A group of friends who have been traveling every New Year since they were 16, planned a trip to Greece for 2021. However, the ex-best friend of the writer told them that Amy, the girlfriend of the writer's ex, was uncomfortable with her going on the trip. The writer's friends agreed that she should not come on the trip to avoid drama. The writer didn't go and stopped hanging out with them as much. Now, with the new year coming up, the writer has plans with their roommate to go to Amsterdam, but their friends assumed they could come along. The writer told them it was not a group trip, causing a fight. Was the writer wrong for not inviting their friends on their trip? Read on to find out.
Friend Group Excludes Me From Trip, Am I Wrong For Not Inviting Them To Mine?
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Being excluded from a group trip can be hurtful, especially when it's with friends you've known for years. In this post, the author shares their experience of being left out of a trip to Greece by their friend group because of their history with one of the members' new partners. Despite feeling hurt, the author moved on and made plans to go to Amsterdam with their roommate. However, when the friend group assumed they were invited and the author clarified that it was a trip for just themselves, tensions rose and they had a fight. The author is now wondering if they were wrong to end years-long friendships over a petty argument. Read on to find out what happened and see what advice the commenters have given.
Calling out bad behavior 👀👀👀 #BTA
jtj5002 | jtj5002
You're NTA for excluding them from your trip. 🚫✈️
TeeKaye28 | TeeKaye28
Being excluded from a friend group's trip - NTA, friend's loss 😒
RootlyBasil | RootlyBasil
Standing up for yourself: NTA for not inviting them 👍
Ancient-Regular4007 | Ancient-Regular4007
Excluded from trip, but who needs those petty friends anyway? 🌴👋 NTA
[deleted] | [deleted]
No trip for them! 🙅♀️ NTA wins this one.
justSomePesant | justSomePesant
Excluded from trip, but not from revenge. Revenge is sweet 🍭
XaryenMaelstrom | XaryenMaelstrom
Being excluded by coupled up friends, justified NTA reaction 💁♀️💅
shorthumanfemale | shorthumanfemale
You deserve better friends 💔 #NotTheA-Holes
musetoujours | musetoujours
Excluded from friend group's trip, now invites them to yours?
djincognito | djincognito
Go make new friends in Amsterdam! 🌷👋
UsernameCheckOuts | UsernameCheckOuts
Years of friendship disregarded for new member, NTA for exclusion.
FuzzySquish_123 | FuzzySquish_123
Standing up for yourself and being the bigger person. 🙌
OurLadyOfCygnets | OurLadyOfCygnets
Stand your ground! 🙌 Don't let them spoil your fun!
OsageBrownBetty | OsageBrownBetty
Plan your own trip and leave them behind! 🌴🧳
PutThatOnYourPlate | PutThatOnYourPlate
Don't waste your time on fake friends 🚫🙅♀️ Enjoy your trip! 🌴
Blonde2468 | Blonde2468
You're not being petty, they're out of line. 🙅♀️
Lurkingentropy | Lurkingentropy
Planning a trip for bad friends? NTA for not inviting.
[deleted] | [deleted]
True friends don't throw you under the bus 🚍💔
WatercoLorCurtain | WatercoLorCurtain
Friends pick sides and NTA chooses a new path 🛣️
Ancient_Bluejay_7314 | Ancient_Bluejay_7314
Excluded from trip because of girlfriend, now expected to host? #NTA
turbomonkey3366 | turbomonkey3366
Enjoy Amsterdam with your roommate! 🎉 They're not real friends. 😔
ComorbidlyAtPeace | ComorbidlyAtPeace
Amy starts drama but blames commenter; 🤔
Artic_Foxknot | Artic_Foxknot
New girl, new roomie, new friends 🤷♀️ #NTA
cheesepierice | cheesepierice
Stand your ground! You're not the a-hole 🙅♀️🚫
CODE_NAME_DUCKY | CODE_NAME_DUCKY
You do you 🤘🏼 No need to invite exclusives.
saveyboy | saveyboy
Standing up for yourself is important. 🙌 Good for you!
Right-Ad-7588 | Right-Ad-7588
Standing up for yourself and enjoying your own vacation 🌴👋
aviva1234 | aviva1234
This commenter is not having it! 😤🙅♀️
luniixyn8803 | luniixyn8803
Growing out of friendships in early 20s is bittersweet 😢
Senior-Salamander-77 | Senior-Salamander-77
Good on you for standing up to unfair treatment 👍
coolbeenz68 | coolbeenz68
Real friends don't pick 'randos' over you 😒 #NTA
SunnyBunchy | SunnyBunchy
You don't owe them anything. 🤷♀️
hewtab | hewtab
Excluded from trip, now they want to come? NTA.
Momo_fdz_0721 | Momo_fdz_0721
Excluded from trip you organized? Not the a**hole. ✌️
tee_ran_mee_sue | tee_ran_mee_sue
Don't let them guilt trip you. Your plans, your choice. 🌴
RavenRaving | RavenRaving
Don't beat yourself up, enjoy life and travel! 🌴🧳
heyarea | heyarea
Go enjoy your trip! 🎉 Don't feel bad about not inviting them.
Particular_bean | Particular_bean
Growing up means being selective with friends. Evaluate their worth 👍
rtsmurf | rtsmurf
Letting go of toxic friends is difficult but necessary 💪
Nupsz | Nupsz
Roomie time! 🏠👯♀️ No room for exclusion. NTA.
Plenty_Metal_1304 | Plenty_Metal_1304
Time for new friends! 🕰️
speedstars | speedstars
Betrayed by friends for ex's gf, NTA for not inviting them
geman11 | geman11
Find a friend group that values you for you 👏
[deleted] | [deleted]
Travel plans cancelled over friend group drama 💔
Chaos_and_Pickles | Chaos_and_Pickles
Call out hypocritical friends with this NTA comment 🔥
FewLooseMarbles | FewLooseMarbles
Excluded from trip, made own plans, not wrong. NTA 👏
beaglerules | beaglerules
Stand your ground! 🙌 You don't need that negativity in life.
WittyButter217 | WittyButter217
Not the a**hole. Tell us more, we're listening 👂
moose_arecool | moose_arecool
True friends stick by you and don't exclude you. 🤝
4U2NV1981 | 4U2NV1981
Sometimes friendships end, NTA for not inviting them. Enjoy trip 🌴
meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs
You deserve better! Find new friends for your next trip 🌴👋
overlook447 | overlook447
You go, Glen Coco! No invite, no return invite! 🙅♀️
Ardara | Ardara
Exclusion backfires 🤷♀️ NTA takes the high road
Thotleesi94 | Thotleesi94
Don't cancel your trip for bad friends 🚫👋 You deserve better! 💁♀️
acrylicmole | acrylicmole
Don't get your mind in a pretzel over their antics 🤯
justsupersayinit | justsupersayinit
Honesty is the best policy 👍
asand82 | asand82
Excluded from friend group trip, justified in feeling hurt.
stalefuzzball85 | stalefuzzball85
Setting boundaries is important. 👍
xchancla | xchancla
Stand up for yourself and your trip! 🎒🌴 NTA
kanna172014 | kanna172014
Find new friends and plan your own awesome trip! 🌴👋
divinexoxo | divinexoxo
Excluded from annual trip, seek apology or move on? 🤔
Sea-Recognition-1140 | Sea-Recognition-1140
Don't let them make you miss out on your vacation 🌴😎
Noir_Faery | Noir_Faery
Planning a separate trip doesn't make you TA 👌
HecateAtTheGate | HecateAtTheGate
Stand up for yourself and cut off toxic friendships. 👍
[deleted] | [deleted]
Find yourself better, more mature friends. 🙌 #NTA
boobiesiheart | boobiesiheart
Excluded from trip, but NTA. Where did Amy go? 🤔
UpSideRat | UpSideRat
Don't waste your energy on fair weather friends ☀️👋
CaraMorrow | CaraMorrow
You're in the clear! Details inside. 🙌
Beesweet1976 | Beesweet1976
Tips on being a great friend and finding real ones. 🤝
Guilty-Ad4966 | Guilty-Ad4966
Ex-friends betray OP, deserve to be excluded from trip.
HoneyMCMLXXIII | HoneyMCMLXXIII
Taking control of the situation and planning your own trip 🌴
AllHailLordBezos | AllHailLordBezos
Commenter rightfully stands up for themself, cutting off toxic friends 👏
MarketingCoding | MarketingCoding
Don't feel guilty for being excluded from the trip. #NTA 🙅♂️
MattFoley00 | MattFoley00
Choosing a new girlfriend over a long-time friend, NTA
Sweet_Caterpillar150 | Sweet_Caterpillar150
Prioritizing a stranger over a friend? NTA, end the toxicity 💪
Dyils | Dyils
Plan your own trip without fair weather friends. 🏝️
DGinLDO | DGinLDO
Excluded from trip, OP's NTA for not inviting 'friends'.
Melodic-Living-588 | Melodic-Living-588
Excluded from trip but not from making new plans 🎉 #NTA
Violet351 | Violet351
Enjoy your trip with your roommate! 🌴🌊
Tannim44 | Tannim44
This comment is a reminder for later, stay tuned!
TheeNatorious | TheeNatorious
Excluded from trip, but not from revenge. NTA 👏
A-R-U | A-R-U
Your 'friends' may not be worth keeping in your life 🤷
MeanSeaworthiness995 | MeanSeaworthiness995
You're in the clear 🙌 Keep doing you!
Ordinary_Meaning_602 | Ordinary_Meaning_602
Betrayed by your friends? You're not the a**hole! 🙅♀️
Talithathinks | Talithathinks
Excluded friend calls out memory problems, NTA confirmed. 🤔
I_Am_AWESOME-O_ | I_Am_AWESOME-O_
Excluded from friend group's trip, commenter not in the wrong 🚫👥
Alustrianna | Alustrianna
Ouch! A straightforward reply that hits hard 😩
Explicit_Pickle | Explicit_Pickle
Engage with your travel agency clients - I mean friends - NTA 🧳
Ok_Breakfast9531 | Ok_Breakfast9531
Don't waste your time with fake friends, go on adventures instead! 🌄
icecreamtaco15 | icecreamtaco15
Find friends who value your feelings 🙌 #NTA
Sangetem | Sangetem
Cutting off toxic friends, 👍 for taking care of yourself
Intelligent-Meet2417 | Intelligent-Meet2417
Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important 🙌
Wyshunu | Wyshunu
Enjoy your trip! Your friends excluded you, don't feel guilty.
[deleted] | [deleted]
You don't need toxic friends to have a good time 🎉
BellesBooks | BellesBooks
