Father Pays for Daughter's Wedding, Not Invited to Engagement Party

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Dad pays for daughter's wedding, not invited to engagement party

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Disciplinarian dad struggles with kids' perception after divorce 😢

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Parental love prevails over time, despite initial misunderstandings ❤️

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Father's surprise when daughter's boyfriend asked for blessing 💍

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Father pays for daughter's wedding, but not invited to party 😔

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Father's exclusion from daughter's wedding festivities causes tension. 😔

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Father pays for wedding, not invited to engagement party. 😔

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Father pays for daughter's wedding but not invited to party 😔

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Father excluded from daughter's wedding, drama ensues with future in-laws

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Dad pays for wedding, not invited to engagement party. 😔

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Father struggles to pay for wedding, not invited to party.

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Father pays for wedding, not invited to engagement party 😔

A father's love knows no bounds. This was the case for a father who paid for his daughter's wedding but was not invited to her engagement party. Despite being viewed as the 'bad guy' by his children, he made sure they never went without. His youngest daughter, who had distanced herself from him, surprised him by asking for his blessing to marry her boyfriend. Things were going well until he found out he was excluded from the engagement party. The reason? His daughter did not want drama on her special day. The father was hurt by the snub but remained calm and asked for an explanation. He offered to step back if his daughter wished for her stepfather to walk her down the aisle. The father's actions were seen as selfish by his ex-wife and her husband, but he remained resolute in his decision. What will happen next? Keep reading to find out.

Father pays for daughter's wedding, not invited to engagement party: Commenters suggest groom and bride pay instead. NTA.

feathersandheroin | feathersandheroin

Father not invited to engagement party after paying for daughter's wedding

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OP is advised to tell the truth about the divorce to his children and take back control, while sympathizing with his position. 💔😔👨‍👧‍👦

little500HondaCBR | little500HondaCBR

Father declines to pay for disrespectful wedding, calls out manipulative daughter.

Grouchy-Bluejay-4092 | Grouchy-Bluejay-4092

Daughter uses father as cash cow, excludes him from wedding 🤑🚫👨‍👧

pikasafire | pikasafire

Father used as ATM by ungrateful daughter. Stop funding her.

chlowiner | chlowiner

Father stands up for himself and plans to reveal truth.

soldiermom1973 | soldiermom1973

Father excluded from daughter's engagement party, withdraws financial support 💰

CatsEatGrass | CatsEatGrass

Daughter chose to cast off biological father for money from Stan 💰

kcaskew | kcaskew

Commenter supports honesty in a family conflict. 👍

Asantos1234 | Asantos1234

Father pays for daughter's wedding, not invited to engagement party - NTA

MrFlitter | MrFlitter

Father pays for daughter's wedding, not invited to engagement party. NTA, but will he attend the wedding?

horrorgender | horrorgender

Father struggles with daughter's wedding after being excluded from engagement party.

MithrilCache | MithrilCache

Father pays for children's futures, but they only see him as an ATM 💰

Akiiechan | Akiiechan

Father excluded from engagement party after paying for daughter's wedding 💰👰‍♀️💔

MycroftHolmes1953 | MycroftHolmes1953

Father puts his foot down, NTA for not funding wedding.

YourUsernameForever | YourUsernameForever

Gendered expectations of men and money challenged. NTA wins.

TackiestSasquatch | TackiestSasquatch

Father advised to have a heartfelt conversation with daughter ❤️

PrudentPoptart | PrudentPoptart

NTA, but revealing the truth may end family tensions 🤔

Amilo159 | Amilo159

Dodged a bullet there! 😅

Famous-Vanilla-7213 | Famous-Vanilla-7213

Father not invited to engagement party after paying for daughter's wedding

Jovon35 | Jovon35

Daughter uses father for money, excludes him from party 💰👎

Neat-Investment-3582 | Neat-Investment-3582

Father's lack of involvement led to wedding exclusion.

ChipmunkWonderful642 | ChipmunkWonderful642

Daughter snubs father after he pays for wedding 💸😔

ServelanDarrow | ServelanDarrow

Father pays for daughter's wedding, not invited to engagement party. Commenter advises not to expect a happy reunion with daughter despite the financial support.

IUsedTheRandomizer | IUsedTheRandomizer

Father not invited to engagement party after paying for daughter's wedding - comment suggests sharing truth with son. NTA 👍

ProfEmerita | ProfEmerita

Suggests alternative uses for wedding funds 💰🚗🏖️

NefariousnessSweet70 | NefariousnessSweet70

OP's trust in ex-wife leads to wedding invitation snub. 💔

Janitor_Snuggle | Janitor_Snuggle

Secret affair causes family tension, dad provides stability 💔💼

NITAREEDDESIGNS | NITAREEDDESIGNS

Father refuses to attend daughter's wedding, takes stand against adultery 👨‍👧

knodumblonde | knodumblonde

Father pays for daughter's wedding but not invited? NTA, spill the tea 🍵

Blas_Wiggans | Blas_Wiggans

Encourage communication and avoid using money as leverage ❤️

ahellgate | ahellgate

Daughter asks for dad's money but not his presence. 🤔

little_miss_havoc | little_miss_havoc

Don't be an ATM dad, have self-respect. 💰👨‍👧‍👦 NTA.

ProbsThrowawayy | ProbsThrowawayy

Father pays for daughter's wedding but not invited to engagement party

jayhalleaux | jayhalleaux

Father refuses to pay for daughter's wedding after being excluded

whichwitch9 | whichwitch9

OP should consider being honest with their kids for their sake 😔

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Father pays for daughter's wedding but not invited to party 😞

Puzzled_Juice_3406 | Puzzled_Juice_3406

Commenter supports OP after painful family situation. NTA ❤️

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Divorced father refuses to pay for daughter's wedding, gets blamed

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Father discovers daughter's true intentions, cuts ties with bridezilla 👰

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Father pays for daughter's wedding and deserves respect 🎉

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Honesty is the best policy. 💯

MaryContrary26 | MaryContrary26

Commenter suggests cutting off payment and sarcastic response to daughter

AikoMizuhara | AikoMizuhara

Daughter only nice for money, son agrees, tell truth to all 👀💰

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Money matters: Can the commenter get their deposit back?

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Father sets boundaries with daughter after exclusion from party 👨‍👧

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Daughter using father for money, threatens to expose affair partner.

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Father refuses to pay for daughter's wedding after not being invited. 👍

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