Is it Wrong to Limit Visits to Grandma's House?

Child and grandmother.
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Most parents can relate to the challenge of keeping a child focused and attentive. It is not easy to be patient and understanding in the face of constant defiance, but it is important to remember that children learn from their parents. In this case, the mother has recently discovered that her daughter has been preferring the grandmother's house due to her outbursts of frustration.

The mother has decided to put an end to this behavior, but the grandmother and the husband are not happy with the decision. How should the mother handle this delicate situation? Let's see what Reddit has to say.

My daughter's visits with her grandma are causing tension - is it wrong to limit how often she visits?

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Limiting visits to Grandma's - is it the right thing to do?

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Grandma's house visits are limited, but her daughter doesn't like "yelling" at home

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Admitting to losing patience with Grandma and asking her to do something multiple times. 🤔

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Grandkids and visits - Should limits be set?

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Frustrated mom seeks balance between safety and family time

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A family struggles to decide if visiting Grandma is allowed

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Exploring how to balance limits with understanding 🤔

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Grandma's house - a place where different rules apply? 🤔

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Family tensions rise as limiting visits to grandma's house causes conflict

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Is it wrong to set boundaries with family? 🤔

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Is it wrong to set boundaries with kids? Yelling is not encouraged, but sometimes necessary

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🤔 Is it wrong to limit visits to grandma's house? 🤔

When a mother found out that her daughter, 6f, started asking her grandmother to stay at her place more often, her mother-in-law decided to tell the mother that her child will be staying there. Her husband said that her daughter has been asking to stay there because of the "yelling" at their house.

The mother admits that recently she has been losing her patience with her more easily than in the past and explained to her daughter why she yelled at her, usually after the situation has calmed down. She is not stopping her from going to her grandmother's house completely, just stopping this behavior where when she doesn't like something she runs to them to avoid having to deal with the consequences of her actions at home.

In this article, we will see what Redditors think about the story and if it is wrong to limit visits to grandma's house.

🤷‍♀️ Mom YTA? 🤔

lihzee | lihzee

YTA: Parenting is hard, but something needs to change 🤔

Brilliant-Carpet-746 | Brilliant-Carpet-746

A 6-year-old kid reacting to being yelled at? 🤔

Left-Car6520 | Left-Car6520

YTA: 🤦‍♀️ 6 year old is👂🏼 grandma for help

carefullycareless135 | carefullycareless135

YTA not recognizing their own behavior 🤦‍♀️

Andante79 | Andante79

🤔 Advice for 6-year-olds and their parents 🤔

katamino | katamino

Mom defends her yelling🤔

LilBitofSunshine99 | LilBitofSunshine99

YTA: yelling isn't helping 🤦‍♀️

Possible-Plane-756 | Possible-Plane-756

Grandma’s house 🏠, memories of yelling 🗣️

triter2002 | triter2002

👩‍👩‍👦‍👦 Grandma's House Visits: YTA 🤦‍♂️

pudge-thefish | pudge-thefish

YTA 🤦‍♀️ Parenting is hard, but don't take it out on your kids!

Legal-Needle81 | Legal-Needle81

Grandma's house: YTA or NAH?

stacity | stacity

Grandma's house visits: 😳


YTA: Parent must get counseling 🙅

mm172 | mm172

YTA: Parenting is more than just punishments

invomitous-rex | invomitous-rex

🤔 Grandma's visits: YTA?

MK_King69 | MK_King69

YTA: Grandma's house is the safe place 🤦‍♂️

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🤦 Parents, don't be a YTA!

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Grandparents teaching self-control 🤔

Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340

Mom finds out 🤯 why her daughter wants to visit grandma often!

Fresh-Ad8854 | Fresh-Ad8854

YTA! Terrible parenting 🤦‍♀️

veni_vidi_dixi | veni_vidi_dixi

YTA: Reevaluate your parenting!

DaJuganhut | DaJuganhut

Grandma's House: YTA 🤔

lemons66 | lemons66

The daughter feels unsafe at home😔

mdthomas | mdthomas

Grandma's house is a safe haven 🏠

Fiireygirl | Fiireygirl

👉 YTA: Recognizing the problem is an important step!

ShopMajesticPanchos | ShopMajesticPanchos

Parenting fail? 😬

Rhuthbarb | Rhuthbarb

Toxic parenting😔🤦‍♀️

Aradene | Aradene

🤔 Grandma's visits: YTA or NAH?

Glittering_Owl8001 | Glittering_Owl8001

YTA: limiting grandma visits 🤦🏼‍♀️


🤔 Is Shouting the Wrong Solution?

foxy3011 | foxy3011

🤦‍♀️ Parenting gone wrong!

justabitmoresonic | justabitmoresonic

YTA: Punishing daughter 🤦‍♂️

Torch_Serviet_Carpet | Torch_Serviet_Carpet

Grandma 💔, OP 🤦‍♀️?

desolation29 | desolation29

Bad mothering 🤦🏾‍♀️

Jolly_Tooth_7274 | Jolly_Tooth_7274

The dangers of 🤬

pinksparkles3011 | pinksparkles3011

Parents: YTA when it comes to limiting visits to Grandma's house!

Affectionate_Ice_658 | Affectionate_Ice_658

Is it wrong to limit visits to Grandma's house? 🤔

rk800s | rk800s

NTA: Kids can be challenging!

Possible_Walrus9461 | Possible_Walrus9461

Grandma's house isn't the same...😔

TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369

YTA? 👀

anewlaugh | anewlaugh

Grandma's advice: 🤔 Remove your head from your a**!

CommunicationOdd9406 | CommunicationOdd9406

It's time to get help ✋

Personal_Regular_569 | Personal_Regular_569

Grandma's house: YTA 🤦‍♀️

ChanceSpring4457 | ChanceSpring4457

Try not to lose your cool! 🤯

nedermg | nedermg

Does a child's behavior 👩‍⚕️determine a father's love? 🤔

Rohini_rambles | Rohini_rambles

Grandma's house: ✋🏻 for discipline?

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Parenting is hard 🤦‍♀️

an0nym0uswr1ter | an0nym0uswr1ter

YTA: Grandma's house is not an escape 🤷‍♀️

Frequent_Cancel_7066 | Frequent_Cancel_7066

YTA for child abuse 😞

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Is this parent crossing a line?

shakkkkki | shakkkkki

YTA: Grandma's house visits!

throwawaybeachgoer | throwawaybeachgoer

Grandma's visit: YTA 🤔

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YTA: Grandma's Visits Limited?

BassImpossible4015 | BassImpossible4015

YTA: Grandma denied access to a safe space?

Cautious_Grocery6335 | Cautious_Grocery6335

YTA: Abusive Parenting 😡

Americanwhorrorstory | Americanwhorrorstory

YTA: You're the a**hole 😝

TriSarahTops47 | TriSarahTops47

The parent is ✅YTA 😭😭

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