Friend Group Excludes Me From Trip, Am I Wrong For Not Inviting Them To Mine?

A group of friends who have been traveling every New Year since they were 16, planned a trip to Greece for 2021. However, the ex-best friend of the writer told them that Amy, the girlfriend of the writer’s ex, was uncomfortable with her going on the trip. The writer’s friends agreed that she should not come on the trip to avoid drama. The writer didn’t go and stopped hanging out with them as much. Now, with the new year coming up, the writer has plans with their roommate to go to Amsterdam, but their friends assumed they could come along. The writer told them it was not a group trip, causing a fight. Was the writer wrong for not inviting their friends on their trip? Read on to find out.

Exciting or disappointing update? Let’s find out!

Starting fresh! New trip, new people, new memories! ✨

Reconciliation with ex and friend group, moving on peacefully ✌

Excluded from trip, forgiveness given but friendship lost.

Grateful OP thanks supportive community for advice and love ❤️

Secretly venting on Reddit about exclusive friends

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Navigating post-breakup friendships and group dynamics

Excluded from Greece trip for being single, friends side with boyfriend’s ex

Excluded from friend’s trip, hurt by their agreement.

Excluded from trip, friends assume invite to mine. Awkward confrontations?

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Navigating friendship drama, seeking advice and grabbing coffee ☕

Excluded from friend group trip, now planning my own

Being excluded from a group trip can be hurtful, especially when it’s with friends you’ve known for years. In this post, the author shares their experience of being left out of a trip to Greece by their friend group because of their history with one of the members’ new partners. Despite feeling hurt, the author moved on and made plans to go to Amsterdam with their roommate. However, when the friend group assumed they were invited and the author clarified that it was a trip for just themselves, tensions rose and they had a fight. The author is now wondering if they were wrong to end years-long friendships over a petty argument. Read on to find out what happened and see what advice the commenters have given.

Calling out bad behavior #BTA

You’re NTA for excluding them from your trip. ✈️

Being excluded from a friend group’s trip – NTA, friend’s loss

Standing up for yourself: NTA for not inviting them

Excluded from trip, but who needs those petty friends anyway? NTA

No trip for them! ‍♀️ NTA wins this one.

Excluded from trip, but not from revenge. Revenge is sweet

Being excluded by coupled up friends, justified NTA reaction ‍♀️

You deserve better friends #NotTheA-Holes

Excluded from friend group’s trip, now invites them to yours?

Go make new friends in Amsterdam!

Years of friendship disregarded for new member, NTA for exclusion.

Standing up for yourself and being the bigger person.

Stand your ground! Don’t let them spoil your fun!

Plan your own trip and leave them behind!

Don’t waste your time on fake friends ‍♀️ Enjoy your trip!

You’re not being petty, they’re out of line. ‍♀️

Planning a trip for bad friends? NTA for not inviting.

True friends don’t throw you under the bus

Friends pick sides and NTA chooses a new path ️

Excluded from trip because of girlfriend, now expected to host? #NTA

Enjoy Amsterdam with your roommate! They’re not real friends.

Amy starts drama but blames commenter;

New girl, new roomie, new friends ‍♀️ #NTA

Stand your ground! You’re not the a-hole ‍♀️

You do you No need to invite exclusives.

Standing up for yourself is important. Good for you!

Standing up for yourself and enjoying your own vacation

This commenter is not having it! ‍♀️

Growing out of friendships in early 20s is bittersweet

Good on you for standing up to unfair treatment

Real friends don’t pick ‘randos’ over you #NTA

You don’t owe them anything. ‍♀️

Excluded from trip, now they want to come? NTA.

Excluded from trip you organized? Not the a**hole. ✌️

Don’t let them guilt trip you. Your plans, your choice.

Don’t beat yourself up, enjoy life and travel!

Go enjoy your trip! Don’t feel bad about not inviting them.

Growing up means being selective with friends. Evaluate their worth

Letting go of toxic friends is difficult but necessary

Roomie time! ‍♀️ No room for exclusion. NTA.

Time for new friends! ️

Betrayed by friends for ex’s gf, NTA for not inviting them

Find a friend group that values you for you

Travel plans cancelled over friend group drama

Call out hypocritical friends with this NTA comment

Excluded from trip, made own plans, not wrong. NTA

Stand your ground! You don’t need that negativity in life.

Not the a**hole. Tell us more, we’re listening

True friends stick by you and don’t exclude you.

Sometimes friendships end, NTA for not inviting them. Enjoy trip

You deserve better! Find new friends for your next trip

You go, Glen Coco! No invite, no return invite! ‍♀️

Exclusion backfires ‍♀️ NTA takes the high road

Don’t cancel your trip for bad friends You deserve better! ‍♀️

Don’t get your mind in a pretzel over their antics

Honesty is the best policy

Excluded from friend group trip, justified in feeling hurt.

Setting boundaries is important.

Stand up for yourself and your trip! NTA

Find new friends and plan your own awesome trip!

Excluded from annual trip, seek apology or move on?

Don’t let them make you miss out on your vacation

Planning a separate trip doesn’t make you TA

Stand up for yourself and cut off toxic friendships.

Find yourself better, more mature friends. #NTA

Excluded from trip, but NTA. Where did Amy go?

Don’t waste your energy on fair weather friends ☀️

You’re in the clear! Details inside.

Tips on being a great friend and finding real ones.

Ex-friends betray OP, deserve to be excluded from trip.

Taking control of the situation and planning your own trip

Commenter rightfully stands up for themself, cutting off toxic friends

Don’t feel guilty for being excluded from the trip. #NTA ‍♂️

Choosing a new girlfriend over a long-time friend, NTA

Prioritizing a stranger over a friend? NTA, end the toxicity

Plan your own trip without fair weather friends. ️

Excluded from trip, OP’s NTA for not inviting ‘friends’.

Excluded from trip but not from making new plans #NTA

Enjoy your trip with your roommate!

This comment is a reminder for later, stay tuned!

Excluded from trip, but not from revenge. NTA

Your ‘friends’ may not be worth keeping in your life

You’re in the clear Keep doing you!

Betrayed by your friends? You’re not the a**hole! ‍♀️

Excluded friend calls out memory problems, NTA confirmed.

Excluded from friend group’s trip, commenter not in the wrong

Ouch! A straightforward reply that hits hard

Engage with your travel agency clients – I mean friends – NTA

Don’t waste your time with fake friends, go on adventures instead!

Find friends who value your feelings #NTA

Cutting off toxic friends, for taking care of yourself

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important

Enjoy your trip! Your friends excluded you, don’t feel guilty.

You don’t need toxic friends to have a good time