In a recent post on Am I the A**hole subreddit, a wife shares her frustration over her husband’s intentional triggering of his severe dairy allergy. Despite her husband’s admission of timing his allergic reaction to her days off, the wife refuses to help him when he falls ill. The situation escalates, leading to accusations from her husband’s family that she is a sh*t wife who is trying to kill him. Read on to find out if the wife is in the wrong, or if her husband deserved his fate.
Protecting spouse’s life is a partner’s responsibility, not an option.

Hardworking wife struggles to rest amid financial woes.

When love for food crosses the line: A dangerous obsession

Husband fakes allergy to get wife’s attention and care ❤️

Wife threatens to stop caring for husband with severe allergy

Husband intentionally triggers wife’s allergy with a smirk

Husband intentionally triggers allergy and suffers consequences, wife refuses help.

Husband intentionally triggers allergy, wife refuses to help.

When allergies turn into accusations and family drama…

Facing guilt for not helping spouse after dangerous allergy trigger

Intentional allergy trigger: Wife refuses to help a**hole husband ♀️

Wife refuses to help husband who intentionally triggers severe allergy
A dairy allergy can be a serious health issue, especially when it comes to Enterocolitis. But what happens when someone intentionally triggers their allergy? In this post, a woman working long hours is faced with the decision to help her husband who regularly triggers his dairy allergy. After a buildup of frustration, she tells him that she won’t take care of him if he makes himself sick again. But when he does, she sticks to her word, leaving him to suffer alone. Was she right to do so? Or was she risking his life by not helping him? Read on to find out and join the debate in the comments below.
NTA for refusing to help husband who triggered allergy intentionally.

Disturbing behavior from husband, NTA for not helping him.

Husband’s selfish behavior is endangering his wife’s health

Partner intentionally triggers allergy for attention, NTA for not mothering.

Husband’s deliberate allergy trigger is emotional abuse. NTA.

Husband’s fortnightly allergy attack: a deeper problem beyond cheese cravings

Savage suggestions to deal with a husband’s food allergy antics

Dairy-free options not cutting it for allergic husband
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Standing up for yourself and enforcing boundaries. NTA

Spouse’s severe allergy exploited for manipulation

Cheese-loving husband triggers severe allergy, wife refuses to help. ❌

Suggests calling ambulance for husband’s mental evaluation and avoiding medical debt.
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Partner expects caregiving, but won’t respect severe allergy

Users call out fake post, demand better quality content.

Partner or child? Lack of consideration in a powerplay

Husband triggers allergy, wife works 2 jobs to support him. NTA.

Spouse intentionally triggers allergy; NTA for not enabling behavior

Unemployed husband with dairy allergy refuses to help himself. ♀️

Husband triggers allergy to monopolize partner’s limited time off. NTA.

Husband intentionally triggers wife’s severe allergy, gets called abusive.

Setting boundaries with a**hole husband, counseling might help

Unemployed husband intentionally triggers allergy, wife refuses to help. NTA ♀️

Supportive comments suggest leaving husband who triggers allergy

Spouse intentionally triggers severe allergy . Giving up dairy isn’t hard .

Don’t enable toxic behavior, even if it means tough love

Don’t enable his Munchausen’s Syndrome. Stand up for yourself! ♀️

Single life seems better than catering to a selfish partner

Dealing with a toxic partner? Here’s a sneaky solution

Partner prioritizes dairy over spouse’s limited time off. NTA.

Spouse intentionally triggers allergy, commenter says NTA (not the a**hole).

Commenter praises husband’s accountability for allergy-triggering actions.

Taking responsibility for allergies: NTA parent refuses to enable husband.

Living with a severe allergy is hard enough. NTA for setting boundaries.

Grown man intentionally triggers allergy, wife refuses to help. NTA

Enabling a severe allergy can lead to fatal consequences

Support for not tolerating intentional harm

When a bluff goes wrong NTA but relationship doomed

Divorce on the table?

Husband deliberately triggers allergy and expects wife to care for him

Agreeing with the commenter, that behavior is unacceptable
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