A married couple agreed to split their finances, but when the husband requested to borrow $14k from the wife's account, she insisted on a contract. The husband refused to sign and accused her of not trusting him. He left the house and has not responded to her calls yet. Is the wife in the wrong for standing her ground and asking for a written agreement? Read more to find out.
Woman Refuses To Let Husband Borrow $14k From Her Account Without Signing A Contract

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Protecting my assets: why I refused to share finances 💰

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Spouse with empty bank account wants 14k, but wife says no 😤

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Husband's financial struggles raise questions about family expenses. 🤔

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Wife stands her ground and demands a contract for loan 🤝

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Protecting finances with a contract? 💰💼

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Protecting finances or breaking trust? Family drama unfolds over money 💰

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Protecting my money, am I the a**hole? 🤔

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Woman stands her ground against husband's financial demands 💪

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Wife refuses to loan husband money without a signed contract 😠
When it comes to money, it can be difficult to navigate the waters of family and relationships. However, in the case of this woman, she's not taking any chances. After her husband requested to pull $14k from her account, she insisted on a contract stating he would return the money in full. Her husband was offended and refused, even going as far as to call her a derogatory name. The situation has left the woman wondering if she was in the wrong for standing her ground. But is she? Let's take a closer look at the situation and see what others have to say.
Husband's behavior sounds like addiction, OP is NTA for refusing.

Justagirleatingcake | Justagirleatingcake
NTA. Commenters find humor in husband's entitled request 😂

DouniaLag | DouniaLag
Commenter and replies warn against husband's addiction, advise protecting assets 💰

Hotcrossbuns72 | Hotcrossbuns72
What's he hiding? 🤔 Commenters speculate on husband's 14k request

SmartestOrNot | SmartestOrNot
NTA. Marriage in trouble. Keep money for divorce fees and down payment.

Spare-Article-396 | Spare-Article-396
Don't let your spouse burn your money, YTA to yourself 👀💸

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Friend's gambling experience shows that NTA made the right decision 💸🃏

Loop_Adjacent | Loop_Adjacent
Husband wants to withdraw 14k without telling you why? RUN 🏃♀️

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Commenter raises suspicion but commenter replies clarify the situation 😊

JeepersCreepers74 | JeepersCreepers74
Don't let anyone gamble with your hard-earned money! 💰🃏

WilzAngie | WilzAngie
Spouse tries to withdraw thousands from joint account without explanation.

sw33tlips | sw33tlips
Respect the terms and keep standing your ground 👍

notnowtobey | notnowtobey
Commenter advises caution to woman marrying financially irresponsible man.

sspitufina1013 | sspitufina1013
Suspicious request for 14k raises red flags 🚨. Concerns for husband's borrowing habits 🤔

dontwannadoittoday | dontwannadoittoday
Protect your money and trust your instincts. 🚫💰

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Protect your finances and stand your ground. 💰🚫

Difficult_Step5241 | Difficult_Step5241
Consider getting a financial advisor before lending, avoiding potential loss 💰

hfc1075 | hfc1075
Protect your assets 💰 before it's too late 👀

ElectronicRub1716 | ElectronicRub1716
Don't give this man a dime. 🚫 Change your passwords! 🔒

MadPiglet42 | MadPiglet42
Protect your money, protect yourself! 💰 NTA

mdthomas | mdthomas
Protect your assets 💰 before it's too late!

Life-Onion-5698 | Life-Onion-5698
Protect your finances and have an honest conversation with him 💰

shouldidrophim | shouldidrophim
Comment on financial past leads to speculation of addiction.

mzpljc | mzpljc
Protecting my money, my business. 💰

prawduhgee | prawduhgee
Don't let guilt cloud your judgement. Trust your instincts 🤔

MK_King69 | MK_King69
Protect your finances and don't enable bad behavior 💰🙅♀️

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Protecting finances and family, NTA stands her ground 👏

cwestgamer | cwestgamer
Protect your finances and investigate any unusual activity 🕵️♀️

Forsaken_Status_2979 | Forsaken_Status_2979
Protecting your finances is important. NTA for standing firm 💰🛡️

innocentsubterfuge | innocentsubterfuge
Protect yourself! 💪 Don't lend money without a contract.

lady_410100 | lady_410100
Protecting finances from a possible gambling addiction 💰🃏

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Loving father or manipulative husband? A family's finances exposed 🤔

PowerfulJoeyKarate | PowerfulJoeyKarate
Protect your assets and don't enable addiction. 🙅♀️💰

Bitter-Conflict-4089 | Bitter-Conflict-4089
Protect your finances and stand your ground 💪

GordonBlue133 | GordonBlue133
Standing up for yourself is never the wrong choice 💪

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Protecting her assets 🛡️, setting boundaries for their marriage 💍

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams
Wife stands up for herself and raises suspicions about husband's behavior 👀

NanaLeonie | NanaLeonie
Standing up to a gambling addict. Not the a**hole 💪🎲

leo_99 | leo_99
Protect your finances and trust your gut. 💰

Any_Cantaloupe_613 | Any_Cantaloupe_613
Protect your assets! 🛡️ Notarize the contract before lending money

brkfstsmch | brkfstsmch
Protecting finances from spouse raises drug and gambling concerns 🤔

anonymousmetoo | anonymousmetoo
Suggests tracking device to uncover husband's suspicious behavior 👀

SnooFoxes4362 | SnooFoxes4362
Commenter suspects husband's motives, calls out fishy behavior 🐟

Kanulie | Kanulie
Protect your money 💰 and let him prove himself first 💪

jamesish99 | jamesish99
Protect your hard-earned money, don't let him take it 💰❌

Only-Ingenuity7889 | Only-Ingenuity7889
Protect your money and your marriage. Don't lend him anything 💰❌😡

Pink-glitter1 | Pink-glitter1
Protect your assets and don't fall for his tricks. NTA 👍

IncessantLearner | IncessantLearner
Protect your assets 💰 and stand your ground 👊

confusedhelpme22 | confusedhelpme22
Communication is key in a healthy relationship 👍

imugihana | imugihana
Protect yourself financially and legally from your husband 🚫💰

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Is her husband struggling with a gambling addiction? 🤔 #NTA

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Protect your money! 🚫 Don't trust him without a contract.

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👀 Refusing to disclose intended use of funds is a red flag.

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Protect your assets and don't fall for his schemes. #NTA 👍

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Protect your finances! 🤑 NTA for being suspicious.

Morrighu87 | Morrighu87
Protect your money! 🚨 NTA for being suspicious.

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet
Protect your assets and beware of red flags 💰❌

Synn0289 | Synn0289
Protect your financial security, don't let him gamble it away! 💰

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Protect your money, protect your peace. 🙅♀️💰

adorableexplosion | adorableexplosion
Protect your money, protect your peace 💰✌️ #NTA

Rem_Winchester | Rem_Winchester
🙅♀️ Don't let anyone take advantage of your finances! 💰

AloofyNGNM | AloofyNGNM
Protecting finances and children, NTA takes a stand 💪

Helpful-Banana9938 | Helpful-Banana9938
Protect your assets and trust your gut. 🚩

chichilex | chichilex
🚩 Too many red flags, NTA for not giving money without contract.

eyore5775 | eyore5775
Red flag alert! NTA, trust your gut feeling 🚩🤔

-QueefLatina- | -QueefLatina-
Partner tries to guilt wife into giving money, she stands firm. 💪

KitKat2014 | KitKat2014
Smart move protecting your money. Manipulative spouse is a red flag.

Fire_or_water_kai | Fire_or_water_kai
Demanding financial transparency is key, NTA 🕵️

Traveling-Techie | Traveling-Techie
Protect your assets! 🛡️ Demand transparency & evidence. NTA

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Protect your money, NTA! 💵

littlehappyfeets | littlehappyfeets
Sassy commenter asks for $14k without contract, supports OP.

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