A Widower, a Vacation, and an Unexpected Request: What Would You Have Done?

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When a husband invited his close friend, a recent widower, to go on a 3-day vacation to another state, the wife was surprised. Money was tight, and the husband had asked her to sleep on the floor while he and his friend took the bed. She refused and left. Was it wrong for the wife to go home after being asked to sleep on the floor? It's a difficult situation and one that has sparked debate on the internet.

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A widower's unexpected vacation request tests a couple's relationship 🤔

When a widower friend of a 33-year-old husband asked to join the couple on their 3-day vacation, the husband thought it would be a good opportunity for his friend to get away from his grief. But the wife didn't know about the invitation and the surprise put a damper on the vacation. The husband insisted that they share a room and the wife refused, leading to an argument. The husband accused her of being irrational, while the wife felt that she was not consulted and had not signed up for a shared room. In the end, the wife left the hotel, leaving the husband and the widower's friend to continue the vacation. How would you have handled the situation? In the comments section below, let us know your thoughts on the Reddit post.

😲 Husband's Unexpected Request: NTA!

Thediciplematt | Thediciplematt

NTA: 🚩🚩🚩

sugarintheboots | sugarintheboots

The logic applied here is 🤯

Little_Outside | Little_Outside

🤔 What would you do?

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👀 A shocking discovery!

Dannah_Montanah | Dannah_Montanah

Husband's 'non-issue' 🤔

UnluckyDreamer1 | UnluckyDreamer1

👀 Is OP's husband and Carl more than 'friends'? 🤔

mlmarte | mlmarte

A difficult situation🤔

slexyquinn | slexyquinn

🤔 Is the husband gay? 🤔

tiredlittlepigeon | tiredlittlepigeon

NTA: 🤔😮😧

JWilesParker | JWilesParker

🤔 Is deception at play? 🤔

deakers | deakers

NTA! 🤯 Unbelievable story!

ShallWeStartThen | ShallWeStartThen

🤔 A husband's unexpected request!

Agreeable-Tale9729 | Agreeable-Tale9729

🤔 Is there something more? 🤔

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🤔 A surprising revelation 🤔

InfiniteItem | InfiniteItem

A Mortifying Situation 🤦‍♂️

yikesonbikes2 | yikesonbikes2

Best friend's strange behaviour 😕

ManaSpellFae | ManaSpellFae

Husband needs a reality check 😲

TrustedTriangle | TrustedTriangle

NTA: Time for counseling 👩‍⚖️

QuinGood | QuinGood

🤔 Red flags 🚩

Neglectfulgardener | Neglectfulgardener

👀 Unmasking an old friendship 🤔

Booppeep | Booppeep

🤔 Boundary-stomping not ok!

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A husband's ❤️ secret 🤐

Francie1966 | Francie1966

Ouch! 🤕

Disastrous_Ad_8561 | Disastrous_Ad_8561

NTA: Prioritizing a friend over spouse 🤔

hey_celiac_girl | hey_celiac_girl

A husband's unexpected request 😳

No_Extreme_1798 | No_Extreme_1798

🤔 NTA: Divorce him and find love.

Better2021Everyone | Better2021Everyone

🤔 Thoughts on an unexpected request?

Woweegnat | Woweegnat

🤔 A difficult decision!

Verynotgoodcupcake | Verynotgoodcupcake

👨‍❤️‍👨 Divorcing a ❤️❓ NTA or NAH?

_centaur_of_att | _centaur_of_att

NTA: Husband's weird request 😕

keesouth | keesouth

🤔 A potentially suspicious situation 🤔

witchbrew7 | witchbrew7

A husband's 🤔🤔 unexpected request!

poeadam | poeadam

Unexpected ❓: What would you do?

Practical-Bird633 | Practical-Bird633

NTA: Boundaries 👏🏼are👏🏼 important! 🤔

Starry_nights2 | Starry_nights2

Unexpected guest 🤯

BooshGuru | BooshGuru

NTA- 🤯 What a mess!

KittKatt7179 | KittKatt7179

🤔 A suspicious request,

MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench

A husband's 🤔unexpected request 😳leaves OP feeling 🤬disrespected. NTA 🚫

redditusername1942 | redditusername1942

😮 Respect is key!

AnyConsideration6867 | AnyConsideration6867

🤔 A daring request 🤔

jaethegreatone | jaethegreatone

NTA: Protecting 👪 from 🤔 unhealthy obsession.

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