Woman Refuses To Give Boyfriend Her Bank Info For Purchase, But The Real Reason Behind His Request Shocks Her

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Money matters can be tricky, especially when it comes to lending large sums to loved ones. A woman on AITA subreddit recently found herself in a sticky situation when her boyfriend asked for a loan of $300. What started as a simple request turned into a heated argument when he insisted on having her bank account information. But it wasn't until later that she found out the real reason behind his request, and it left her shocked. Read on to find out what happened when this woman refused to give her boyfriend her bank account info and what she discovered about his true intentions.

A fair financial arrangement in a new relationship 💰❤️

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Boyfriend taking advantage of girlfriend's finances for kids' purchases 💸

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Boyfriend's urgent request for gaming device raises suspicions 🤔

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Boyfriend asks for bank info to borrow money, but why? 🤔

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She said no to sharing bank info, but his reaction stunned.

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Protecting personal info: Woman stands her ground against pushy boyfriend 💪

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Boyfriend demands bank info for purchase, blames partner for consequences 😠

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Boyfriend demands bank info, causes fight and regretful feelings 😕

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Boyfriend's lie about gaming device leads to unexpected truth.

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Boyfriend lied to get money for friend's car, relationship in question.

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Doubting boyfriend's purchases, woman needs space and quiet 🤫

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Betrayed by boyfriend's lying request for bank info 💔

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Get the full story on this complicated situation.

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Boyfriend lies to girlfriend about money request, jeopardizing entire relationship

A woman's trust in her boyfriend is shattered after discovering he lied about needing money for his son's gaming device. Instead, he used the $300 to help a friend repair his car. This incident has caused her to re-evaluate their entire relationship and wonder if there were other times he used her for money. Read on to see how this situation has unfolded and what the woman plans to do next.

NTA. Woman's boyfriend demands access to her bank account for a purchase, and yells at her for refusing. Commenters warn of red flags and financial abuse.

singing_stream | singing_stream

Red flags all over the place. NTA. Don't give your account info.

LouisV25 | LouisV25

Boyfriend's request for bank info raises red flags 🚩

DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks

Red flags alert! Better run from this potential scam artist! 🚩

PersehommatKiinostaa | PersehommatKiinostaa

Saving before spending💰- NTA for not sharing bank info

PurpuraLiber | PurpuraLiber

Protect your hard-earned money 💰 and stand your ground!

C_Majuscula | C_Majuscula

👀 Beware of boundary-stompers. NTA, throw the whole man out.

mm172 | mm172

Don't be someone's money tree 🌳🚫. Move on and flourish 🌸

MamaFen | MamaFen

Protect yourself and reconsider relationship. 🚫💰

GoblinGeorge | GoblinGeorge

Protect your assets early, NTA wins this financial battle ⚔️

WhiteJadedButterfly | WhiteJadedButterfly

Boyfriend guilt-trips over his kids, but they're not your responsibility. RUN.

stilljenni | stilljenni

Red flags and caution advised against sharing bank info with boyfriend 💰🚩

[deleted] | [deleted]

👍 Don't ignore the red flags, trust your gut and leave.

Sugarnova69 | Sugarnova69

Boyfriend's entitlement to her money and demand for bank info is concerning 🤔

MissionRevolution306 | MissionRevolution306

Don't let him use you as an ATM 💰. He should be responsible for his own kids' expenses. NTA!

ScorchieSong | ScorchieSong

Protect your bank details! NTA commenter offers advice.

ginger_nut33 | ginger_nut33

Don't share bank info with an abusive partner. 🚫

Pedantkitty | Pedantkitty

Dump him, block him and get a restraining order 💪

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't fall for manipulation tactics, you're NTA! 🚫💰

SomethingMeta42 | SomethingMeta42

Don't give in to his unreasonable request 💸💸

WolfStar349 | WolfStar349

Privacy is important in relationships! NTA for not sharing.

BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry

Protect your money and yourself from potential scammers 👀

lilbat89 | lilbat89

Don't lend him money again! 🚫 NTA for saying no.

Weak-Possession-7650 | Weak-Possession-7650

Protect your finances and say no to being his backup 💰❌ #NTA

Christmas850 | Christmas850

Don't give in to unreasonable money requests 💰🚫

Primary-Criticism929 | Primary-Criticism929

Protect your finances! 🚫 Don't give in to manipulation tactics.

SmiteSam2005 | SmiteSam2005

👏 Don't fall for it! He's using you to bankroll his kids. 👏

Izzy4162305 | Izzy4162305

Trust your gut! NTA for refusing bank info request 💪

11arwen | 11arwen

Protect your money! Don't let a parasite bleed you dry.

maat89 | maat89

🤨 Refusing bank info reveals shocking truth about boyfriend's intentions.

HattieTheSwann | HattieTheSwann

Don't be a personal wallet 💰, stand your ground 🙅‍♀️

Mothkau | Mothkau

Protect your privacy and stand your ground. 💪🏼 You're not the a-hole.

notyourlocalguide | notyourlocalguide

Cut him off 🚫. Red flags for worse behavior 🚩

navoor | navoor

Stand your ground! 💪👏

gingasmurf | gingasmurf

Commenter advises ending toxic relationship with appropriate emoji.

lovemypennydog | lovemypennydog

Don't let anyone guilt you into giving away your money 💰

grenz1 | grenz1

Don't let him manipulate you, run away! 🏃‍♀️

al3jandraxD | al3jandraxD

🚩Partner requests bank info, commenter warns of red flags.👀

coldcoldiq | coldcoldiq

Dump the bad news boyfriend ASAP! 🚩

Throwaway_Double_87 | Throwaway_Double_87

Granting access to bank account is a massive red flag 🚨

OkraOk8923 | OkraOk8923

Respect is key in a relationship. NTA for setting boundaries.

CatAnne119 | CatAnne119

Boyfriend's request ends in NTA comment and no reconciliation.

terryg80 | terryg80

Protect your assets! NTA and stand your ground 🛡️💰

metro405 | metro405

Protecting personal data and money is a RIGHT, not a privilege 💰🔒

CandiesAintMe | CandiesAintMe

🚨 Beware of manipulation! 🚨 Refusing bank info is NTA.

NotSoBunny | NotSoBunny

Don't apologize, just run! 🏃‍♀️👋

Bookworm-Hilly | Bookworm-Hilly

Protect your bank info and yourself from manipulative partners.

MKAnchor | MKAnchor

Protect your finances and future. Don't share with boyfriends.

raffles79 | raffles79

Don't fall for manipulation! 🚫 Keep your money safe 💰

someonesomewhereinnc | someonesomewhereinnc

Partner's request for bank info reveals controlling behavior. NTA.

cobaltaureus | cobaltaureus

Protect your finances and yourself, consider ending the relationship 💸🚫

RainierCherree | RainierCherree

Don't let him take advantage of you financially 👎💰

jennifersb66 | jennifersb66

💸 Don't give him a dime! NTA for dumping him.

SlothWilliamBorzoni | SlothWilliamBorzoni

Don't share bank info with him! He might take advantage 😕

soph_lurk_2018 | soph_lurk_2018

Privacy matters. NTA for not sharing bank info with partner.

tomtink1 | tomtink1

Protect your money and yourself. Move on from him. 👋

Talisa87 | Talisa87

Protect your financial information. NTA for setting boundaries.

Huntress_of_the_Moon | Huntress_of_the_Moon

Protect your bank account from a money-hungry boyfriend 💰🚫

Melin_Lavendel_Rosa | Melin_Lavendel_Rosa

Red flag alert: Gaslighting, manipulation, and attempted theft in relationship 👀

quiversend | quiversend

Stand your ground! You're not responsible for his finances 💪

PommieGirl | PommieGirl

Protect your privacy, trust your gut 🕵️‍♀️💰

QueenJellyfish94 | QueenJellyfish94

Red flags all around: demanding bank info and guilting partner. 🚩

000-Hotaru_Tomoe | 000-Hotaru_Tomoe

Don't be an ATM! NTA deserves better 💰🚫💔

Kz_Mafuyu | Kz_Mafuyu

Privacy is key! Joint account for expenses is enough 💰👌

HostRadiant3700 | HostRadiant3700

Protect your bank account and yourself from a potentially alarming partner. 🚩

OneWithoutaName2 | OneWithoutaName2

Commenter questions validity of post and offers alternative solutions 💰

TwoApprehensive3666 | TwoApprehensive3666

Don't be his ATM! The shocking truth about his request 😱

OkConsideration8964 | OkConsideration8964

Sharing banking info for purchase? NTA sets boundaries.

IanDOsmond | IanDOsmond

Warning! Boyfriend using children to manipulate and control finances 😬

CuteAdministration14 | CuteAdministration14

Run away from the control freak 🏃‍♀️🚩 #NTA

sanantoniogirl71 | sanantoniogirl71

Leave him ASAP. He's manipulating and mentally abusing you. 💔

Gemma_T | Gemma_T

Protect yourself from potential scammers, NTA made the right call 💪

Playful-Mastodon-872 | Playful-Mastodon-872