Money is one of the most common sources of marital conflict. People often argue about how to spend it, who is in charge of it, how much of it is okay to spend, and many other aspects of handling money. It is especially hard for the breadwinner to trust their spouse with their money when they are not aware of how much they actually have and how it is spent. This woman on Reddit who stays at home with the kids wanted to buy her husband some sneakers. After she saw them on sale, she didn’t wait for her husband to buy them himself and bought them for him. She was happy to see him happy until he flipped out and called her stealing. She returned the sneakers, but the husband was still mad and avoided talking to her.
Wife’s return of shoes causes husband’s budget-driven rage

The husband’s list-making backfired when his wife returned the shoes she bought for him because they weren’t on the list

Husband gets angry when wife returns shoes not on the shopping list

An unexpected shopping spree ended in rage when the husband rejected the shoes his wife bought him.

Agreeing on what to buy can be tricky, even when the price is low.

Tensions flare as husband accuses wife of “stealing” and being “irresponsible” with money.

After the wife returned the shoes, tempers flared and the husband was livid!

Wife returns the shoes she bought for her husband, but he goes on a rage instead of appreciating the “nice gesture”

Husband’s anger boils over when wife returns his shoes

A loving wife wants to surprise her husband, but he’s not too pleased

He flipped out when she returned the shoes she bought for him – but was she in the wrong?
When a wife bought her husband a pair of shoes on sale, she thought she was doing something nice. Little did she know, her husband would go into a rage. He told her that her purchase was stealing and accused her of being irresponsible with his money. After a heated argument, she decided to return the shoes and take the money back. But was she in the wrong? We explore the situation and its repercussions in this post.
A**hole alert! OP is in a toxic relationship, and needs help to escape!

Financial abuse isn’t ok!

Financial & emotional abuse

♀️ Abusive relationship alert

NTA: Financial and emotional abuse.

NTA: financial & emotional abuse is acceptable

NTA: Time to ❗share❗ finances

A marriage breakdown

NTA: ♀️ abuse isn’t ok
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Financial abuse?

NTA: Financial Abuse

NTA: Legal rights

Living in a hyper controlling environment

NTA: Husband Abusing Financially

NTA❤️ Wife stands up to controlling husband
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A plea for help

Wife NTA, but needs help

Abusive marriage?

An abusive husband?

NTA: You’re not the a**hole!

Take control of

A case of financial abuse ❗️

NTA:

Protecting the helpless

NTA: Unhealthy Relationship

Abusive husband?

NTA: ♀️ Think about the dynamic!


NTA: Financial abuse is traumatic

Victim of abuse? NTA!

Husband goes on a rage

Financial abuse?

Wife refuses to do grocery shopping with a list!

♀️ NTA: Financial Abuse

Abuse Alert!

Control freak alert

NTA: Husband’s Control

Wife’s independence questioned

NTA: Financial & emotional abuse.

NTA: Escape from financial & emotional abuse!

NTA: Power up your life

Husband is NTA!

Financial abuse

Financial abuse alert!

Husband’s entitled rage

NTA: ♂️ Run from this and abusive relationship ♀️

NTA: Is this an unequal relationship?

Divorce him!

Rage and control

NTA: Financial Abuse?

Financial Abuse Alert

Husband not NTA ⚠️

♂️NTA: It’s both your money!

Wife puts her foot down

NTA: consider getting a job

NTA – ♀️ Financial abuse?

Seek help. Get financially independent. RUN.

NTA: Controlling behavior won’t last!

Empowering advice for an abusive situation

NTA! Financial abuse?

No one deserves to be at for correcting a mistake!

Free yourself from an irrational tyrant!

No more controlling ♀️

Red flags everywhere!

NTA: Get out fast!

Husband’s abusive behaviour
