When a husband invited his close friend, a recent widower, to go on a 3-day vacation to another state, the wife was surprised. Money was tight, and the husband had asked her to sleep on the floor while he and his friend took the bed. She refused and left. Was it wrong for the wife to go home after being asked to sleep on the floor? It’s a difficult situation and one that has sparked debate on the internet.
My husband and his “nicotine” friend Carl, who are both 33 and co-workers, share a special bond.

After his wife’s passing, Carlos was struggling, until a kind gesture brought him some comfort.

A widower invited on a vacation, but no budget for a room. A difficult decision to make!

My husband made an unexpected request, leaving me with a difficult decision.

An unexpected request pushes a woman to take a stand and leave a hotel

A vacation that unexpectedly turned sour with an “urban” request and my husband’s reaction.

A widower’s unexpected vacation request tests a couple’s relationship
When a widower friend of a 33-year-old husband asked to join the couple on their 3-day vacation, the husband thought it would be a good opportunity for his friend to get away from his grief. But the wife didn’t know about the invitation and the surprise put a damper on the vacation. The husband insisted that they share a room and the wife refused, leading to an argument. The husband accused her of being irrational, while the wife felt that she was not consulted and had not signed up for a shared room. In the end, the wife left the hotel, leaving the husband and the widower’s friend to continue the vacation. How would you have handled the situation? In the comments section below, let us know your thoughts on the Reddit post .
Husband’s Unexpected Request: NTA!

NTA:

The logic applied here is

What would you do?
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A shocking discovery!

Husband’s ‘non-issue’

Is OP’s husband and Carl more than ‘friends’?

A difficult situation

Is the husband gay?

NTA:

Is deception at play?

NTA! Unbelievable story!

A husband’s unexpected request!

Is there something more?
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A surprising revelation

A Mortifying Situation ♂️

Best friend’s strange behaviour

Husband needs a reality check

NTA: Time for counseling ⚖️

Red flags

Unmasking an old friendship

Boundary-stomping not ok!
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A husband’s ❤️ secret

Ouch!

NTA: Prioritizing a friend over spouse

A husband’s unexpected request

NTA: Divorce him and find love.

Thoughts on an unexpected request?

A difficult decision!

❤️ Divorcing a ❤️❓ NTA or NAH?

NTA: Husband’s weird request

A potentially suspicious situation

A husband’s unexpected request!

Unexpected ❓: What would you do?

NTA: Boundaries are important!

Unexpected guest

NTA- What a mess!

A suspicious request,

A husband’s unexpected request leaves OP feeling disrespected. NTA

Respect is key!

A daring request

NTA: Protecting from unhealthy obsession.
