Woman Obsesses Over Husband's Mistress, But When Her Sister Calls Her Out, Things Get Ugly

Woman looking at male partner's phone and looking shocked.
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Anonymous poster fears sister discovering their online confession.

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Sister's obsession with husband's mistress causes family drama ⚡

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Sister's obsession with husband's mistress leads to meltdown over successes.

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When venting turns toxic, family members become collateral damage 😢

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Woman's obsession with husband's mistress leads to cruel comments.

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Wife lashes out at sister for calling out her obsession.

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Victim-blaming for calling out infidelity leads to online harassment 🤦‍♀️

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Sister calls out woman for harshly judging husband's mistress. 🤔

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OP receives advice and keeps advising sister to seek help.

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Keeping secrets or sharing others' secrets - the dilemma discussed 🔍

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When obsession takes over, it's not just your life that suffers 🤯

This woman's obsession with her husband's mistress, Jane, has taken over her life. From stalking her social media to gloating over her misfortunes, she's become fixated on Jane. Despite her family's efforts to help her, she refuses to let go of her anger and resentment toward her husband's past infidelities.

In this post, we see how her sister's attempt to help her backfires and leads to a full-blown family feud. But who is really at fault here? Is it the cheating husband or the sister who finally snaps and tells the truth?

Read on to find out what Reddit thought and share your thoughts in the comments below.

NTA. Sister needs professional help to move on from husband's affair.

ThePlaguedSummoner | ThePlaguedSummoner

NTA calls out sister's denial about her failing marriage and future.

SimplisticFox | SimplisticFox

NTA. Commenter points out the real culprit behind the affairs. 👍

ScorchieSong | ScorchieSong

Encouraging NTA comment suggests therapy and leaving toxic relationship 💪

Full_Worldliness1480 | Full_Worldliness1480

Sister calls out misdirected anger towards husband's mistress


Sister's obsession with husband's mistress spirals out of control. 🤯

TheUtopianCat | TheUtopianCat

NTA for not understanding your sister's obsession with husband's mistress.

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Commenter empathizes with OP and advises therapy for moving on.

Hotcrossbuns72 | Hotcrossbuns72

Commenter defends mistress, sister in denial about cheating husband. 🤔

I-cant-hug-every-cat | I-cant-hug-every-cat

Sister's obsession with husband's mistress could lead to dangerous consequences 💔

JesusIDontKnow | JesusIDontKnow

Sister obsessing over husband's mistress, OP sets a boundary 💥

C_Majuscula | C_Majuscula

A heartbreaking story of a friend who 'won' her cheating husband – a barnacle on the booty of life.

breezfan22 | breezfan22

Supportive commenter acknowledges husband's manipulation, suggests therapy for OP's mental health

getmepizza | getmepizza

Sibling calls out cyber-stalking sister, ESH, enabling misery. 💻🤔

Tsushui | Tsushui

Blaming others won't save a broken marriage. 💔

lotus_eater123 | lotus_eater123

Commenter calls out Annie for being an AH and invading privacy. NTA

esr95tkd | esr95tkd

Straight talk shuts down toxic sister in NTA comment 💪

ArtlessOne | ArtlessOne

NTA calls out sister for blaming husband's mistress and refusing therapy 💥

Oldgamerlady | Oldgamerlady

Commenter defends woman and calls out husband's infidelity.

creatoroffantasy | creatoroffantasy

Don't mess with this sister! She's brutally honest and spot on 😎

stroppo | stroppo

Splitting atoms: a sisterly take down with explosive results 💥

NotTwitchy | NotTwitchy

Don't be a broken record. Take a break, sis 🙄

themadhatterwasright | themadhatterwasright

Blame game: NTA comments spark sibling strife over husband's infidelity 💔

Kirstemis | Kirstemis

Supporting a delusion: When it becomes too much for others 🤔

Flat_Lengthiness_319 | Flat_Lengthiness_319

When telling someone their partner is cheating goes wrong 😬

calaakla | calaakla

Love this! Shutting down the obsession with some truth bombs 💣

LadyCollywobbles | LadyCollywobbles

Defending Jane against sister's baseless accusations - NTA 🙌

False-Guess | False-Guess

Focus on the real problem, not the mistress 💔🙅‍♀️

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Commenter gives a reality check with a side of cheese 🧀. NTA

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Sisterly love gone wrong 😬

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Sister calls out OP, suggests BIL and her match perfectly 💥

Rude_Abbreviations47 | Rude_Abbreviations47

Sisterly support and sass in the face of infidelity 👏

MKatieUltra | MKatieUltra

Protecting privacy during a mental health crisis 👏

LockAzzy | LockAzzy

Advocate for the victim, but respect the sister's decision. ✊

Bakecrazy | Bakecrazy

Friend tired of hearing about husband's mistress, advises to ignore.

That_Contribution720 | That_Contribution720

Myth of home wreckers debunked. NTA for calling it out.

Tyelpe | Tyelpe

Don't let toxic family drag you down. NTA 👍

Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes

Years of obsession and a brutal beatdown, but still fixated.

DazzlingAssistant342 | DazzlingAssistant342

NTA for setting boundaries, sister warns against dangerous behavior.

aprl2271 | aprl2271

Don't condone cheating or stalking, NTA sets the record straight.

KnightOwl224 | KnightOwl224

Overcoming jealousy and obsession through therapy and cutting off toxic people.

torrentialwx | torrentialwx

NTA! Cheating husband is the AH, not the 'homewrecker'.

SanoSS7 | SanoSS7

Not the a**hole? Tell us more 👀

Wildhikewoman27 | Wildhikewoman27

Self-care is crucial. Don't let emotional vampires drain you. 💆‍♀️

JosieJOK | JosieJOK

Resisting the urge to 'blow up' never ends well 👍

Jgraybeard | Jgraybeard

Commenter defends Annie's behavior, but is called out for hypocrisy 🤥

Majestic-Llama-Spit | Majestic-Llama-Spit

Ex-fiancée's stalker won the 'play stupid games' award 🏆

More-Conversation-84 | More-Conversation-84

Encouraging seeking mental health support for obsessive behavior. 🧠

DaWalt1976 | DaWalt1976

Encouraging comment suggests therapy to stop obsession over husband's mistress.

iwant2unalivemyself | iwant2unalivemyself

Speaking the truth in love can be hard 💔

JHawk444 | JHawk444

Being honest with family is never easy 🤷‍♀️

El_Ren | El_Ren

Support for not validating husband's mistress, but with a hint of sarcasm 😒

Peetrrabbit | Peetrrabbit

Dealing with a partner's infidelity can be consuming for everyone involved 💔

MarkedHeart | MarkedHeart

Family's enabling behavior calls for a reality check 💥

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Sister's hypocrisy exposed in NTA comment with therapy recommendation 🤔

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👍 Not the a-hole, but therapy needed to address creepy obsession.

Right-Arm-619 | Right-Arm-619

Blame the husband, not the sister. NTA 👍

fruskydekke | fruskydekke

🙌 Therapy and divorce attorney needed! NTA

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Commenter supports not being a victim and seeking help. 🙌

StoryRevolutionary22 | StoryRevolutionary22

Setting boundaries with a toxic friend. 👍

scseven | scseven

Sibling support or betrayal? The aftermath of infidelity. 💔

Denbi53 | Denbi53

Obsessive behavior towards husband's mistress is not acceptable. Seek help.

Seabastial | Seabastial

Sometimes the truth hurts 🤷‍♀️ Time to disconnect and move on.

Agitated_Net3736 | Agitated_Net3736

Setting boundaries with a sister's obsession. 🚫👂

RishaBree | RishaBree

Setting boundaries is important, even when it's a family member. NTA

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