Wife Asks Husband's Friend To Stop Visiting When She's Not Home

A woman putting up the stop sign.
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When a wife found out that her husband's friend's wife was visiting their house every day when she was away, she asked her to stop. However, when she continued to do so, the wife contacted the friend and asked him to tell his wife to stop. This resulted in chaos in their friendship group, with the friend's wife being upset and accusing the wife of implying things about her.

The husband is indifferent, but the gossip has caused a lot of problems. Do you think the wife was in the wrong? Click to read more and find out what happened in this situation. 🤔

Husband's friend's wife overstepping boundaries when wife is away 🤨

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Setting boundaries with husband's friend: a delicate situation 🤷‍♀️

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Boundaries ignored: friend's wife keeps overstepping boundaries

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Husband's friend asks him to talk to wife about boundaries 🚫

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Gossip tears apart husband's friendship group due to wife's request 😲

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Is the wife being unreasonable? Let's discuss! 😕

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Wife confronts husband's friend's wife for visiting while she's away

In this story, a wife found out that her husband's friend's wife was visiting their home in Italy every day when she was away. The wife confronted her multiple times but the friend's wife continued to do so. She eventually asked the friend's husband to intervene which caused chaos in their friendship group. Now, the friend's wife is angry and claiming that the wife is making implications about her character.

Is the wife the A-hole for asking the husband's friend to intervene and talk to his wife? Read on for reactions and comments from people on Reddit.

Wife caught her husband's 'friend' visiting when she's not home. Commenters agree, NTA.

Netflickingthebean | Netflickingthebean

NTA for telling the husband, but husband needs to step up 🤷‍♀️

IHaveSaidMyPiece | IHaveSaidMyPiece

Husband's lack of action leads wife to confront friend 💪

The_Krudler | The_Krudler

Wife asks husband's friend to stop uninvited visits 👍

oneblessedmess | oneblessedmess

Pit maneuver sidelines husband's friend, Italian housekeeper gets bonus 💰

NeverStill77 | NeverStill77

NTA. Husband's friend causing chaos with daily visits. Husband indifferent.

wilie345 | wilie345

Setting boundaries and enforcing them. 👍

removed_bymoderator | removed_bymoderator

Friend's frequent visits may lead to infidelity. 👀


Wife asks husband's friend to stop visiting without telling husband

HotspurJr | HotspurJr

Friend supports husband, calls out inappropriate behavior. NTA 👍

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Wife accuses husband's friend of suspicious behavior, commenters agree 💭🤔

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Communication breakdown? Husband's friend visits when wife's not home.

bruinslacker | bruinslacker

When 'NTA' means there might be an affair going on 👀

jerf42069 | jerf42069

Friend's visit led to the discovery of infidelity 🤯

MerelyWhelmed1 | MerelyWhelmed1

Wife confronts husband's friend's visits, sparks affair suspicions among group 👀

Feeling-Manner3862 | Feeling-Manner3862

Husband's indifference could mean lack of interest or complicity 🤔

SonuvaGunderson | SonuvaGunderson

Standing up for yourself and your relationship like a boss 💪

Alternative-Push3767 | Alternative-Push3767

Curious commenter seeks more information about husband's role 👀

Cleantech2020 | Cleantech2020

Compassionate response to husband's friend, a potential 'snake in the grass'.

AdministrativeYak859 | AdministrativeYak859

Unannounced visits from husband's friend's wife causing discomfort 🤔

ResponsibleGarlic203 | ResponsibleGarlic203

Defensive wife caught in the wrong…NTA wins this one! 🙌

Inside_Major_8078 | Inside_Major_8078

Woman accuses husband's friend of inappropriate behavior, gets support.

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Bringing chaos to light, NTA takes charge 🕵️

Ok_Yesterday_6214 | Ok_Yesterday_6214

Supportive comment suggests leaving unsupportive husband. 🙌

acepan_97 | acepan_97

Friend respects boundaries, husband's wife not comfortable with visits. NTA

neeksknowsbest | neeksknowsbest

Wife asks husband's friend to stop visiting, husband indifferent. NTA.

Logical-Abroad4945 | Logical-Abroad4945

Wife asks husband's friend to stop visiting - NTA

PaintLicker_2022 | PaintLicker_2022

Setting boundaries: NTA handles unwanted guest like a boss 👏

Salt-Objective-9545 | Salt-Objective-9545

Commenter misreads NTA as 'need to poop everyday' 😂

lilylawnpenguin | lilylawnpenguin

Setting boundaries in marriage is crucial. NTA for protecting it. 👏

saltlevelsrising | saltlevelsrising

👏🏼Stand up for yourself and set boundaries. NTA.👏🏼

kenzie-k369 | kenzie-k369

Friend's secret visits to husband were disrespectful. NTA 🚩

Escape_Overlander | Escape_Overlander

Spouse should have supported wife's request to avoid confrontation

Much-Meringue-7467 | Much-Meringue-7467

Is it odd that the wife asked instead of the husband? 🤔

phoenixreborn76 | phoenixreborn76

Is the housekeeper trying to expose an affair? 🤔

Comprehensive_Pace | Comprehensive_Pace

Communicate with your husband about his intrusive friend. 📤

I_am_V3ctor | I_am_V3ctor

Comment suggests husband may be at fault for friend's visits

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Curious about the couple's living situation, seeking context 🤔

MotherTeresaOnlyfans | MotherTeresaOnlyfans

Housekeeper suspects foul play with husband's female friend. 🤔

charlieprotag | charlieprotag

Is the husband cheating? 🤔 Friend's reaction seems suspicious. NTA.

amjay8 | amjay8

👀 Red flag alert: Is the husband cheating on her?

Budget-Ice9901 | Budget-Ice9901

Suggests using cameras to catch unannounced visitor. 📹

Dvilindskys | Dvilindskys

Husband's lack of communication causes friend conflict 😕


Secret housekeeper: the real MVP 🕵️‍♀️👀

Effective_Speed_8110 | Effective_Speed_8110

🕵️‍♀️ What does 'coming around too much' really mean?

ChiRumRunner | ChiRumRunner

Husband's silence and housekeeper's role raises questions. INFO needed.

smartiesmouth | smartiesmouth

Seeking advice but not from spouse. Communication issue? 🤔

Peskypoints | Peskypoints

Wife catches husband's friend hitting on him, asks him to stop

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

Commenter supports OP and accuses husband's friend of infidelity 😱

Damn_el_Torpedoes | Damn_el_Torpedoes

Comment suggests husband is either cheating or an idiot 🤔

verpin_zal | verpin_zal

Respect boundaries, don't visit when asked. NTA 👌

Facu-Nahu | Facu-Nahu

🤔 Suspicious friend visits or faithful husband? 🤫

Ok-Albatross6794 | Ok-Albatross6794

🤔 Is there something going on between them? NTA.

justanosybitch | justanosybitch

Housekeeper for the win! NTA, husband should have spoken up 👏

snickeringd00dle | snickeringd00dle

Respectful confrontation leads to justified decision. 👍

fourjoys99 | fourjoys99

Suspicious wife questions husband's friend's visits, sparks debate.

yougotitdude88 | yougotitdude88

Housekeeper sees all 👀 Will she spill the tea? ☕

winter83 | winter83

McMuffin mix-up leads to drama and a hilarious resolution 😂

fbombmom_ | fbombmom_

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important! 👏

disruptionisbliss | disruptionisbliss

Commenter calls out wife's deceitful behavior, sympathy for husband.

xotitchox | xotitchox

Predatory woman preys on friend's husband, NTA stands up

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