After 21 years of marriage, a wife is refusing to move for her husband's job. The couple moved frequently during the husband's time in the navy, and even after he left, they continued to move for his career. However, after finally settling down in a new state and finding a good job, the wife is not willing to uproot her life again. Her husband is pushing her to move for a new job opportunity, but the wife is standing her ground. She believes that she has supported her husband's career enough and that it's time for him to consider her needs. However, her husband is calling her selfish and not supportive. What do you think? AITA for refusing to move again?
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Moving constantly for a partner's job can be difficult, especially for someone who has had to sacrifice their own career for it. After years of moving, this wife has finally found a job she loves and has made a life for herself, but her husband wants to move again for his job. With their son in college nearby and a great job in her field, she has put her foot down and refused to move again. Is she being selfish or is her husband asking too much? Read on to find out more and see what others have to say.
NTA wife supported husband's career for 21 years, it's her turn.
Husband expected wife to sell and pack house every time - NTA!
Stand your ground and polish that backbone 💪
Husband calls wife selfish for not moving again for his job 🙄 #NTA
Partner's repeated moving request may be suspicious and selfish. #NTA
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Partner's job shouldn't always come first, prioritize happiness and partnership ❤️
Putting yourself first for once is not being selfish. 🙌
Standing up for yourself and refusing to be a doormat. 👏🏼🙌🏼 #NTA
Don't let your husband's job dictate your entire life. 💪
You deserve happiness too 💕 Stand up for yourself
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After decades of supporting his career choices, it's time for him to support yours. 💪
Career support goes both ways. Remote work could be solution 🙏
Wife pushed to move 21 times for husband's job calls it quits. 🎉
Supportive comment to someone whose spouse wants to move.
Marriage is a partnership, not a one-way street 🤝
Childhood spent moving constantly, now refusing to move again.
Wife stands up for herself after multiple moves for husband's job 👏
Husband values career over wife's needs, NTA for refusing move 🙅♀️
Former military spouse shares their experience and supports OP's decision 🤝
Husband's desire to move may not be about the job 🤔
Wife sacrifices everything to support husband's moving obsession. NTA.
Honest conversation about career and compromise needed 💼💬
Stand up for yourself! 💪 You deserve support too.
Spouse's selfishness leads to wife's relocation refusal. 🤷♀️
Military spouse empathizes with wife's situation. NTA.
Don't let him guilt-trip you. Stand your ground 💪
Choosing where to live is a joint decision. He's being selfish 😒
Time for him to support you after two decades. ✌️
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Moving frequently isn't for everyone. Husband needs to respect that. 👍
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Supporting each other is key! 🤝
Time for a role reversal! NTA 👏👏
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Communicate your feelings early on to avoid sudden rejections. 💬
Stand your ground! It's your turn to be supported 💪
Moving AGAIN? 🙅♀️ NTA deserves a stable home and friends.
Compromise is key in relationships, no one's an a**hole here 😊
Don't let him undermine your career. You deserve better 🙅♀️💼
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