Husband's Disappointing Reaction to Baby Gender Reveal Leads to Fight

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A first-time pregnant woman is dealing with her husband's disappointing reaction to their baby's gender reveal. The husband repeatedly expressed his desire for a boy, but the doctor revealed they were having a girl. The husband's reaction caused the wife to feel embarrassed and angry, leading to a heated argument. While the wife feels that her husband's behavior was unacceptable and that he embarrassed her in front of the doctor, her sister thinks that the husband's reaction was understandable. The disagreement has caused tension in their marriage, and the wife is considering staying with her mother for a few days. What do you think? Was the husband's reaction understandable, or did he behave poorly?

Struggling with pregnancy, will husband's reaction make it worse?

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Husband's gender reveal meltdown embarrasses wife at doctor's office

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Husband's reaction to baby gender reveal causes fight 💔

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Couple fights over husband's disappointing reaction to baby gender reveal

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Husband's reaction to baby gender reveal causes fight and confusion.

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Husband's disappointing reaction to baby gender reveal causes tension ⚡

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Navigating gender disappointment in pregnancy with partner's expectations 🤰

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Respectful communication key in handling different gender reveal reactions ❤️

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Canadian couple shares gender reveal mishap 🇨🇦

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Husband's gender disappointment sparks conflict 😠😤

A couple's visit to the doctor to find out the gender of their baby led to a heated argument after the husband expressed disappointment upon learning they were having a girl. The husband repeatedly questioned the doctor and even suggested that she had made a mistake. Upon returning home, the wife confronted him about his behavior and they ended up in a fight. While the wife felt embarrassed and disrespected by her husband's behavior, her sister defended him, saying that his reaction was understandable. The conflict raises important questions about gender disappointment and how couples can navigate such emotions during pregnancy. In the next section, we will delve into readers' reactions to this controversial topic.

Husband's sexist disappointment over baby's gender sparks outrage.

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Commenter calls out husband's lack of understanding on baby gender.

spdaroch | spdaroch

Protect your child from that sexist father. 😡👍

whalewatch247 | whalewatch247

Commenter calls out husband's behavior as a red flag 🚩

kaibac18 | kaibac18

NTA shares heartbreaking experience of growing up in a misogynistic family, advises OP to reconsider having a baby with such a husband. Replies provide support and insight.

Ohmigoshness | Ohmigoshness

Commenter and replies express concern for OP's safety and well-being.

throwthecupcakeaway | throwthecupcakeaway

Commenter suggests therapy and separate bank account for disappointing husband

MaximumPlant | MaximumPlant

NTA mom cries over gender disappointment & gender discrimination in family.

raeofsunshine181 | raeofsunshine181

Husband's misogynistic reaction to baby gender reveal sparks concern.

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Childhood experiences show the impact of parental disappointment. Protect your child.

Baby-cabbages | Baby-cabbages

NTA calls out sexist and cruel behavior towards daughter. Replies agree.

badb-crow | badb-crow

Dump him. If he's this upset the baby's female, imagine later. ❌

petrichor7777777 | petrichor7777777

Partner's reaction to gender reveal is a red flag 🚩

PixxieFoxx | PixxieFoxx

Supportive comment, reminding the father's role in determining baby's gender 💙

Thai-Food-Mary | Thai-Food-Mary

Commenter warns of divorce after disappointing gender reveal reaction.

Dash_TheMage | Dash_TheMage

Father's heartwarming story about treating daughter equally, in stark contrast to disappointing husband. NTA.

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Empathizing with the commenter's situation 😢

Depressed-Milk-Tea | Depressed-Milk-Tea

Gender disappointment and mommy issues? 🤔

Dszquphsbnt | Dszquphsbnt

Gender disappointment leads to family feud, but who's the A-hole?

LittleFreakyReaper | LittleFreakyReaper

Commenter expresses concern for daughter's future with sexist husband 🤔

photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach

Comment comparing husband's reaction to King Henry's off with your head. Replies agree, say he should grovel, and that his mentality is harmful. #NTA 👑👎

roman1969 | roman1969

Worrying gender bias from husband leads to valid concerns 🤔

MissMurderpants | MissMurderpants

Gender reveal fail? Commenter finds humor in situation. 😂

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Comment celebrates dad's responsibility for baby's gender 🙌

ditchdiggergirl | ditchdiggergirl

Commenter calls out sexist behavior in scathing comment.

Catqueen25 | Catqueen25

Sassy comment shuts down gender reveal disappointment 💁‍♀️👶

kdnbernier | kdnbernier

Gender reveal leads to fight after husband's disappointing reaction 😕

TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680

Father-to-be's sexist reaction worries commenters about his parenting abilities 👨‍👧

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Protect your daughter 💪🏼💕 Get away from him 🏃🏻‍♀️

Hahafunnys3xnumber | Hahafunnys3xnumber

NTA and dear God woman run. 😱

agentsparkles88 | agentsparkles88

Questioning if husband's behavior is cultural or just sexist.

heathahR | heathahR

Insensitive husband and sister ruin baby gender reveal 🤰🏻💔

Sweetdreamsvenom | Sweetdreamsvenom

Dealing with gender disappointment and rude behavior. NTA 👏

FishScrumptious | FishScrumptious

Gender disappointment causes fight – NTA mom deserves better 💪

triggerwarninghater | triggerwarninghater

Toxic gender norms and roles: why do we place expectations?

whenthesunrise | whenthesunrise

Husband's disbelief in ultrasound leads to gender reveal disaster 🙄

Obakewriter | Obakewriter

Father-to-be's extreme reaction to baby gender reveal sparks outrage 😠

superfastmomma | superfastmomma

Mom disappointed with baby boy's gender, hopes for second baby

farmtown_family | farmtown_family

Parent's disappointment over baby's gender causes marital conflict. 😔

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Husband's hurtful gender reveal reaction sparks justified outrage. 😡

MizElltry | MizElltry

🚫💍 Divorce advice for insensitive husband after gender reveal fight.

Entire-Flight | Entire-Flight

Husband's entitled behavior raises red flags 🚩

sonja_says | sonja_says

Breaking gender stereotypes - this NTA comment calls out immature reactions 👶

liz1522 | liz1522

Protecting your child should be the top priority 👥

WaffyReddit | WaffyReddit

Commenter advises ditching the husband and seeking therapy 💔

jasemina8487 | jasemina8487

Commenter hilariously questions husband's method for guaranteeing baby's gender 🤣

vrcraftauthor | vrcraftauthor

Gender disappointment turns into childish behavior - potential gaslighting.

ilovesharks101 | ilovesharks101

Husband's disappointing reaction to baby's gender reveal sparks concern 🤔

genomerain | genomerain

Is the husband acting like a modern-day Henry VIII? 👑

rez2metrogirl | rez2metrogirl

Husband's conditional love for baby's gender: NTA and Rude 😡

ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586

Husband's disappointing reaction to gender reveal leads to fight. NTA. Similar experiences.

VROF | VROF

🚨 Red flag alert! 🚨 Think about your daughter's future. 💭

WanderingAl08 | WanderingAl08

Support for NTA's reasonable reaction 💪

reclaimation | reclaimation

Educating him on science and responsibility 🧑‍🔬🤰

Calm_Initial | Calm_Initial

Husband's sexist reaction to baby gender reveal causes conflict. #NTA

DataVSLore007 | DataVSLore007

Insensitive husband receives a verdict of NTA and divorce

shestammie | shestammie

Heartbreaking. Stay strong and prioritize your safety and your baby's.

LockAzzy | LockAzzy

NTA, but is going to your mother's really the answer?

Farahild | Farahild