A man distances himself from family after his wife discovered his sister's husband cheating on her. He confronts his sister about her insecurity issues with other women at a family gathering which led to her running out crying. Was he too harsh or is he not the a**hole in this situation? Read more to find out.
Man Tells Sister To Stop Projecting Insecurities Onto Other Women
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Family drama can be tough, especially when it involves cheating and infidelity. But what happens when one family member takes their anger out on another for simply being in the same room as their spouse? In this post, a man recounts the fallout from his sister's public outburst toward his wife.
Despite trying to distance himself from the drama, he finds himself in the middle of it once again at a family gathering. When his sister accuses his wife of being too friendly with her cheating husband, tensions boil over and he finally speaks his mind.
But was he too harsh? The family is spilt on their opinions, read on to see what commenters on Reddit have to say.
NTA text exchange with BIL after he stops cheating 👀
mynamecouldbesam | mynamecouldbesam
Supportive husband defends wife against projecting sister. NTA 👏
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Sister blames messenger for husband's infidelity, needs counseling. NTA
CaptNeefieNoo | CaptNeefieNoo
Defending wife makes him an a**hole? NTA. Sister projecting insecurities.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Defending wife against projecting sister proves NTA status 👍
Psychic_Unicorn_ | Psychic_Unicorn_
Sister projecting insecurities, BIL needs to keep it together. NTA
soup_detective | soup_detective
Stand up for your partner, always. NTA 🙌
OpinionatedTradWife | OpinionatedTradWife
Defending his wife, he's NTA. Sister is a massive AH 😤
bruhidekmane | bruhidekmane
NTA! Sister projecting insecurities, avoid toxic behavior and establish boundaries.
Keystone283 | Keystone283
Support for standing up to sister's projection. 🙌
bobledrew | bobledrew
Defending wife from sister's false accusations, NTA. 🙅♂️
Forward_Squirrel8879 | Forward_Squirrel8879
Sibling rivalry gets intense, but OP stands up for spouse 🤝
nervous_ghost | nervous_ghost
Supporting brother stands up for innocent wife against insecure sister 👏
SirLow8846 | SirLow8846
Sister's projection exposed, cheater BIL called out with wit
tatasz | tatasz
Sister's insecurities exposed, husband to blame. NTA.
SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839
Kudos to the Mrs. for having a good moral compass 👍
Rebeckie2204 | Rebeckie2204
Sister projecting insecurities? NTA's mild reaction surprises commenter 😬
TheLadyMalekah | TheLadyMalekah
Defending wife from projecting sister in unfaithful marriage. NTA 👍
overseas-mango | overseas-mango
Sister needs therapy, OP is NTA. No need to apologize 🙅♀️
facinationstreet | facinationstreet
NTA. Sister needs therapy and accountability for blaming wife.
nixiedust85 | nixiedust85
Defending your spouse against toxic family. ❤
Total-Being-4278 | Total-Being-4278
Cheating BIL called OP rude after being caught. Yikes. 😱
Flat_Salamander_3283 | Flat_Salamander_3283
Supportive response to sister's insecurities 💪
Red_Cathy | Red_Cathy
Defending spouse from insecure sister, NTA for standing up 👊
AngelaORK | AngelaORK
Sister's insecurities called out, but OP not the a**hole 🙌
GothPenguin | GothPenguin
NTA. Sister projecting insecurities, needs therapy. Husband cheated, not fault of others.
itsjustmo_ | itsjustmo_
Support for OP's wife, frustration towards BIL's audacity. 🙄
wastingtime747 | wastingtime747
Sister's insecurities do not justify projecting onto other women. NTA.
journeytohealth1985 | journeytohealth1985
Sister projecting insecurities onto wife, OP not the a**hole. 💪
0ddprim3 | 0ddprim3
Defending wife against cheating accusations with NTA judgment.
waywardjynx | waywardjynx
Sister projecting insecurities, NTA for confronting her behavior 👏
Specific-Succotash-8 | Specific-Succotash-8
Sibling advice: stop projecting insecurities. NTA, counseling recommended 😅
violetbaudelairegt | violetbaudelairegt
Don't let someone else's rage affect your relationships. NTA
calaakla | calaakla
Calling out toxic behavior is not harsh, it's necessary! 👏
Screamscaper | Screamscaper
NTA tells a cautionary tale about sharing unwelcome news 🙅♀️
Gagirl4604 | Gagirl4604
Sister projecting insecurities on wife, OP suggests counseling. NTA.
CrimsonKnight_004 | CrimsonKnight_004
Defending spouse against projection, NTA verdict. 👍
Maleficent_Ad_8563 | Maleficent_Ad_8563
Sister's insecurities exposed: NTA tells it like it is 💥
SnooDoughnuts7315 | SnooDoughnuts7315
Standing up for his wife against projecting sister. NTA 👏
del901 | del901
Support for wife standing up against insecurities. Not the a**hole.
tryoracle | tryoracle
Protecting loved ones can sometimes lead to unexpected conflicts 🤔
Shakeit126 | Shakeit126
Defending wife's actions, commenter calls sister's reaction 'insane'. NTA.
RoseGold-Bubbles1333 | RoseGold-Bubbles1333
Supportive response urges OP to help sister seek therapy 👍
thejexorcist | thejexorcist
Savage! 😂 Calling out toxic behavior like a boss.
[deleted] | [deleted]
You go, not the a-hole! 🙌
BlueMoon5k | BlueMoon5k
Encouraging response. Counseling could help her overcome her insecurities. 🙏
[deleted] | [deleted]
Don't apologize for setting healthy boundaries 🚫🙅♀️
everythingistaken427 | everythingistaken427
Commenter supports OP and wife, anticipates drama with humor 🍿
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BIL is the real problem here, NTA for speaking up
Acrobatic_End6355 | Acrobatic_End6355
Sister's issue with wife? NTA but insecurities projected onto women.
kintra292929 | kintra292929
Commenter explains possible reason for sister's misdirected anger.
Robyn_withaY | Robyn_withaY
Supportive comment offers apology and encourages therapy for sister's issues.
Sea_Help_5556 | Sea_Help_5556
Sister's insecurities causing unnecessary drama in family 👀
citricsteak54 | citricsteak54
Don't apologize for calling out sister's narcissistic behavior 🚫🙏
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Defend yourself against insecurity projection with empathy and kindness ❤️
RemoteBroccoli | RemoteBroccoli
Don't shoot the messenger! NTA for standing up for your wife 🙌
Broad-Party4795 | Broad-Party4795
NTA defends wife after sister lashes out over infidelity revelation 😤
AhGaSeNation | AhGaSeNation
Commenter discusses accountability and denial in relationships.
mcclgwe | mcclgwe
Sister's husband cheats, but she blames other women? NTA.
einsteinGO | einsteinGO
Supporting wife, confronting sister's behavior. NTA wins.
AreWeHavingFunYet557 | AreWeHavingFunYet557
Calling out the fear of being a messenger with 💯 accuracy.
Pale_Cranberry1502 | Pale_Cranberry1502
Sibling advises firm statement to sister projecting insecurities on SIL.
seniortwat | seniortwat
Not the a**hole, but what sparked this response?
Apprehensive-Bee-474 | Apprehensive-Bee-474
Empowering response to sister's projected insecurities. 🙌
Tootie0 | Tootie0
Sister's husband causes drama, go low-contact. 🙌
Cultural-Ambition449 | Cultural-Ambition449
Support for calling out toxic behavior in family 👍
xavii62 | xavii62
Sister's behavior is suspicious, but OP is NTA 🤔
Nibbler1999 | Nibbler1999
Sister projecting insecurities, husband's infidelity causing misplaced anger. NTA.
TheBookOfTormund | TheBookOfTormund
Calling out toxic behavior 🚫🙅♀️
Expensive_Warthog444 | Expensive_Warthog444
Encourage positivity! 🌟
EmmCeeB | EmmCeeB
Standing up to family drama like a boss. 🤘
VintageSed | VintageSed
New acronym idea: YAA - You are amazing! 💪
ZeroTiers | ZeroTiers
Sister blames wife for doing the right thing 🤷♀️
killerxaddiction | killerxaddiction
NTA for standing up for wife against projecting sister 👍
suelynel | suelynel
Man defends wife against sister's abusive behavior. NTA.
sally_marie_b | sally_marie_b
Don't shoot the messenger: OP advises sister to seek therapy 💆
apprehensive_cat284 | apprehensive_cat284
Defending wife on crutches, NTA refuses apology for sister's projection.
Forsaken_Distance777 | Forsaken_Distance777
Sibling support in dealing with infidelity and prioritizing personal healing. 👪
Ok-Office6837 | Ok-Office6837
Defending wife against projection of sister's insecurities. 💪
SleepyxDormouse | SleepyxDormouse
Standing up for your wife against cheating accusations 👍🏼
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