A wife posted on the AmItheAsshole subreddit about her husband who threw away all the food she prepared for her family. The husband usually complains about the food and doesn’t like what’s on the menu. When the family had to cancel their visit, the wife kept the food in the fridge, but the husband threw it all away saying it smelled funny. The couple had a fight and the wife said she won’t cook for him anymore. The husband left to meet his friends to vent, while the wife is still upset about the incident. Was the wife right to refuse to cook for him? Or was the husband right to throw away the food? Who’s the a**hole in this situation?
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A newlywed wife is outraged after discovering that her husband threw away all the food she prepared for her family, claiming it smelled ‘funny’. The husband has been complaining about the wife’s cooking, stating that he doesn’t like the food she makes for her family and that he is tired of eating fast food. The wife, who has been accommodating her husband’s food preferences, is now refusing to cook for him after he wasted her time, energy, and money. What will happen next in this culinary clash? Stay tuned for the comments and reactions.
Comment section turns into a hilarious discussion of ableism

Cooking should be appreciated & not expected. NTA

Husband throws away wife’s food, refuses to eat it. NTA.

Low key racism? Wife is NTA for not cooking

Husband throws away food to pressure wife into cooking. NTA.

Husband throws away food, wife suggests divorce. NTA.
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NTA, husband selfishly throws away family’s food, wife won’t cook again.

Commenter calls husband a child and receives agreement.

NTA, husband needs to grow a pair and learn to cook
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Commenter supports wife’s decision to not cook for racist husband

Don’t let him bully you into cooking! #NTA

Questioning the foundation of a toxic marriage

Cooking skills causing marital conflicts?

No excuses for throwing away food cook for yourself buddy

Husband acting like a toddler NTA for refusing to cook

Wife refuses to cook after husband throws away food. NTA.

Cooking for a partner isn’t a chore, it’s a choice

Commenter raises concern of racism in husband’s food preferences

Why cook for someone who throws away your food? #NTA

Marriage problems due to racism.

Wife refuses to cook for husband after he throws away food

Wife’s husband throws away food, refuses to learn to cook. NTA.

Wife stands up for herself after husband throws family’s food

Don’t cook for the food-waster ♀️

Not the a**hole. Food waste is unacceptable.

Red flags flying high: 31-year-old man still living with mommy?

Cooking for your family is kind. He’s being very shitty

Husband throws away family’s food and insults wife’s culture.

Commenter defends wife’s cultural food, husband shows contempt

Commenter accuses husband of racism.

Communication breakdown in marriage over meal preparation.
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Let him cook his own food

Lazy husband throws away food, wife won’t cook. Microwave skills required.

Wife refuses to cook for lazy husband, internet cheers her on

Husband’s food waste earns him no meals from wife ️

Family dinner ruined by husband’s bad behavior. Be polite

Wife refuses to cook after husband throws away food.

Don’t let weaponized incompetence ruin your relationship

Wife takes stand, husband left hungry ️
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Agreeing with NTA comment
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Shared responsibility Return to sender

Feigned incompetence in straight marriages is a documented phenomenon . NTA and stand your ground!

Encouraging NTA to share cooking responsibilities with husband

Don’t let entitled partners waste your food, culture and efforts ♀️

Cultural differences in cuisine spark recipe sharing frenzy

Questioning the marriage: cultural disrespect and racism

Empathetic comment offers advice for choosing better partners. ❤️

NTA, no cooking for him ️ ♀️

Lazy husband throws away food, expects wife to cook everything

Husband throws away food but complains about unwanted food? NTA

Cook what you want, eat what you get

Husband refuses wife’s offer to cook his preferred dishes

Stand up for yourself! No cooking until he apologizes.

Respect your spouse’s culture or get out.

Wife stands up for herself, husband learns to cook

Agree! Not normal behavior in any healthy relationship. #NTA

Husband refuses wife’s cooking, but won’t say what he wants

Find out the household agreement on cooking before judging.

Lazy husband throws away food, wife takes a stand ♀️

Husband throws away family’s food, wife refuses to cook for him again. Commenter calls out husband’s controlling behavior and possible racism. #NotTheA**hole ♀️

NTA, spouse needs to grow up and learn to cook

Microwaving leftover fish in a shared kitchen

Empowered woman refuses to cook for wasteful husband.
