Woman Refuses To Let Husband Borrow $14k From Her Account Without Signing A Contract

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A married couple agreed to split their finances, but when the husband requested to borrow $14k from the wife's account, she insisted on a contract. The husband refused to sign and accused her of not trusting him. He left the house and has not responded to her calls yet. Is the wife in the wrong for standing her ground and asking for a written agreement? Read more to find out.

Protecting my assets: why I refused to share finances 💰

throwaway5253541 | throwaway5253541

Spouse with empty bank account wants 14k, but wife says no 😤

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Husband's financial struggles raise questions about family expenses. 🤔

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Wife stands her ground and demands a contract for loan 🤝

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Protecting finances with a contract? 💰💼

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Protecting finances or breaking trust? Family drama unfolds over money 💰

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Protecting my money, am I the a**hole? 🤔

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Woman stands her ground against husband's financial demands 💪

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Wife refuses to loan husband money without a signed contract 😠

When it comes to money, it can be difficult to navigate the waters of family and relationships. However, in the case of this woman, she's not taking any chances. After her husband requested to pull $14k from her account, she insisted on a contract stating he would return the money in full. Her husband was offended and refused, even going as far as to call her a derogatory name. The situation has left the woman wondering if she was in the wrong for standing her ground. But is she? Let's take a closer look at the situation and see what others have to say.

Husband's behavior sounds like addiction, OP is NTA for refusing.

Justagirleatingcake | Justagirleatingcake

NTA. Commenters find humor in husband's entitled request 😂

DouniaLag | DouniaLag

Commenter and replies warn against husband's addiction, advise protecting assets 💰

Hotcrossbuns72 | Hotcrossbuns72

What's he hiding? 🤔 Commenters speculate on husband's 14k request

SmartestOrNot | SmartestOrNot

NTA. Marriage in trouble. Keep money for divorce fees and down payment.

Spare-Article-396 | Spare-Article-396

Don't let your spouse burn your money, YTA to yourself 👀💸

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friend's gambling experience shows that NTA made the right decision 💸🃏

Loop_Adjacent | Loop_Adjacent

Husband wants to withdraw 14k without telling you why? RUN 🏃‍♀️

GamesCatsComics | GamesCatsComics

Commenter raises suspicion but commenter replies clarify the situation 😊

JeepersCreepers74 | JeepersCreepers74

Don't let anyone gamble with your hard-earned money! 💰🃏

WilzAngie | WilzAngie

Spouse tries to withdraw thousands from joint account without explanation.

sw33tlips | sw33tlips

Respect the terms and keep standing your ground 👍

notnowtobey | notnowtobey

Commenter advises caution to woman marrying financially irresponsible man.

sspitufina1013 | sspitufina1013

Suspicious request for 14k raises red flags 🚨. Concerns for husband's borrowing habits 🤔

dontwannadoittoday | dontwannadoittoday

Protect your money and trust your instincts. 🚫💰

[deleted] | [deleted]

Protect your finances and stand your ground. 💰🚫

Difficult_Step5241 | Difficult_Step5241

Consider getting a financial advisor before lending, avoiding potential loss 💰

hfc1075 | hfc1075

Protect your assets 💰 before it's too late 👀

ElectronicRub1716 | ElectronicRub1716

Don't give this man a dime. 🚫 Change your passwords! 🔒

MadPiglet42 | MadPiglet42

Protect your money, protect yourself! 💰 NTA

mdthomas | mdthomas

Protect your assets 💰 before it's too late!

Life-Onion-5698 | Life-Onion-5698

Protect your finances and have an honest conversation with him 💰

shouldidrophim | shouldidrophim

Comment on financial past leads to speculation of addiction.

mzpljc | mzpljc

Protecting my money, my business. 💰

prawduhgee | prawduhgee

Don't let guilt cloud your judgement. Trust your instincts 🤔

MK_King69 | MK_King69

Protect your finances and don't enable bad behavior 💰🙅‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Protecting finances and family, NTA stands her ground 👏

cwestgamer | cwestgamer

Protect your finances and investigate any unusual activity 🕵️‍♀️

Forsaken_Status_2979 | Forsaken_Status_2979

Protecting your finances is important. NTA for standing firm 💰🛡️

innocentsubterfuge | innocentsubterfuge

Protect yourself! 💪 Don't lend money without a contract.

lady_410100 | lady_410100

Protecting finances from a possible gambling addiction 💰🃏

Time_Restaurant_9776 | Time_Restaurant_9776

Loving father or manipulative husband? A family's finances exposed 🤔

PowerfulJoeyKarate | PowerfulJoeyKarate

Protect your assets and don't enable addiction. 🙅‍♀️💰

Bitter-Conflict-4089 | Bitter-Conflict-4089

Protect your finances and stand your ground 💪

GordonBlue133 | GordonBlue133

Standing up for yourself is never the wrong choice 💪

bipolarlibra314 | bipolarlibra314

Protecting her assets 🛡️, setting boundaries for their marriage 💍

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

Wife stands up for herself and raises suspicions about husband's behavior 👀

NanaLeonie | NanaLeonie

Standing up to a gambling addict. Not the a**hole 💪🎲

leo_99 | leo_99

Protect your finances and trust your gut. 💰

Any_Cantaloupe_613 | Any_Cantaloupe_613

Protect your assets! 🛡️ Notarize the contract before lending money

brkfstsmch | brkfstsmch

Protecting finances from spouse raises drug and gambling concerns 🤔

anonymousmetoo | anonymousmetoo

Suggests tracking device to uncover husband's suspicious behavior 👀

SnooFoxes4362 | SnooFoxes4362

Commenter suspects husband's motives, calls out fishy behavior 🐟

Kanulie | Kanulie

Protect your money 💰 and let him prove himself first 💪

jamesish99 | jamesish99

Protect your hard-earned money, don't let him take it 💰❌

Only-Ingenuity7889 | Only-Ingenuity7889

Protect your money and your marriage. Don't lend him anything 💰❌😡

Pink-glitter1 | Pink-glitter1

Protect your assets and don't fall for his tricks. NTA 👍

IncessantLearner | IncessantLearner

Protect your assets 💰 and stand your ground 👊

confusedhelpme22 | confusedhelpme22

Communication is key in a healthy relationship 👍

imugihana | imugihana

Protect yourself financially and legally from your husband 🚫💰

A_herd_of_fluff | A_herd_of_fluff

Is her husband struggling with a gambling addiction? 🤔 #NTA

Ok-Educator850 | Ok-Educator850

Protect your money! 🚫 Don't trust him without a contract.

verukazalt | verukazalt

👀 Refusing to disclose intended use of funds is a red flag.

molotovmerkin | molotovmerkin

Protect your assets and don't fall for his schemes. #NTA 👍

lotus_eater123 | lotus_eater123

Protect your finances! 🤑 NTA for being suspicious.

Morrighu87 | Morrighu87

Protect your money! 🚨 NTA for being suspicious.

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet

Protect your assets and beware of red flags 💰❌

Synn0289 | Synn0289

Protect your financial security, don't let him gamble it away! 💰

katiejanestitsandass | katiejanestitsandass

Protect your money, protect your peace. 🙅‍♀️💰

adorableexplosion | adorableexplosion

Protect your money, protect your peace 💰✌️ #NTA

Rem_Winchester | Rem_Winchester

🙅‍♀️ Don't let anyone take advantage of your finances! 💰

AloofyNGNM | AloofyNGNM

Protecting finances and children, NTA takes a stand 💪

Helpful-Banana9938 | Helpful-Banana9938

Protect your assets and trust your gut. 🚩

chichilex | chichilex

🚩 Too many red flags, NTA for not giving money without contract.

eyore5775 | eyore5775

Red flag alert! NTA, trust your gut feeling 🚩🤔

-QueefLatina- | -QueefLatina-

Partner tries to guilt wife into giving money, she stands firm. 💪

KitKat2014 | KitKat2014

Smart move protecting your money. Manipulative spouse is a red flag.

Fire_or_water_kai | Fire_or_water_kai

Demanding financial transparency is key, NTA 🕵️

Traveling-Techie | Traveling-Techie

Protect your assets! 🛡️ Demand transparency & evidence. NTA

spicybruschetta | spicybruschetta

Protect your money, NTA! 💵

littlehappyfeets | littlehappyfeets

Sassy commenter asks for $14k without contract, supports OP.

starbucksntacotrucks | starbucksntacotrucks