Man Kicks Sister And Future BIL Out Of Wedding After What He Did To His Kids

Bride and groom at a night wedding.
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A man kicks his sister and future brother-in-law out of his wedding after they locked his kids in a room. He always knew his future BIL did not like kids, but he never expected him to go this far.

Tim, the future BIL, tried to exclude the kids from family events and even tried to talk the couple out of involving the kids in their wedding. During the wedding, Tim locked the kids in a room, claiming he was worried they would wander around unsupervised. The man lost his temper and kicked Tim and his sister out of the wedding.

The man's parents and wife are pressuring him to reconcile with his sister and Tim, but he is focusing on his family for now. Read on to find out more about this family drama.

Sibling rivalry leads to explosive wedding drama 🎭

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Groom's brother hates kids and causes family drama 🙄

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Sibling rivalry turns ugly with nephew banishment 🤨

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Small wedding with kids, but one guest had a big problem 🤔

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BIL creates drama by trying to get kids excluded from family wedding 🙄

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Tim offers to take care of kids but still gets kicked out 🤔

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Tim's peculiar behavior with kids raises suspicion during wedding.

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Kids locked in room at wedding, sister and BIL kicked out

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Groom finds kids locked in room, kicks sister and fiancé out 🚪

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Protective dad takes action to include his kids in wedding.

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Man kicks sister and future BIL out of wedding amidst family drama

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Man defends kicking out sister's fiancé from wedding 🚫💍

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Family drama ensues after kicking out sister and BIL 👀

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Sister defends finance's questionable childcare tactics at wedding.

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Family pressures couple to forgive after wedding drama 🙄

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Prioritizing family and cutting toxicity. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

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Man kicks sister and future BIL out of wedding after mistreating kids 😡

In this story, family drama ensues as a man kicks his sister and her fiancé out of his wedding after they mistreated his kids. Despite clear warnings about his kids' involvement in the wedding, the fiancé took it upon himself to lock the kids in their room during the celebration.

The man confronts his future BIL, calling him cruel and selfish, and kicks him and his sister out of the wedding. The man's parents try to mediate the situation, but his wife is left wondering what kind of family she has married into.

As the man refuses to apologize or communicate with his sister and future BIL, tension rises within the family. Will they be able to resolve this misunderstanding, or will the man's decision to go no contact cause a permanent rift within the family?

Read on for reactions and comments from Reddit.

NTA. Commenters express concern for safety of OP's children.

Joxem13 | Joxem13

NTA, sister and fiance owe apology for locking kids in room 😡

penguinplus7 | penguinplus7

NTA for prioritizing the well-being of your family 👏

AmethysstFire | AmethysstFire

Commenter and former CPS worker express concern over Tim's avoidance behavior towards children.

Shaneaux | Shaneaux

Commenter explains why OP's brother was not acting with good intentions.

Sweet_Baby_Grogu | Sweet_Baby_Grogu

OP is NTA for kicking out sister's fiancé who locked kids.

Solenthis87 | Solenthis87

Commenter expresses shock and advises to do better parenting. Replies question the authenticity of the story.

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Commenters suspect Tim's behavior goes beyond discomfort around kids 🤔

devildocjames | devildocjames

Encouraging advice to protect sister from possible abuser 👏

Bunnyaimee | Bunnyaimee

Commenter questions validity of post and raises red flags.

thatsharkchick | thatsharkchick

Commenter supports OP's decision to kick sister's fiancé out of wedding.

Prestigious_Tip_1104 | Prestigious_Tip_1104

NTA for kicking them out. Sister needs to wake up 🚫👶

voodoodahlia | voodoodahlia

NTA kicks sister and future BIL out of wedding for child hater

PommeDeSang | PommeDeSang

Passionate defense of parent's decision to not invite abuser. 🔥

Kayhowardhlots | Kayhowardhlots

NTA but family and BIL are AH's! Best of luck 👍

Remarkable_Sea_1062 | Remarkable_Sea_1062

Protecting kids from bizarre uncle, NTA takes a stand 🙌

Critical_Aspect | Critical_Aspect

NTA calls out child endangerment, suggests legal action. 💪

snootnoots | snootnoots

Commenter questions locks on children's bedroom doors, OP explains reasons.

ferretkona | ferretkona

Weddings are supposed to be a joyous occasion, not a nightmare 👰🏻‍♀️😡

Mister_Silk | Mister_Silk

Weddings are about love, not locking kids in rooms 💔

PrettyLittleAccident | PrettyLittleAccident

Commenter and reply agree: Tim is a psychopath 👀

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Commenter slams Tim's behavior and criticizes family's support. 💯

FoodBabyBaby | FoodBabyBaby

BIL's actions were dangerous and NTA did the right thing. ⚠️

Baroness_Mayhem | Baroness_Mayhem

Protecting kids comes first! NTA for kicking him out 👏

Pickletits91 | Pickletits91

Commenter defends OP against selfish wedding guest's unacceptable behavior 💪

marleezy123 | marleezy123

Redditor supports OP for kicking out family member from wedding.

GothSpite | GothSpite

Curious about Tim's fear of being around children 👀

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Standing up for your kids is always the right thing 👏

lolalenore | lolalenore

Locking kids in and badmouthing stepdad - NTA stands firm

unusualteapot | unusualteapot

Commenter applauds OP for kicking out abusive family member.

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NTA! OP stands up for abused kids, considers pressing charges 🔥👏

CorruptedSiren | CorruptedSiren

Locking up young kids at a wedding? NTA, not even close 😠👎

Agreeable_Otter | Agreeable_Otter

Disturbing comment about abusive father, NTA verdict supported.

liarslittlepretty | liarslittlepretty

Keep your kids safe! 🚫 Never let him near them again.

allenna | allenna

Man locks up kids at wedding, parents defend creepy behavior.

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OP receives helpful advice on checking for child offender history.

MaccysPeas | MaccysPeas

Support for OP's decision to kick out dangerous family members.

MsBaseball34 | MsBaseball34

Commenter compares the groom's actions to Hitler and the Spanish Inquisition 🤔

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Don't apologize for protecting your kids. NTA 👏

GothPenguin | GothPenguin

Sassy suggestion to a NTA comment, lock him in basement 🤫

pussnboots29 | pussnboots29

Don't let him ruin your special day or your home. #NTA 💍👰

coatrack68 | coatrack68

Commenter expresses dislike for kids but condemns unacceptable behavior. 👍

VoiceNumber7 | VoiceNumber7

Commenter calls out family for enabling cartoon villain father.

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Step-children deserve love too ❤️‍🔥

NotSoAverage_sister | NotSoAverage_sister

Father's cruel wedding ultimatum leads to justified NTA judgement 👍🏼

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Cheers to starting a new life and leaving toxic family behind

HowardProject | HowardProject

Commenter expresses outrage at mistreatment of children, advocates for cutting contact.

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Commenter sympathizes with OP, condemns BIL's behavior and sister's defense 🙅‍♀️

Apgamerwolf | Apgamerwolf

Protecting children comes first. NTA. 👏

squirrelsareevil2479 | squirrelsareevil2479

Commenter condemns abusive behavior towards children and demands accountability.

sezit | sezit

Cut all ties with abusive family member. NTA 👍

Aradene | Aradene

Protecting the kids 🙅‍♂️ Keep the creepy BIL away 👀

Claire_Bee | Claire_Bee

Commenter sympathizes with OP's situation and calls out the AH.

spdaroch | spdaroch

Protecting the kids from abuse, NTA takes action 🛡️

Major_hull_Damage | Major_hull_Damage

Red flags raised about Tim's behavior towards kids. 🤔

Octavia9 | Octavia9

NTA: Kick them to the curb 👏

These-Arm7058 | These-Arm7058

Curious why Tim dislikes children, but OP is NTA.

AdorableScheme4636 | AdorableScheme4636

Protecting the kids 🙏 You're NTA for calling him out.

Naw1010 | Naw1010

Enabling bad behavior is not okay. 🔥👎

LynxInYourSynx | LynxInYourSynx

Narrator sees through Tim's bad intentions. NTA wins.

SmoochNo | SmoochNo

Commenter shocked at OP being called TA for locking kids 🤯

somebodys_problem | somebodys_problem

🤔 What is Tim hiding? NTA deserves to know!

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Concerned commenter asks if sister's fiance is safe around children

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