Woman Wonders If She's An A**Hole For Not Telling Boyfriend About Plastic Surgery

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Bullied for insecurities, woman hides plastic surgery from boyfriend. 😷

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To tell or not to tell about plastic surgery? 🤔

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Boyfriend shames girlfriend for plastic surgery - toxic masculinity alert

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Woman reveals plastic surgery secret to confused boyfriend 😲

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Woman's boyfriend leaves after finding out about plastic surgery 💉

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Boyfriend wants to talk things over after plastic surgery confession.

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Breaking up after plastic surgery secret, no regrets expressed

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Navigating dating after plastic surgery confession, seeking advice 🤔

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Self-confidence shines through in response to plastic surgery criticism 💪

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Heartbroken after breakup, but self-dates will heal the wounds ❤

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Boyfriend shames woman for not telling about plastic surgery 😔

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Woman blocks boyfriend after plastic surgery confession ✌️

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To tell or not to tell? Plastic surgery in relationships 🤔

A woman wonders if she's a jerk for not disclosing she had plastic surgery to her boyfriend of four months. After revealing her past procedures, he left in a huff, accusing her of leading him on. She's now single and content with her decision but wonders if she should mention it to future dates. Plastic surgery is a personal choice that can bring confidence or relieve insecurities, but when it comes to relationships, is it necessary to disclose it early on? What are your thoughts on plastic surgery and relationships? Share your opinions in the comments below.

Woman's boyfriend shows shallow/misogynistic side, NTA for dumping him 💁

winsomebunny | winsomebunny

Boyfriend's reaction to plastic surgery - commenters defend NTA

tauntingmountain | tauntingmountain

Disclosing cosmetic surgery not necessary, medical dealbreakers should be discussed.

locomama83 | locomama83

NTA shows ex's inability to compromise; commenters applaud OP's decision.

MsJamieFast | MsJamieFast

Breast implants not his business, if he couldn't tell 🤷🏻‍♀️

lady_rain_was_here | lady_rain_was_here

Boyfriend upset after finding out about girlfriend's plastic surgery

Defiant-Currency-518 | Defiant-Currency-518

Boyfriend upset about plastic surgery, commenters defend OP's choice. 💁

Sodonewithidiots | Sodonewithidiots

Boyfriend expects medical disclosure on first date? 🤔

TheDeadlyPandaGamer | TheDeadlyPandaGamer

Cosmetic surgeries shouldn't need justification for a relationship. 💁🏻‍♀️

theformerorphan | theformerorphan

Keep your medical history private and move on without him 💁‍♀️

Caspian4136 | Caspian4136

No need to disclose plastic surgery; partner's preferences hypocritical 💉

angelaheidt | angelaheidt

The pressure of looking 'natural' is ridiculous. NTA.

ReluctantViking | ReluctantViking

Max should have disclosed he was TA on the first date 👀

AuthorError | AuthorError

Commenter defends woman's decision to not tell boyfriend about surgery

nattatalie | nattatalie

Sharing personal history is important, not disclosing plastic surgery early NTA 💁‍♀️

daydreammuse | daydreammuse

Red flags alert! 🚩🚩🚩 Move on sis! 💁‍♀️

DesignInZeeWild | DesignInZeeWild

Commenter supports OP's decision and calls out boyfriend's shallowness 🙌

sportxsport | sportxsport

Starting a first date with medical disclosures? NTA! 🙅‍♀️💉

lianavan | lianavan

Commenter calls out boyfriend and gives NTA judgement 👍

Gangreless | Gangreless

Boyfriend reacts poorly to plastic surgery, dump his a**.

nimbusniner | nimbusniner

"Cognitive dissonance" causing tension in 4-month relationship 💔

ParsimoniousSalad | ParsimoniousSalad

Body autonomy is important! NTA for not disclosing surgery.

FreeArt2300 | FreeArt2300

Woman not an a**hole for not telling insecure boyfriend about surgery 💪

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Commenter expresses relief for woman's fortunate discovery 👍

Main_Representative5 | Main_Representative5

Partner judgmental? NTA for keeping surgery to yourself. 💁‍♀️

LividAllie | LividAllie

Own your choices, NTA! 🙌

Charliescenesweenie4 | Charliescenesweenie4

Commenter supports woman's decision to not disclose plastic surgery. 👍

bitchtastichoe | bitchtastichoe

Boyfriend didn't notice plastic surgery - NTA or is he?

Livid-Finger719 | Livid-Finger719

Boyfriend didn't notice breast augmentation, NTA for not disclosing.

jasperjamboree | jasperjamboree

Boyfriend angry over secret plastic surgery reveal - NTA

Catsandstorms | Catsandstorms

Commenter thinks the boyfriend is the a**hole, not the woman

NEUX2007 | NEUX2007

Immature boyfriend? NTA for not telling him about surgery 💁‍♀️

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NTA judgement delivered with a mic drop emoji 🎤

EquipmentPrize2573 | EquipmentPrize2573

Partner's reaction to plastic surgery is not your responsibility 💁‍♀️

RoastBeefIsGood | RoastBeefIsGood

Medical quirks don't define a relationship, focus on love 💖

tu-BROOKE-ulosis | tu-BROOKE-ulosis

Nerd solidarity! Commenter says NTA with a laugh.

albynomonk | albynomonk

Embrace your body, YAS queen! 💪

LW7694 | LW7694

Don't worry about it, find a partner who accepts you as you are 🤗

Skye_1444 | Skye_1444

Boyfriend wants to know about plastic surgery? NTA, dump him! 🤦‍♀️

Competitive-Bake-103 | Competitive-Bake-103

Empathetic response to woman's frustration with insensitive boyfriend

marysboychile | marysboychile

Plastic surgery on first date? NTA for keeping it private. 🤔

drkjudy | drkjudy

Savage reply! 🤣 NTA gets a bold suggestion.

LVS07 | LVS07

Empowering self-love and body positivity in the face of insecurity 🙌

Bhrunhilda | Bhrunhilda

Braces or plastic surgery, is disclosure really necessary? 😂

Number-Eleven-11 | Number-Eleven-11

Calling out stupidity leads to anger, but NTA prevails 🙌

Blu3Stocking | Blu3Stocking

Partner's reaction to plastic surgery raises concerns about relationship 💔

vaxination | vaxination

Supportive comment with a hint of humor. 💁‍♀️💔

Comfortable-Spot-829 | Comfortable-Spot-829

4-month boyfriend upset over plastic surgery, NTA advice given

SummerOracle | SummerOracle

Boyfriend's reaction to plastic surgery reveals his true colors 😒


Embrace your choices 💪 You don't need his validation 🚫

PNW35 | PNW35

Partner oblivious to boob job: surgeon did a great job 😜

Ok_Specialist_8558 | Ok_Specialist_8558

Short and sweet comment needs no reply. 😜

_Shybutterfly | _Shybutterfly

Empowering response to toxic boyfriend behavior. 💪

JCBashBash | JCBashBash

Boyfriend's reaction to plastic surgery confession is laughable 😂

cottondragons | cottondragons

4 months in and already questioning privacy boundaries? 🤔

SaltNorth | SaltNorth

Under shirt action and plastic surgery - to tell or not?

frangipanihawaii | frangipanihawaii

Disclosing plastic surgery on first date? NTA according to comment.

faaabiii | faaabiii

Commenter says 'NTA' and tells the boyfriend to f*ck off

Majestic-me-52 | Majestic-me-52

Girlfax not needed. Your body, your choice. NTA 🙌

daughterofhephaestus | daughterofhephaestus

Surprised partners with hidden cosmetic surgery, NTA for not disclosing.

Avonlee_Moss | Avonlee_Moss

NTA - Society's impossible beauty standards are not your responsibility 🙌

ResponsibleDoor7 | ResponsibleDoor7