Woman Obsesses Over Husband's Mistress, But When Her Sister Calls Her Out, Things Get Ugly

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Anonymous poster fears sister discovering their online confession.

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Sister's obsession with husband's mistress causes family drama ⚡

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Wife lashes out at sister for calling out her obsession.

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Victim-blaming for calling out infidelity leads to online harassment 🤦♀️

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Sister calls out woman for harshly judging husband's mistress. 🤔

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OP receives advice and keeps advising sister to seek help.

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Keeping secrets or sharing others' secrets - the dilemma discussed 🔍

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When obsession takes over, it's not just your life that suffers 🤯
This woman's obsession with her husband's mistress, Jane, has taken over her life. From stalking her social media to gloating over her misfortunes, she's become fixated on Jane. Despite her family's efforts to help her, she refuses to let go of her anger and resentment toward her husband's past infidelities.
In this post, we see how her sister's attempt to help her backfires and leads to a full-blown family feud. But who is really at fault here? Is it the cheating husband or the sister who finally snaps and tells the truth?
Read on to find out what Reddit thought and share your thoughts in the comments below.
NTA. Sister needs professional help to move on from husband's affair.

ThePlaguedSummoner | ThePlaguedSummoner
NTA calls out sister's denial about her failing marriage and future.

SimplisticFox | SimplisticFox
NTA. Commenter points out the real culprit behind the affairs. 👍

ScorchieSong | ScorchieSong
Encouraging NTA comment suggests therapy and leaving toxic relationship 💪

Full_Worldliness1480 | Full_Worldliness1480
Sister calls out misdirected anger towards husband's mistress

SRGoffSMB | SRGoffSMB
Sister's obsession with husband's mistress spirals out of control. 🤯

TheUtopianCat | TheUtopianCat
NTA for not understanding your sister's obsession with husband's mistress.

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Commenter empathizes with OP and advises therapy for moving on.

Hotcrossbuns72 | Hotcrossbuns72
Commenter defends mistress, sister in denial about cheating husband. 🤔

I-cant-hug-every-cat | I-cant-hug-every-cat
Sister's obsession with husband's mistress could lead to dangerous consequences 💔

JesusIDontKnow | JesusIDontKnow
Sister obsessing over husband's mistress, OP sets a boundary 💥

C_Majuscula | C_Majuscula
A heartbreaking story of a friend who 'won' her cheating husband – a barnacle on the booty of life.

breezfan22 | breezfan22
Supportive commenter acknowledges husband's manipulation, suggests therapy for OP's mental health

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Sibling calls out cyber-stalking sister, ESH, enabling misery. 💻🤔

Tsushui | Tsushui
Blaming others won't save a broken marriage. 💔

lotus_eater123 | lotus_eater123
Commenter calls out Annie for being an AH and invading privacy. NTA

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Straight talk shuts down toxic sister in NTA comment 💪

ArtlessOne | ArtlessOne
NTA calls out sister for blaming husband's mistress and refusing therapy 💥

Oldgamerlady | Oldgamerlady
Commenter defends woman and calls out husband's infidelity.

creatoroffantasy | creatoroffantasy
Don't mess with this sister! She's brutally honest and spot on 😎

stroppo | stroppo
Splitting atoms: a sisterly take down with explosive results 💥

NotTwitchy | NotTwitchy
Don't be a broken record. Take a break, sis 🙄

themadhatterwasright | themadhatterwasright
Blame game: NTA comments spark sibling strife over husband's infidelity 💔

Kirstemis | Kirstemis
Supporting a delusion: When it becomes too much for others 🤔

Flat_Lengthiness_319 | Flat_Lengthiness_319
When telling someone their partner is cheating goes wrong 😬

calaakla | calaakla
Love this! Shutting down the obsession with some truth bombs 💣

LadyCollywobbles | LadyCollywobbles
Defending Jane against sister's baseless accusations - NTA 🙌

False-Guess | False-Guess
Focus on the real problem, not the mistress 💔🙅♀️

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Commenter gives a reality check with a side of cheese 🧀. NTA

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Sisterly love gone wrong 😬

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Sister calls out OP, suggests BIL and her match perfectly 💥

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Sisterly support and sass in the face of infidelity 👏

MKatieUltra | MKatieUltra
Protecting privacy during a mental health crisis 👏

LockAzzy | LockAzzy
Advocate for the victim, but respect the sister's decision. ✊

Bakecrazy | Bakecrazy
Friend tired of hearing about husband's mistress, advises to ignore.

That_Contribution720 | That_Contribution720
Myth of home wreckers debunked. NTA for calling it out.

Tyelpe | Tyelpe
Don't let toxic family drag you down. NTA 👍

Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes
Years of obsession and a brutal beatdown, but still fixated.

DazzlingAssistant342 | DazzlingAssistant342
NTA for setting boundaries, sister warns against dangerous behavior.

aprl2271 | aprl2271
Don't condone cheating or stalking, NTA sets the record straight.

KnightOwl224 | KnightOwl224
Overcoming jealousy and obsession through therapy and cutting off toxic people.

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NTA! Cheating husband is the AH, not the 'homewrecker'.

SanoSS7 | SanoSS7
Not the a**hole? Tell us more 👀

Wildhikewoman27 | Wildhikewoman27
Self-care is crucial. Don't let emotional vampires drain you. 💆♀️

JosieJOK | JosieJOK
Resisting the urge to 'blow up' never ends well 👍

Jgraybeard | Jgraybeard
Commenter defends Annie's behavior, but is called out for hypocrisy 🤥

Majestic-Llama-Spit | Majestic-Llama-Spit
Ex-fiancée's stalker won the 'play stupid games' award 🏆

More-Conversation-84 | More-Conversation-84
Encouraging seeking mental health support for obsessive behavior. 🧠

DaWalt1976 | DaWalt1976
Encouraging comment suggests therapy to stop obsession over husband's mistress.

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Speaking the truth in love can be hard 💔

JHawk444 | JHawk444
Being honest with family is never easy 🤷♀️

El_Ren | El_Ren
Support for not validating husband's mistress, but with a hint of sarcasm 😒

Peetrrabbit | Peetrrabbit
Dealing with a partner's infidelity can be consuming for everyone involved 💔

MarkedHeart | MarkedHeart
Family's enabling behavior calls for a reality check 💥

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Sister's hypocrisy exposed in NTA comment with therapy recommendation 🤔

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👍 Not the a-hole, but therapy needed to address creepy obsession.

Right-Arm-619 | Right-Arm-619
Blame the husband, not the sister. NTA 👍

fruskydekke | fruskydekke
🙌 Therapy and divorce attorney needed! NTA

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Commenter supports not being a victim and seeking help. 🙌

StoryRevolutionary22 | StoryRevolutionary22
Setting boundaries with a toxic friend. 👍

scseven | scseven
Sibling support or betrayal? The aftermath of infidelity. 💔

Denbi53 | Denbi53
Obsessive behavior towards husband's mistress is not acceptable. Seek help.

Seabastial | Seabastial
Sometimes the truth hurts 🤷♀️ Time to disconnect and move on.

Agitated_Net3736 | Agitated_Net3736
Setting boundaries with a sister's obsession. 🚫👂

RishaBree | RishaBree
Setting boundaries is important, even when it's a family member. NTA

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