In this heart-wrenching post, a father shares his story of evicting his son and pregnant girlfriend due to his son's relationship with his biological father. The father, who discovered his wife's infidelity years ago, has been raising his son as his own but now feels disrespected and disregarded. The post has received over 9,000 upvotes and has sparked a debate among the online community. Many call the father out for his actions, while others empathize with his feelings of betrayal. Read on to learn more about this complicated family dynamic and decide: is the father the a**hole in this situation?
Father Evicts Son And Pregnant Girlfriend Over Loyalty To Biological Dad
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Father struggles with loyalty after discovering son is not biological.
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Son chooses biodad over father, eviction ensues. 😕
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Son values blood over family, evicted with pregnant girlfriend 💔
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Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad 😳
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Father kicks out son and girlfriend for loyalty to biodad 🚪
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Father cuts off son and girlfriend over living situation 🏠
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Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty issues
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Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad 🤔
A father has evicted his son and pregnant girlfriend after feeling disrespected by his son's close relationship with his biological father. The father discovered that his son was not biologically his when the child was ten years old. However, he chose to treat him no differently from his other children. Recently, the son's relationship with his biological father has grown, and he has shown more loyalty to him than to the man who raised him. The father was hurt by his son's actions and decided to evict him and his girlfriend after a 30-day notice. The father also plans to cut off his son's tuition financial support. However, the son was blindsided by the eviction notice and did not see it coming. The father is now wondering if he is in the wrong for evicting his son and girlfriend. What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Father serves eviction notice during baby shower, both parties at fault 🤷♀️
Dontdrinkthecoffee | Dontdrinkthecoffee
NTA but evicting him on the night of his baby shower was harsh 😕
Bookish4269 | Bookish4269
Communication breakdown between father and son leads to eviction.
throwaway4life85 | throwaway4life85
Father's spiteful eviction of pregnant son and gf condemned. ESH.
PurpleDot0 | PurpleDot0
Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad. Commenter thinks father is being harsh and predicts son will appreciate him more once he has the baby. Replies argue that son is also TA for snubbing the man who raised him. ESH.
baggleboots | baggleboots
NTA but OP was also harsh with the eviction during celebration 😕
runedued | runedued
OP's son is infatuated with bio-dad and has contempt for mother. 😔
MsBaseball34 | MsBaseball34
Navigating complex family dynamics is tough 😕
LifeSalty | LifeSalty
Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad. Commenter agrees with father's decision.
heyabs | heyabs
NTA. Tough love for entitled son and pregnant girlfriend 👊
downbythesea113 | downbythesea113
Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad. Commenter calls out the father for not being a real dad and the burden of 3 adult 'parents' on the son. Replies argue over whether the father is the a**hole or everyone sucks here. 😔
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Don't ruin special moments, YTA. Cutting him off won't help.
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Let him live with his 'real' parents 🤷♂️ #NTA
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Cutting off son over biodad extreme, but son needs to step up. Entitlement from son is staggering 😒
pbc85 | pbc85
Father evicts son and girlfriend, but *swapping out baby shower gift with eviction notice* was not okay. Communication is key.
Father-Son-HolyToast | Father-Son-HolyToast
Supporting biodad: Pregnant girlfriend gets caught in the middle 🤰
elcad | elcad
Communication is key! 🗣️ See if you can talk it out.
annedroiid | annedroiid
Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad. Commenter supports father's decision to cut off irresponsible son.
MagicansaurusRex | MagicansaurusRex
Standing up for oneself is never easy 🙏. NTA here.
fall8n1 | fall8n1
Father evicts pregnant son and girlfriend, Redditor calls out YTA behavior 😔
MendelWeisenbachfeld | MendelWeisenbachfeld
Stepdad viewed as an ATM, NTA for evicting disrespectful son.
karenhater12345 | karenhater12345
Passive-aggressive eviction at baby shower? YTA.
RebelScientist | RebelScientist
ESH! A complicated situation that could have used a chat.
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Father evicts disrespectful son and pregnant girlfriend over biodad loyalty 👨👦
Kitsumekat | Kitsumekat
Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad. ESH. Commenter advises talking to son before eviction.
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
No sympathy for disrespectful son. NTA 🙅♂️
Schnucksworld | Schnucksworld
Son disrespects father's sacrifices, gets evicted. NTA 👍
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Support for tough love approach with NTA sentiment 🙌
Himalayankitten | Himalayankitten
NTA stands firm in decision to evict son and girlfriend
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Bio dad issues cause disrespect towards step dad. NTA.
Professional_Bed9491 | Professional_Bed9491
Curious Redditors seek clarification before passing judgement ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
McGonagall18 | McGonagall18
Passive aggressive or not, evicting was the right call. 💯
OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000
Father chooses loyalty over son and pregnant girlfriend. NTA wins.
Ninanotseen | Ninanotseen
Don't be a d\*\*k, communicate with your partner 💬👨❤️👨
bookgirl225 | bookgirl225
Parenting advice: don't call a lawyer on your child. YTA 🤦
avantgardian26 | avantgardian26
Compassionate comment suggests alternative approach to father-son conflict ❤️
g17owner | g17owner
NTA for evicting entitled son and girlfriend with newborn.
lavenderpotato14 | lavenderpotato14
Father raises son, pays for tuition, and is repaid with eviction.
Millerbomb | Millerbomb
Son disrespects father while expecting financial support. #NTA 💰😒
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Don't let quick emotions ruin your relationship with your son. 🤞
TillyRogers | TillyRogers
Clear judgement, no drama. 👍
ImagePsychological10 | ImagePsychological10
Father wanted a DNA test, son and girlfriend evicted. Everyone sucks.
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Commenter calls out father's cruel behavior during son's baby shower 😔
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Did someone really give an eviction notice as a gift? 🤔
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Advice to a father evicting son and girlfriend over loyalty
Wan2345678 | Wan2345678
Communication is key! Evicting them at a baby shower? 🤦♂️
Emysiari | Emysiari
Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend, sparking ESH debate. 💥
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Commenter questions mother's role in son's behavior and suggests motive.
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Commenter calls out father's immature behavior towards son. 😒
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NTA for standing up for yourself and your values 💪
charcoalblueaviator | charcoalblueaviator
Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend, YTA says comment.
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Parenting is about leading by example. YTA for retaliating.
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Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad: Commenter calls him petty and AH for evicting them as a baby shower gift, suggests addressing issues beforehand to avoid bitterness.
fallintodark | fallintodark
NTA. Father evicts son and pregnant girlfriend over loyalty to biodad
DrShacklez | DrShacklez
Commenter calls out OP's passive-aggressiveness towards son and girlfriend 😒
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Father evicts son and girlfriend at baby shower, YTA
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Supportive comment sparks discussion about toxic masculinity and emotional expression.
Zuber83 | Zuber83
Father evicts disrespectful son and girlfriend: NTA 🙅♂️👋
Practical-Big7550 | Practical-Big7550
Stepdad loyalty is real 👏👏
MagentaWickedMirror | MagentaWickedMirror
Father and son need to communicate better to resolve conflict 💬
PetuniaGoBlue | PetuniaGoBlue
Commenter offers empathy and suggests therapy for changing dynamic. 💭💬
scythemaxwell | scythemaxwell
Commenter calls out father's hypocrisy in emotional situation 💔
MagsWags2020 | MagsWags2020
Standing up for oneself is important. NTA handles it well 👍
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