helpful suggestion on accessing foodbank without shaming struggling dad. 🍲
endlessotter | endlessotter
Respect for dad's difficult decision to apply for benefits 👏
MissPlaceDApostrophe | MissPlaceDApostrophe
Overcoming financial stress is tough, but pride shouldn't stop help 🤝
aroundincircles | aroundincircles
Encouraging comment on overcoming shame in getting social services 💪
Hjfitz93 | Hjfitz93
Teen pushes dad to go to food bank, proud of outcome ❤️
CyberiusGamer | CyberiusGamer
Empowering response from comment and helpful reply from OP 🙌
TheBaddestPatsy | TheBaddestPatsy
Free school meals available in the US, NTA for OP.
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