Woman Flees Restaurant After Boyfriend Refuses To Pay Her Back Or At Least Buy Her Dinner

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BF borrows money and promises to pay it back ASAP

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The woman is patient, will BF pay back the money?

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A woman experiences misfortune and finds out her bf won't help

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Woman seeks repayment but gets a 'don't worry' instead

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Angry at her BF's refusal to pay her back or even buy her dinner, she decided to leave the restaurant in disbelief.

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Friendly disagreement over dinner leads to a heated discussion

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When your 💰promise isn't kept, it's time to 👋🏼

When one person lends another money, the expectation is that it will be paid back. In this case, the woman's boyfriend had promised to repay her loan, but he did not follow through. When they both went to dinner with friends, the woman asked if he could at least pay for her meal, as she had no money. He refused and offered her scraps from his plate instead, so she left the restaurant in frustration.

Understandably, she was taken aback by his refusal to pay her back or at least buy her dinner. This situation leads to the question of whether it is polite to stay in this kind of situation, or if it is better to simply leave.

This article seeks to explore that question and provide insight by looking at the responses from people on Reddit.

NTA. BF & friends 👎

rmjoef | rmjoef

🤯 You won't believe what happened 😱

Swimming-Item8891 | Swimming-Item8891

Yikes! 🤦‍♀️

indistars | indistars

NTA: Even if he didn't owe her any money, he should have bought her dinner 😣

Happy-Positive7696 | Happy-Positive7696

Boyfriend 🙅‍♂️ owes money, takes friends out to dinner 🍽 but offers GF scraps 🥱 NTA

RaysUnderwater | RaysUnderwater

🚨 NTA: Don't worry about it! 🚨

CakeEatingRabbit | CakeEatingRabbit

NTA: 💸 Your BF dodges his debt

[deleted] | [deleted]

An unbelievable situation 👀

Iothil | Iothil

NTA: 🤷 Bf's a mooch, friends are A-holes

Careful-Bumblebee-10 | Careful-Bumblebee-10

Empathy is key! 🔑

UrsaGeorge | UrsaGeorge

🤔 NTA or NAH? 🤔

PreparationExpert457 | PreparationExpert457

Friendship over money: 🤷‍♀️

dart1126 | dart1126

🚶‍♀️NTA: Leave him 🔚

Efficient_Hedgehog97 | Efficient_Hedgehog97

NTA, but 🤔🤔

MediumAlternative372 | MediumAlternative372

NTA: 👎🏼 What's wrong with your bf and friends?

thc1121 | thc1121

NTA: 💰💰💰 Not only a new BF but also new friends!

Jocelyn-1973 | Jocelyn-1973

Friendship and 💰 don't mix!

Monicawroteitbetter | Monicawroteitbetter

💸Friend group fails to pay up💸

BeneficialDark1662 | BeneficialDark1662

Always put yourself first 💯

Sugarnspice44 | Sugarnspice44

😬 Taking matters into her own hands

by_the_gaslight | by_the_gaslight

Friendship test 🤔

Stock_Mortgage1998 | Stock_Mortgage1998

Time to get new friends!

Jethrothemutant | Jethrothemutant

🤬 NTA: BF & friends were AH 🤬

WhizzoButterBoy | WhizzoButterBoy

🤔 NTA but you have a point!

meganwithaness | meganwithaness

NTA! A romantic relationship shouldn't be like this 🤔

PerpetuallyChaotic | PerpetuallyChaotic

Ditch the 💔 and ditch the 👥!

chriswillar | chriswillar

NTA: 🤔Better bf & friends needed 🤷‍♀️

One_Engineer_8317 | One_Engineer_8317

NTA: Boyfriend won't even 💸?

Arcaev_NL | Arcaev_NL

😡 Woman ditches bf and friends!

CrunchyCookies51 | CrunchyCookies51

Ditch him 💔 Don't loan him more money!

Ara_Eiz | Ara_Eiz

No a-hole here! 👍

Testingthrowaway00 | Testingthrowaway00

Dump him 💔 NTA 🙅‍♀️

Cheesecake_720 | Cheesecake_720

Dump 'em all 💔

bot_bot_bot | bot_bot_bot

Cutting ties? 🤔

Dresden_Mouse | Dresden_Mouse

NTA 🤷‍♀️ but time to face reality 💁‍♀️

Tanyec | Tanyec

NTA: 🗑️ get a new bf!

j_alva10 | j_alva10

Boyfriend's dinner drama 😳

RepresentativeWar429 | RepresentativeWar429

He's showing you who he is ✋

princessreybey | princessreybey

🤷‍♀️ NTA: why date someone who doesn't pay?

Dusty_mother | Dusty_mother

💸 Boyfriend won't pay? NTA!

quietly_anxious | quietly_anxious


SandrineSmiles | SandrineSmiles

NTA: 🤬Rude not to pay😤

C_Majuscula | C_Majuscula

New friends and a new bf? 😲

gofigure62 | gofigure62

🤬 Break it off with them! 🤬

0B-A-E0 | 0B-A-E0

NTA: 🤷‍♀️When will it be over?

serenasplaycousin | serenasplaycousin

Time for new friends ❤️

Weak-Housing-6738 | Weak-Housing-6738

Time to move 💔

Intelligent_Tell_841 | Intelligent_Tell_841

🤔 NTA and 💕

manlymann | manlymann

🤐 Walk away fast! 🏃‍♀️

Global_Monk_5778 | Global_Monk_5778

NTA. 💔 Dump them all!

unionmom4 | unionmom4

NTA - 💰 well spent 🙅‍♀️

Emotional-Ebb8321 | Emotional-Ebb8321

NTA: 🔥🔥🔥

Elleketel | Elleketel

👋 NTA: Pay him back, then dump him!

Deucalion666 | Deucalion666

Friendship & 💰 don't mix 🤦‍♀️

Princess-Pancake-97 | Princess-Pancake-97

🤔 NTA: A selfish bf?

TamWings | TamWings

🤷‍♀️ Know your bf's true colors!

adityarj_pazuzu | adityarj_pazuzu

Breakup alert! 🚨

Substantial-Iron5859 | Substantial-Iron5859

💔 Learn from others' experiences

Chutson909 | Chutson909

NTA - Friends and BF showed 🙅‍♀️

Flyfadz | Flyfadz

Boyfriend and friends not 👍

missrose90 | missrose90

NTA! 💸 Friends don't do that 🤔

Bright_Sea_7567 | Bright_Sea_7567

NTA - Red flags 🚩🚩🚩

confusedshifter | confusedshifter

Friendship isn't one-sided 🥰

Ok_Idea_1783 | Ok_Idea_1783

NTA: bf TA in all 🤦‍♀️ ways.

bigmamma0 | bigmamma0

NTA: bigger issues than money 💸

BlanquitaNJ1 | BlanquitaNJ1

Leaving a man who won't pay

Dapper-Letterhead630 | Dapper-Letterhead630