New Dad Violates Agreement by Sending Photo of Newborn to His Family

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A couple had an agreement with their families regarding the birth of their son, but things took a turn when the husband secretly sent a picture of their newborn to his family. The wife was upset as it violated their agreement and caused emotional stress for her family. The husband, on the other hand, thinks his family should be allowed to see the picture. AITA for blowing up at my husband for sending his family a picture of our newborn?

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New dad violates agreement by sharing newborn photo with family 👶

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New dad violates agreement by sharing a pic with family 😡

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Agreement broken: New dad sends newborn photo to his family 😒

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Family drama ensues as new dad shares baby photo 📷

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Dad breaks agreement and sends newborn photo to family 📷

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Resentment over favoritism with newborn photo sparks family feud

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New dad sparks family feud over sharing baby's photo 📸

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New dad violates photo agreement, accused of being enmeshed. AITA?

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Family feud over newborn photo 📷

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Controlling new dad excludes family and insults infertile sister.

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New dad violates agreement by sharing baby photo with family 📸

Setting boundaries is important, especially when it comes to welcoming a new baby into the world. However, one new dad decided to violate the agreement he made with his wife by secretly sending a photo of their newborn to his family. This caused a major blow-up, with both families getting involved and causing emotional stress. The wife feels that the husband's family is being overdramatic and passive-aggressive, while the husband believes that he has the right to send a photo of his own son to whomever he pleases. The situation has caused a major rift in their relationship, with the wife wondering if she was too harsh in her reaction. This raises the question, who has the right to share photos of a new baby and how can couples set boundaries that are respected by both families? Let's take a deeper look into this complicated situation and the reactions it has sparked.

NTA. Both families making a competition out of baby milestones is dumb 🤦‍♀️. Grandparents have no concept of OP's son as a human being 🙅‍♀️.

DaisyInc | DaisyInc

Revenge or communication? An engaging debate on toxic relationships. 🤔

Domino3286 | Domino3286

Toxic in-laws and a controlling partner. NTA, consider therapy.

DaniCapsFan | DaniCapsFan

Spouse's family violates boundaries, OP gets petty revenge. NTA.

M-P-K-K135 | M-P-K-K135

New dad prioritizes pleasing his family over wife's needs 😒

C4M5T46 | C4M5T46

This messy family dynamic is a disaster waiting to happen 🤦‍♂️

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Agreement about newborn photo turns into petty argument. ESH.

phillybride | phillybride

Comment section turned into a middle school gossip session 😂👀

tristan24loo | tristan24loo

Commenter defends OP, while questioning husband's motives. 🤔

emccm | emccm

Infant caught in power struggle between dysfunctional family members 🍼

caesar____augustus | caesar____augustus

Play them at their own game and assert your boundaries 😎

jonairl | jonairl

Comment section turns into a family feud 👍👥

tripviic | tripviic

Commenters call out drama in exhausting situation. 🙄 ESH.

Therealdealishere99 | Therealdealishere99

Families are being over dramatic and a bit toxic 👀

Whiteroses7252012 | Whiteroses7252012

Agreement broken, family first 😠 Potential signs of isolation 🤔

Babsgarcia | Babsgarcia

Family feud over newborn photo; ESH including new dad.

Wendypoupee | Wendypoupee

Sad reality for the kid 😔

No-Satisfaction-1878 | No-Satisfaction-1878

Comment section full of childish behavior 🙄

intervallfaster | intervallfaster

Boundaries crossed, family wins game show, dad's the a**hole 👎

ThatsALittleCornball | ThatsALittleCornball

Missed opportunity to post baby photos first, ESH for fighting.

Talathia | Talathia

Petty revenge suggestions for a disrespectful husband and MIL 😈

DeepTie6252 | DeepTie6252

New parents deal with chaotic family over leaked baby photo. 🤦‍♀️

cassowary32 | cassowary32

A pandemic, an odd contest, and a broken agreement 🤦‍♂️📸

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Support for the commenter and criticism towards the husband 🤨

telepathicathena | telepathicathena

Everyone sucks here, but let's not forget about the baby 😔

badhairgays | badhairgays

NTA's reasonable concern about new dad's photo-sharing agreement violation.

alltimekayla97 | alltimekayla97

Families can be a handful 🙄 ESH needs to grow up

classicgirl1990 | classicgirl1990

New mom's request for privacy is understandable 🙏

Pinglenook | Pinglenook

Commenters act childish in response to the article.

Logical-Unlogical | Logical-Unlogical

A fair solution to new dad's family photo violation.

Careless_Mango | Careless_Mango

New dad breaks agreement, families compete for social media clout. ESH.

Kakafaceee | Kakafaceee

Commenter not impressed with post in humorous tone 😒

Ok_Photograph_8115 | Ok_Photograph_8115

A chaotic situation with no heroes, only villains. 😕

elcad | elcad

Newborn wants out: ESH family drama is exhausting 😩

Murky_Translator2295 | Murky_Translator2295

Respect boundaries, even with family 🚫👨‍👩‍👧

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Partner isolating me from my family, ESH. 💔

sandstorm320 | sandstorm320

Age is just a number, but maturity is priceless. 🙄 ESH

bigmamma0 | bigmamma0

Drama-free baby zone: respect boundaries and stop pushing, everyone sucks.

throwaway-a0 | throwaway-a0

Everyone's terrible, except the baby 😂

ghostofkilgore | ghostofkilgore

Engage your parents by sending them baby's first moments 😍

Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy

Husband violates trust to get one over family. Toxic situation 😒

Aitasuperfan | Aitasuperfan

Commenter calls out family's overreaction to newborn photo. ESH 😑

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Setting boundaries is key, for the sake of the child 👨🏻👩🏻🤔

ouiouiouichef | ouiouiouichef

Setting boundaries with in-laws over newborn photo 📷

glitterandrum | glitterandrum

Understanding the dynamics of fear in abusive relationships.

Web-of-wtf | Web-of-wtf

New dad violates photo agreement, but families are also problematic.

Professional-Fail554 | Professional-Fail554

Commenter calls out dad for 'insane rules' on baby photo

corgimom524 | corgimom524

Family feud over newborn photo leads to ESH blame game.

lizfour | lizfour

Setting boundaries with family can be tough 😕, counseling may help.

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