Money matters can be tricky, especially when it comes to lending large sums to loved ones. A woman on AITA subreddit recently found herself in a sticky situation when her boyfriend asked for a loan of $300. What started as a simple request turned into a heated argument when he insisted on having her bank account information. But it wasn't until later that she found out the real reason behind his request, and it left her shocked. Read on to find out what happened when this woman refused to give her boyfriend her bank account info and what she discovered about his true intentions.
Woman Refuses To Give Boyfriend Her Bank Info For Purchase, But The Real Reason Behind His Request Shocks Her
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NTA. Woman's boyfriend demands access to her bank account for a purchase, and yells at her for refusing. Commenters warn of red flags and financial abuse.
singing_stream | singing_stream
Red flags all over the place. NTA. Don't give your account info.
LouisV25 | LouisV25
Boyfriend's request for bank info raises red flags 🚩
DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks
Red flags alert! Better run from this potential scam artist! 🚩
PersehommatKiinostaa | PersehommatKiinostaa
Saving before spending💰- NTA for not sharing bank info
PurpuraLiber | PurpuraLiber
Protect your hard-earned money 💰 and stand your ground!
C_Majuscula | C_Majuscula
👀 Beware of boundary-stompers. NTA, throw the whole man out.
mm172 | mm172
Don't be someone's money tree 🌳🚫. Move on and flourish 🌸
MamaFen | MamaFen
Protect yourself and reconsider relationship. 🚫💰
GoblinGeorge | GoblinGeorge
Protect your assets early, NTA wins this financial battle ⚔️
WhiteJadedButterfly | WhiteJadedButterfly
Boyfriend guilt-trips over his kids, but they're not your responsibility. RUN.
stilljenni | stilljenni
Red flags and caution advised against sharing bank info with boyfriend 💰🚩
[deleted] | [deleted]
👍 Don't ignore the red flags, trust your gut and leave.
Sugarnova69 | Sugarnova69
Boyfriend's entitlement to her money and demand for bank info is concerning 🤔
MissionRevolution306 | MissionRevolution306
Don't let him use you as an ATM 💰. He should be responsible for his own kids' expenses. NTA!
ScorchieSong | ScorchieSong
Protect your bank details! NTA commenter offers advice.
ginger_nut33 | ginger_nut33
Don't share bank info with an abusive partner. 🚫
Pedantkitty | Pedantkitty
Dump him, block him and get a restraining order 💪
[deleted] | [deleted]
Don't fall for manipulation tactics, you're NTA! 🚫💰
SomethingMeta42 | SomethingMeta42
Don't give in to his unreasonable request 💸💸
WolfStar349 | WolfStar349
Privacy is important in relationships! NTA for not sharing.
BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry
Protect your money and yourself from potential scammers 👀
lilbat89 | lilbat89
Don't lend him money again! 🚫 NTA for saying no.
Weak-Possession-7650 | Weak-Possession-7650
Protect your finances and say no to being his backup 💰❌ #NTA
Christmas850 | Christmas850
Don't give in to unreasonable money requests 💰🚫
Primary-Criticism929 | Primary-Criticism929
Protect your finances! 🚫 Don't give in to manipulation tactics.
SmiteSam2005 | SmiteSam2005
👏 Don't fall for it! He's using you to bankroll his kids. 👏
Izzy4162305 | Izzy4162305
Trust your gut! NTA for refusing bank info request 💪
11arwen | 11arwen
Protect your money! Don't let a parasite bleed you dry.
maat89 | maat89
🤨 Refusing bank info reveals shocking truth about boyfriend's intentions.
HattieTheSwann | HattieTheSwann
Don't be a personal wallet 💰, stand your ground 🙅♀️
Mothkau | Mothkau
Protect your privacy and stand your ground. 💪🏼 You're not the a-hole.
notyourlocalguide | notyourlocalguide
Cut him off 🚫. Red flags for worse behavior 🚩
navoor | navoor
Stand your ground! 💪👏
gingasmurf | gingasmurf
Commenter advises ending toxic relationship with appropriate emoji.
lovemypennydog | lovemypennydog
Don't let anyone guilt you into giving away your money 💰
grenz1 | grenz1
Don't let him manipulate you, run away! 🏃♀️
al3jandraxD | al3jandraxD
🚩Partner requests bank info, commenter warns of red flags.👀
coldcoldiq | coldcoldiq
Dump the bad news boyfriend ASAP! 🚩
Throwaway_Double_87 | Throwaway_Double_87
Granting access to bank account is a massive red flag 🚨
OkraOk8923 | OkraOk8923
Respect is key in a relationship. NTA for setting boundaries.
CatAnne119 | CatAnne119
Boyfriend's request ends in NTA comment and no reconciliation.
terryg80 | terryg80
Protect your assets! NTA and stand your ground 🛡️💰
metro405 | metro405
Protecting personal data and money is a RIGHT, not a privilege 💰🔒
CandiesAintMe | CandiesAintMe
🚨 Beware of manipulation! 🚨 Refusing bank info is NTA.
NotSoBunny | NotSoBunny
Don't apologize, just run! 🏃♀️👋
Bookworm-Hilly | Bookworm-Hilly
Protect your bank info and yourself from manipulative partners.
MKAnchor | MKAnchor
Protect your finances and future. Don't share with boyfriends.
raffles79 | raffles79
Don't fall for manipulation! 🚫 Keep your money safe 💰
someonesomewhereinnc | someonesomewhereinnc
Partner's request for bank info reveals controlling behavior. NTA.
cobaltaureus | cobaltaureus
Protect your finances and yourself, consider ending the relationship 💸🚫
RainierCherree | RainierCherree
Don't let him take advantage of you financially 👎💰
jennifersb66 | jennifersb66
💸 Don't give him a dime! NTA for dumping him.
SlothWilliamBorzoni | SlothWilliamBorzoni
Don't share bank info with him! He might take advantage 😕
soph_lurk_2018 | soph_lurk_2018
Privacy matters. NTA for not sharing bank info with partner.
tomtink1 | tomtink1
Protect your money and yourself. Move on from him. 👋
Talisa87 | Talisa87
Protect your financial information. NTA for setting boundaries.
Huntress_of_the_Moon | Huntress_of_the_Moon
Protect your bank account from a money-hungry boyfriend 💰🚫
Melin_Lavendel_Rosa | Melin_Lavendel_Rosa
Red flag alert: Gaslighting, manipulation, and attempted theft in relationship 👀
quiversend | quiversend
Stand your ground! You're not responsible for his finances 💪
PommieGirl | PommieGirl
Protect your privacy, trust your gut 🕵️♀️💰
QueenJellyfish94 | QueenJellyfish94
Red flags all around: demanding bank info and guilting partner. 🚩
000-Hotaru_Tomoe | 000-Hotaru_Tomoe
Don't be an ATM! NTA deserves better 💰🚫💔
Kz_Mafuyu | Kz_Mafuyu
Privacy is key! Joint account for expenses is enough 💰👌
HostRadiant3700 | HostRadiant3700
Protect your bank account and yourself from a potentially alarming partner. 🚩
OneWithoutaName2 | OneWithoutaName2
Commenter questions validity of post and offers alternative solutions 💰
TwoApprehensive3666 | TwoApprehensive3666
Don't be his ATM! The shocking truth about his request 😱
OkConsideration8964 | OkConsideration8964
Sharing banking info for purchase? NTA sets boundaries.
IanDOsmond | IanDOsmond
Warning! Boyfriend using children to manipulate and control finances 😬
CuteAdministration14 | CuteAdministration14
Run away from the control freak 🏃♀️🚩 #NTA
sanantoniogirl71 | sanantoniogirl71
Leave him ASAP. He's manipulating and mentally abusing you. 💔
Gemma_T | Gemma_T
Protect yourself from potential scammers, NTA made the right call 💪
Playful-Mastodon-872 | Playful-Mastodon-872
