A man who chose to become a stay-at-home dad was constantly ridiculed by his older brother for not conforming to traditional gender roles. After years of enduring the jokes, the man finally stood up to his brother in a witty and unexpected way.
When his brother made a homophobic joke at a family gathering, the man responded by revealing intimate details about his sex life with his wife. The brother was embarrassed and demanded an apology, but the man refused. Now the family is torn apart and the man is questioning whether or not he was in the wrong.
Read on to find out what Reddit users had to say about the family feud in this situation .
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SAHD shocks toxic brother with naughty secret
This SAHD’s toxic brother has been making jokes about him for the past 7 years, insinuating that he’s less of a man because his wife is the breadwinner. But after a few drinks, the SAHD and his wife came up with a naughty solution to shut him up.
When the brother made another derogatory comment, the SAHD revealed that he is a ‘bottom’ and enjoys being intimate with his wife using a dildo and harness. Everyone was shocked, and the brother finally shut up. But now he’s refusing to attend family dinner unless the SAHD apologizes.
Is the SAHD the a**hole here? Let’s dive into the comments and see what people have to say about this family drama .
Breaking toxic masculinity and standing up for family. ✊

Breaking toxic masculinity stereotypes ♂️ and winning hearts ❤️

Woman shuts down toxic behavior, internet applauds with butt jokes

Taking a stand against toxic masculinity

Standing up to toxic masculinity and hypocrisy

Man shocked family with toxic masculinity, NTA for standing up.

Humorous replies and puns on NTA comment receive awards

Standing up against toxic masculinity in family conversation ♂️

Family drama unfolds over brother’s immaturity. ♂️

Sibling rivalry escalates to insulting jokes, NTA for speaking up.

NTA stands up to toxic masculinity and fake apologies

Breaking toxic masculinity with humor

Standing up to toxic masculinity and refusing to apologize

Breaking gender norms: NTA dad inspires and entertains readers ❤️

Sassy non-apology receives support from niece. NTA

Standing up to toxic masculinity with no apologies ♂️

Trophy husband life is sweet – aspiring men take notes

Inappropriate humor: hilariously NTA or poorly timed ESH?
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Man stands up to toxic masculinity and receives support for trying anal.

Commenter celebrates cake day amidst heated NTA discussion

Man shuts down toxic masculinity with clever comebacks.

Standing up to toxic masculinity wins the game

Standing up to toxic masculinity without hurting family

Standing up to toxic masculinity with a hilarious revenge prank

Empowering response shuts down toxic joke and justifies actions.

Confronting toxic masculinity: Should he tell his mom the truth?

When forced to apologize, is a “sorry not sorry” tactic acceptable?

When a harmless question gets a hilarious response

Mom unaware of brother’s toxic comments

Sibling support: You go! NTA, brother’s the AH.

Standing up to toxic masculinity with a high-five

Breaking gender norms: one man’s journey to self-discovery

Standing up to family insults – NTA sets boundaries

Mom’s double standard exposed and brother put in his place

Standing up to toxic masculinity wins family dinner

Standing up to toxic masculinity like a boss

Supportive reply encourages exploring sexual preferences

Commenter praises OP’s humor and NTA decision

Stand up to toxic masculinity and demand accountability. ✊

Standing up to toxic masculinity NTA wins brother battle
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Challenging toxic masculinity and homophobic remarks.

Standing up to toxic masculinity with big dick energy

Commenter praises man for standing up to toxic masculinity

Sibling jealousy? Stand your ground and don’t apologize.

Breaking gender norms and standing up to family expectations

Breaking gender roles and stereotypes with a supportive partner!

Dad defies toxic masculinity and wins family’s admiration

Rejecting toxic masculinity leads to family backlash

Confronting toxic masculinity and making amends

Breaking gender norms and inspiring future generations.

Sarcasm detected! Standing up against homophobia. NTA

Standing up to toxic masculinity and putting family in place

Standing up to toxic masculinity, NTA called a legend
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A lucky bookworm meets his match and makes bank

Brother’s toxic behavior finally called out. Justice served

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