Brother Claims Women Reject Him For His Looks, But It’s Actually His Personality?

Meet the youngest sibling and his closest brother, Jake

Sibling rivalry and identity: How Jake’s shadow shaped his brother.

Is it really his looks or his grumpy personality?

Sibling struggles: dealing with a toxic brother’s behavior

Awkward introduction to family during casual fling ‍♀️

Brother’s true personality exposed through inappropriate FB messages.

Man kicked out of house for bad personality, not looks.

Women reject him for his creepy personality, not his looks.

Is it personality or looks that are the problem?

A man’s brother claims women reject him for his looks but is it actually his personality? The brother in question is grumpy, noisy, and disrespectful, and when faced with rejection, he becomes insulting and creepy. The protagonist of this story used to laugh it off, but after his own girlfriend received disturbing messages from his brother, he cut ties and moved out.

Now, he’s living with his parents until he finds a new place, but his brother continues to belittle him while his mother defends him. This raises the question: are looks really the issue when it comes to dating, or is it more about personality and behavior? Redditors have weight in.

Join the conversation in the comments and share your thoughts on the matter.

Savage mom burn shuts down brother’s rude behavior. NTA.

Brother’s insulting behavior gets him rejected; called out for it.

Commenter and replies call out ‘incel’ behavior ‍♀️

Brother’s toxic behavior towards women and double standards exposed. ‍♀️

Comment and replies criticized for being unnecessarily long and fake.

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s brother situation but calls out his incel behavior

37-year-old man needs to learn how to act his age

Looks aren’t everything, it’s your personality that counts

Sibling bond over their mutual jerk brothers

Do incels really want women to value their personality over looks?

Spotting a ‘nice guy’ in the wild ‍♂️

Brother blames looks for rejection, but it’s his toxic personality ‍♀️

Ignoring hurtful messages from friends and family is not okay

Creepy text exchange behavior within 30 minutes? No thanks ‍♀️

Sassy reply shuts down insulting brother’s excuse for bad behavior

Confusion over OR abbreviation leads to humorous replies

Commenter calls out bad writing on fake story. Haters respond.

Commenter calls out brother’s bad attitude towards women

Concerns raised about brother’s potential for violence and incel behavior.

“It’s cuz I’m ugly” is a flimsy excuse to never work on the real reasons an incel is repulsive

“Nice guy” claims it’s his looks, but it’s his personality. ‍♂️

Is he a Chad or a Creep? NTA calls it out

When shooting your shot goes terribly wrong

Personality over looks? This NTA comment thinks so

Incel alert

NTA claps back with uno reverse card

A case of mistaken identity on social media?

Sibling rivalry turns creepy, but OP is NTA

Defending girlfriend from abusive brother. NTA

Woman calls out brother’s repulsive personality, suggests moving out.

Confused commenter misunderstands situation, but is supportive. ❤️

Lovers blamed brother’s weirdness for breakups, but OP disagrees

Brother’s insecurities and bad personality lead to rejection from women

Protect yourself and your loved ones from ‘nice guys/incels’ ❌

Encouraging NTA comment advises tactful honesty to help delusional brother.

Personality matters more than looks. NTA for calling out misogyny.

Woman confirms brother is an incel and his messages are scary

Calling out a miserable fellow- NTA was right to do so

Brother’s incel attitude ruins sister’s love for Star Wars

Standing up against misogyny, NTA.

Looks aren’t everything…when it comes to dating

OR stands for Open Relationship

Commenter calls out creepy behavior and victim-blaming.

NTA for calling out brother, but YTA for Star Wars diss?

Is the brother an incel? NTA thinks so

Brother’s ‘nice guy’ attitude gets called out in comments.

Skepticism and disbelief towards the comment’s claims.

Brother gets roasted for his terrible personality

Commenter doubts authenticity of story, calls out use of Reddit slang. YTA.

Is this guy an incel? NTA thinks so