Weddings can be stressful, but for one bride-to-be, the stress is coming from an unexpected source - her fiance's height insecurity. The couple is preparing for their big day, but the groom-to-be has requested that his bride wear flat shoes instead of high heels. He claims that wearing heels will make him look even shorter and lead to ridicule from his male friends and family. However, the bride feels that wearing heels will make her look her best and complement her wedding dress. The couple is at odds, and even the groom's mother has gotten involved. She has accused the bride of being selfish and immature for not considering her fiance's feelings. The bride is now wondering if she is in the wrong for wanting to wear heels. What do you think? Is the bride being selfish, or should she be allowed to wear what she wants on her big day? Read on to find out!
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To wear heels or not to wear heels? Bride-to-be's fiance objects
Every bride wants to look her best on her big day, but what happens when the groom's insecurities get in the way? This bride-to-be wants to wear heels at her wedding, but her fiance is objecting. He's insecure about his height and doesn't want to be made fun of by his friends and family. He's even gone so far as to involve his mother who is pushing the bride-to-be to reconsider. Is this a case of the groom's insecurity taking priority over the bride's happiness? Or is the bride being selfish for wanting to wear high heels despite her fiance's objections? This isn't the first time the couple has argued about his height, but it's the first time he's asked her to not wear heels. What will the bride do? And how will this affect their relationship going forward? Stay tuned for comments and reactions.
Fiance objects to bride's heels, commenter suggests discreet platform shoes.
marellathecrab | marellathecrab
ESH. Fiance runs to mommy to solve the problem 🤦♀️
justlemmeread | justlemmeread
Commenter calls out fiance's immaturity, gets support from others.
Brilliant_Air76 | Brilliant_Air76
Compromise is key. ESH, but a heel for photos? 🤔
capriolib | capriolib
Fiance's mom joining argument is a red flag. Bride deserves heels 💃
Revolutionary_Ad1846 | Revolutionary_Ad1846
Bride and groom-to-be both show emotional immaturity; ESH 🙄
SpeakerCareless | SpeakerCareless
Fiance's mommy issues over wedding shoes causing drama 🙄
isi_na | isi_na
Compromise is key in a marriage 👨🎓
Elfich47 | Elfich47
Bride-to-be's choice of shoes causes red flag and NTA response.
MontagueYork | MontagueYork
Bride-to-be wants to wear heels, fiance insecure about height. NTA.
BigDrakow | BigDrakow
Bridezilla, momma's boy, and MIL - ESH in wedding drama 🤦
mattywatty92 | mattywatty92
Defending the bride-to-be's choice while calling out the fiance's insecurity 😒
TabaxiDruid | TabaxiDruid
Fiancé throws a tantrum over wedding heels, runs to mommy 🙄
RamblingManUK | RamblingManUK
Be a tall goddess on your own wedding day! 💃
Latter-Jellyfish-240 | Latter-Jellyfish-240
Breaking gender stereotypes: Bride-to-be takes a stand for high heels 💪👠
Yellowmellowbelly | Yellowmellowbelly
Comment section derailed by Mummy, sparks sassy reply
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Short man calls out fiance's insecurity, warns of mother-in-law involvement. NTA 🙅♀️
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Red flags before marriage, NTA but is it worth it? 🚩❤️
GonnaBeOverIt | GonnaBeOverIt
ESH - Fiance's insecurity ruins wedding day, OP should compromise ❤️
OkPhilosopher1313 | OkPhilosopher1313
Fiance runs to mommy to manipulate you. 🤔 NTA
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Fiance objects to wedding heels, seeks mom's approval. NTA.
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Fiance's controlling behavior raises red flags for relationship. 🚨
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Solve the height difference with TallMenShoes.com 👞👠
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Don't let him hold you back! 💪🏼 You deserve better.
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Fiancé's mom vs. bride's heels - NTA prevails. 👠
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Breaking up over shoes? 👠 NTA, find someone who lets you shine.
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Don't let anyone control what you wear on your day. 👠
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Wedding compromises are important, but mother-in-law isn't invited. 👰
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Heels or no heels? A ridiculous debate leading to ESH.
SaraAmis | SaraAmis
Fiance's mom calls bride-to-be immature for wanting to wear heels NTA
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Empower women! Wear those heels, girl! 👠
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Fiance wants to control bride's shoes, gets mom to complain. NTA stands up for herself.
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Groom's maturity questioned after bride's son gets involved 🤔
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Bride-to-be stands up for herself against fiance's controlling behavior 💪
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Fiance objects to wearing heels at wedding, insinuates wife status. NTA.
nature_f00l | nature_f00l
Fiancé's double standard on wedding shoes? Not cool 😒
Lribbs | Lribbs
🚫 Don't marry him and his mom, NTA wins. 🎉
Ksharonmcg | Ksharonmcg
Groom's fragile ego won't let bride wear heels. NTA.
The_Syd | The_Syd
Fiance objects to bride's heels, commenters suggest relationship issues. ESH.
randiesel | randiesel
Height difference at weddings? NTA brother embraced it 👠
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Don't let his insecurity bring you down, wear those heels! 👠
SuperSassyPantz | SuperSassyPantz
NTA, compromise with flats or lifts for him. Talk it out.
Aggravating-Engine63 | Aggravating-Engine63
Stand your ground and don't marry a mama's boy 👠💪
bracingcashew | bracingcashew
Bride-to-be stands up to insecure fiance and future mother-in-law 👠💪
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Height difference causes wedding shoe drama. 🥿👠📷
Bubbly_Satisfaction2 | Bubbly_Satisfaction2
Solutions for a height difference on the wedding day! 👟
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Compromise on heels for wedding attire, ESH but possibilities.
BillsCori | BillsCori
Choosing heels shouldn't be a battle. NTA, stand firm! 👠👟
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Fiancé's mommy issues are ruining the wedding: NTA needs counseling 🤦♀️
enonymousCanadian | enonymousCanadian
NTA, but work through insecurities before marriage. 👠💍
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A bride-to-be wants to wear heels but her fiance objects. YTA or NTA?
bailahey | bailahey
Tall bride-to-be refuses to pander to fiance's insecurity 👏
RedRedBettie | RedRedBettie
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Stand tall and wear those heels! 🙌👠 Partner needs perspective.
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Fiance asks about heels, escalates to his mother. Yikes! 😬
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Supportive comment encourages leaving toxic masculinity in a relationship 💪
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Bride-to-be settles for 1.5" heels, still 2" taller than fiance 😂
lizziebee66 | lizziebee66
Height doesn't define love. 🥰 NTA wins!
Dotty_Ford | Dotty_Ford
Wear the heels! 🤩 Don't let anyone hold you back.
JsCTmav | JsCTmav
Don't let mommy ruin your romance. NTA for wearing heels.
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