What happens when your dietary choices are called into question by someone who has no right to do so? In this AITA post, a woman's roommate's girlfriend accuses her of being anorexic and causing her to gain weight. Despite explaining her health choices and offering support, the situation escalates to tears and accusations of fat-shaming. Who is in the wrong here? Read on to find out.
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Not the a**hole for not changing my diet for girlfriend 🙅♂️
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Are they fat-shaming me or do I need new roommates? 🤔
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🤔 Roommate's girlfriend blames me for weight gain, am I the a-hole?
A roommate's girlfriend has accused the poster of triggering her emotional eating and causing her to gain 20 pounds. The poster, who has a special diet due to health reasons, has refused to change their diet and is now being accused of fat shaming. The situation has caused tension in the household and the poster is questioning if they are in the wrong. Read on to see what others have to say about the situation.
NTA for not changing diet to accommodate roommate's girlfriend's triggers.
convertingcreative | convertingcreative
NTA. Roommate's girlfriend's creepy and obsessive behavior is not OP's fault.
Throwawaycarstore | Throwawaycarstore
Your health is not responsible for Rita's mental health. 💪
Consistent-Leopard71 | Consistent-Leopard71
NTA. Defend yourself against roommate's manipulative girlfriend's skinny shaming.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Roommate's girlfriend is a creep and needs to GTFO 😒
WhiskeyCheddar | WhiskeyCheddar
Roommate's girlfriend is harassing OP about weight gain, NTA.
AniWan | AniWan
OP clears their conscience and confirms they're not an a**hole 🙅♂️
TopSecretUnknownUser | TopSecretUnknownUser
Roommate's controlling girlfriend needs to grow up 🙄
BadCorvid | BadCorvid
Roommate's girlfriend's food judgement is hilariously compared to memes. NTA.
Free_will_enthusiast | Free_will_enthusiast
Blaming others for your own choices? 🤔 NTA
ThrowawayAITA918 | ThrowawayAITA918
Roommate's girlfriend acts like a dog in the kitchen 🤣
GrayManGroup | GrayManGroup
Are AITA posts just for validation? 🤔
willyj_3 | willyj_3
Redditor doubts authenticity of weight gain blame post
J3styr | J3styr
Agreeing with NTA and calling out the absurdity 😂
shnanogans | shnanogans
Debating the validity of a common AITA trope 🤔
cherpumples | cherpumples
Empathetic comment reminds us to prioritize mental health ❤️
kelso714 | kelso714
The drama is about to unfold... 🔥
[deleted] | [deleted]
Thin roommate called anorexic and blamed for girlfriend's weight gain 😕
sinloxie | sinloxie
Stand your ground! 🙌 NTA, don't let her bully you.
happylilhippy99 | happylilhippy99
Support for ED recovery and self-management in diet triggers 🍎
0090020091 | 0090020091
Skinny shaming is a real thing, NTA for not tolerating it 🙅♀️
skoorie | skoorie
Empathy or boundaries? NTA's response to girlfriend's weight gain.
Sorry_River_3561 | Sorry_River_3561
Don't take the blame for someone else's actions 🙅♂️
GothPenguin | GothPenguin
Questioning the authenticity of AITA posts, valid or not? 🤔
sPookie92 | sPookie92
NTA! Discussion on body positivity and fat acceptance.
rattpack18 | rattpack18
Smoothie-shamed! Commenter confused, but OP NTA 🍹
SuperWomanUSA | SuperWomanUSA
Stand up for yourself! You're NTA for not catering to her.
MagellansMockery | MagellansMockery
Jealousy is an ugly look 😒
FortuneFragrant | FortuneFragrant
Commenter doubts story, suggests everyone sucks here. 🤔
motherofcanines87 | motherofcanines87
Boundary setting necessary with creepy territorial girlfriend 🚫👀
LysisFellyne | LysisFellyne
Supportive comment defends against blame for roommate's girlfriend's eating disorder.
00Lisa00 | 00Lisa00
Roommate's girlfriend blames OP for weight gain, NTA and empathetic.
livibiv | livibiv
Living your life in your own home, NTA 🙅♂️
RamenNoodles620 | RamenNoodles620
Don't blame yourself for her triggers. NTA 🙅♂️
FirebirdWriter | FirebirdWriter
Agreement and validation, no a**hole here. 👍
WhyCommentQueasy | WhyCommentQueasy
Don't let a jealous girlfriend interfere with your healthy lifestyle 🥗
luckydidi18 | luckydidi18
Girlfriend blames OP for weight gain, but OP is NTA 🙅♂️
Gabri_33 | Gabri_33
Don't let her blame you for her lack of control 🙅♀️ NTA
mytwocents12 | mytwocents12
Commenter is not the a-hole, but why? 🤔
doubleblended | doubleblended
NTA for focusing on personal health and Rita's comments.
sreno77 | sreno77
Assertive comment shuts down roommate's girlfriend's body-shaming, NTA 🙌
toothlessbeerguy | toothlessbeerguy
NTA with medical condition. Roommate's GF needs help, not scapegoat.
TheoryAddict | TheoryAddict
Roommate's girlfriend blames OP for weight gain, NTA. Does she have her own place? 🤔
quietdiablita | quietdiablita
Focus on your goals and find a new place to live 🏡
FrivalousMC | FrivalousMC
Sending Rita home might be the best solution 😅
KiwiTurk2020 | KiwiTurk2020
