Neighbor Conflict over Car Usage for Disabled Child's Family Trip

A seemingly harmonious community is fractured over a dispute between a neighbor and a family with a severely disabled child. The neighbor offered the use of her customized minivan to transport the child, but when the family asked to use it for a two-week road trip to Disneyworld, conflict ensued. The neighbor, who needs the car for her own mother's transportation, asked the family to delay their trip by a few days so she could comfortably pick up her mother from the airport. When they refused, the neighbor was ostracized by the community and accused of selfishness. The situation has escalated to the point where communication has been cut off and the neighbor feels like she's living in a hostile environment. Should she give in and let the family take her car? Or is there a way for both parties to come to a compromise? Read on to find out what steps she could take to resolve this conflict.