A successful baker in a small town is faced with a difficult decision after her ex-husband’s girlfriend asks her to make a gender reveal cake. The baker, who also happens to be the mother of her ex-husband’s twins, refuses the request due to bitter feelings towards her ex-husband who cheated on her while she was pregnant with their children. Despite being called rude and unprofessional by her ex-husband, the baker believes she has the right to refuse service to anyone. What do you think – is she the a**hole ?
Betrayed wife refuses to make cake for husband’s new girlfriend

Ex-wife denies making gender reveal cake for cheating ex’s girlfriend

No cake for the girlfriend: baker’s stance on gender reveals

Baker refuses to make gender reveal cake for ex-husband’s girlfriend

Baker refuses to make cake for ex’s girlfriend’s baby shower

Baker stands by principles despite ex-husband’s girlfriend’s request

Baker struggles with personal feelings in refusing cake order. AITA?

Betrayed wife refuses to bake gender reveal cake for ex’s girlfriend.

Baker refuses to make gender reveal cake for ex-husband’s girlfriend
A baker’s refusal to make a gender reveal cake for her ex-husband’s girlfriend has sparked a debate online. The baker, who runs a successful custom desserts business, refused the request citing her bitterness towards her ex-husband who cheated on her while she was pregnant with their twins. The ex-husband and his girlfriend have a child together and the girlfriend wanted the baker to make a cake for their gender reveal party. The baker declined stating that she was allowed to refuse service to anyone. This decision has been called both rude and understandable by different people. However, the baker’s actions raise an interesting question – should personal feelings be kept aside while running a business? Join the discussion in the comments below.
Baker stands up for herself and her babies against narcissistic ex.

Ex-husband’s girlfriend wants a gender reveal cake for free NTA.

Baker politely declines ex-husband’s girlfriend’s request for gender reveal cake

Ex’s girlfriend asks for cake, baker refuses. Civil conversation ensues.

Gender reveals: by a**holes, for a**holes ♀️
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Age gap raises concern among commenters

Ex-husband’s girlfriend not to blame for cake drama ♀️

Ex’s entitlement baffles commenter who supports baker’s decision

Baker rightfully refuses to make gender reveal cake for ex-husband’s girlfriend

Curiosity about pregnant girlfriend’s age sparks discussion

Setting boundaries and respecting exes – NTA handled it well

Ex’s girlfriend wants gender reveal cake, baker refuses. NTA wins!

Baker stands firm against ex’s girlfriend’s gender reveal request

Commenter calls ex-husband’s girlfriend an AH for manipulating the situation

Baker stands by her morals, denies ex-husband’s girlfriend’s request ❌

Creative gender reveal alternative sparks discussion

No cake, no forgiveness ❌

Ex’s new girlfriend wants gender reveal cake, NTA refuses

Baker stands her ground against ex-husband’s girlfriend. ♀️

Baker takes a stand against cheaters and self-serving requests

Your cake, your choice. They can find another baker

Professional baker stands up for her values. NTA

NTA. Ex’s girlfriend using kids to smooth things over.

No love lost here. Commenter is NTA for supporting baker.

Baker’s ex-husband’s girlfriend asks for gender reveal cake. NTA.

Stand your ground! No cake for the mistress!

Setting boundaries and keeping guard up against manipulative ex’s girlfriend

Taking a stand against cheating ex with a satisfying outcome

Empowering response to an entitled ex-husband’s girlfriend

Ex’s nerve appalling. NTA for cutting ties with new family.

Standing up for yourself against an AH ex-husband

Baker refuses ex-husband’s girlfriend’s cake order, commenters support her.

❤️ Hero baker refuses gender reveal cake for ex’s girlfriend.

Mother-of-stepchildren baker refuses gender reveal cake; ex-husband’s girlfriend outraged. #NTA

Refusing a gender reveal cake order – NTA, not their problem

Baker stands up against insensitive request

Baker takes a stand against ex-husband’s manipulative behavior

Baker refuses to make gender reveal cake for ex-husband’s girlfriend. NTA

Setting boundaries for mental health – NTA wins this round

Baker refuses gender reveal cake for ex-husband’s girlfriend – NTA
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♀️ Baker stands up to cheating ex by refusing girlfriend’s cake order

Empowered baker stands up for her ethics with grace ✊

Ex-husband’s girlfriend tries to buy forgiveness, but NTA says no

Ex-husband’s new girlfriend asks for gender reveal cake, gets denied

Netizens outraged at the age gap and divorce history of ex-husband.

Baker prioritizes self-care over drama and gender reveals ♀️

Ex-husband’s girlfriend asks for gender reveal cake, gets denied. NTA.

NTA! Cheater’s girlfriend demands cake from woman he cheated with ♀️

Standing up for your principles!

Baker refuses to make gender reveal cake for ex-husband’s girlfriend. NTA.

Age and intelligence questioned in response to ex-husband’s girlfriend.

Respectful ex-wife stands her ground, sets clear boundaries

Gender reveal cake confusion leads to funny comment thread NTA

Support for the baker’s decision

Mature ex-wife declines bitter ex’s girlfriend’s request. NTA

Not the a**hole! Standing up for herself and her values.

Empathetic comment to ex-wife, criticizing ex-husband’s behavior

Stand your ground, don’t let them use you for PR ♀️

Ex-husband’s girlfriend not innocent, NTA for refusing cake

Supportive comment calls out ex-husband’s girlfriend for hypocrisy
