Did a Childhood Friend's Insensitive Remarks Push One Woman to Reject Being a Bridesmaid?

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After a childhood friend's insensitive remarks, one woman reconsidered her role as bridesmaid.

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A childhood friend's insensitive remarks may have caused one woman to reject being a bridesmaid, with the wedding just 3 weeks away.

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A childhood friend's insensitive remarks made one woman question her bridesmaid role. "Jack" and she have been together for 3 and a half years.

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A childhood friend's insensitive remarks puts one woman's bridesmaid role in jeopardy

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A childhood friend's wealth exposes painful dynamics for one woman.

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Struggles in childhood fueled a woman's decision to reject a bridesmaid invitation. 🤔

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A childhood friend's remarks pushed one woman to reevaluate her self-worth

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Mary is feeling insecure after her childhood friend Jack's comments, leading her to doubt her worthiness to be a bridesmaid.

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Friend's insensitive remarks pushed one woman to reject the bridesmaid role 😔

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Friend's insensitive remarks made one woman reconsider being a bridesmaid 😕

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A lunch gone wrong when an insensitive comment leaves one woman questioning her role as bridesmaid.

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Gary's insensitive remarks about her single life left one woman feeling uneasy and questioning her role as a bridesmaid.

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One woman was pushed to reject her childhood friend's request to be a bridesmaid after an insensitive remark

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A lunch gone wrong - what to do when a friend's remarks take an unexpected turn

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The bride-to-be called her friend to ask why she made insensitive remarks

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She tried to deny it, but could Gary's insensitive remarks be the reason why she's not a bridesmaid?

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A childhood friend's insensitive remarks led one woman to reject being a bridesmaid. 🤔

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Mary's childhood friend's insensitive remarks left her feeling conflicted and petty.

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An unexpected twist when a childhood friend finds out about a "date"!

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A childhood friend's insensitive remarks 🤯 pushed one woman to make an impulsive decision 🤔

A woman has been close friends with Mary since childhood. When Mary asked her to be a bridesmaid in her upcoming wedding, the woman hesitated due to Mary's past insensitive remarks about her relationship with her boyfriend, Jack. At lunch with Mary and her fiancé, the woman was surprised to find out that Mary had set up a double date for the both of them with Gary, a groomsman at the wedding. She was shocked by Mary's bluntness and made an impulsive decision to reject being a bridesmaid. Mary's fiancé has been texting the woman asking her to 'suck it up' for the wedding, leaving her feeling petty and conflicted. In this section, we will explore the comments and reactions of Redditors on this situation.

Don't let toxic friends bring you down! 😉

awickfield | awickfield

Friend rejects bridesmaid and 🤬insults🤬 OP! 🤔What's going on here?

Novel_Ad_7318 | Novel_Ad_7318

NTA: 🤔🤭 Mary's jealous of OP!

Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy

NTA 👎🏻 Friends don't approve when you think you can do better.

duke113 | duke113

NTA || Mary isn't a friend!

bists | bists

👊 NTA: Let her go!

aftermidnightowl890 | aftermidnightowl890

👎 NTA: Special Circumstance!

[deleted] | [deleted]

👋🏼 Bye bye 'frenemy' 👋🏼

srtmadison | srtmadison

🤔Friendship + wedding = conflict?

jmgolden33 | jmgolden33

🤔Jealousy among friends?

No-Jellyfish-1208 | No-Jellyfish-1208

👭 Friend or foe? 🤔

0biterdicta | 0biterdicta

NTA: Mary doesn't respect 🙅‍♀️

AstronomerPrevious71 | AstronomerPrevious71

No a**hole here 🤗

badassmamabear | badassmamabear

🤩 Get revenge in style!

bogo0814 | bogo0814

NTA - 💔 Friendship Over 💔

AprilL4163 | AprilL4163

NTA! 💔 Run from this 'friend'

TheUnwrittenScript | TheUnwrittenScript

Friend or bully? 🤔

nancybabitch | nancybabitch

🤔 NTA: Is the friendship worth it?

hey-demons-its-me-ya | hey-demons-its-me-ya

Friendship over? 🤔

RamenNoodles620 | RamenNoodles620

Friend's jealous remarks? 🤔

Damn_Dutchman | Damn_Dutchman

NTA, 🙅‍♀️ no more friend!

olerndurt | olerndurt

👎🏽 NTA: setting boundaries with a friend!

likeahike | likeahike

🤔 NTA: Cut 'em off!

PinkedOff | PinkedOff

NTA: 🤷‍♀️❤️️

Icy-Cold8692 | Icy-Cold8692

Too 🔥 to be a bridesmaid!

AffectionateBite3827 | AffectionateBite3827

NTA: Mary's jealous 👎🏼

IntrepidCattle4068 | IntrepidCattle4068

NTA: 🤷‍♀️ Replace bridesmaid

evelbug | evelbug

NTA 👎🏼

FrogButFroggier | FrogButFroggier

Stand your ground 💪

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NTA - 🤬😡 Time to 🚪

jverity | jverity

Friendships should 💯 build you up! 🤗

ConsistentCheesecake | ConsistentCheesecake

NTA: 🤷‍♀️ an asshat!

aeroeagleAC | aeroeagleAC

Screw Mary and her awful attitude!

valathel | valathel

NTA: Mary is 💥 not 💞

anon120 | anon120

No ⛔️ for Mary! 🚫

Cold-Release4985 | Cold-Release4985

🤬💔 NTA: Stop being her friend

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Friendship fail 😔

NewBromance | NewBromance

🤷‍♀️ NTA: Friend's Insensitivity

ksoilik | ksoilik

Cutting off a 💔 friend 🚫

SolidUpstairs | SolidUpstairs

👋 Bye, bye 👋

Peraltiago80 | Peraltiago80

NTA: 💔 Friend's insensitivity

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NTA - 🤔 Not supportive of the relationship

JachuPLxLegend | JachuPLxLegend

👎🏽 NTA! 🤦🏽‍♀️

HauntedinAutumn | HauntedinAutumn

Don't be her bridesmaid 🤔

MizzyvonMuffling | MizzyvonMuffling

NTA: 🤔 Mary in a kennel?

nicksbrunchattiffany | nicksbrunchattiffany

NTA! 🤷‍♀️ Cut off toxic people 🚫

NapalmNippleCream | NapalmNippleCream

NTA: 🤔 Think twice!

Modgud-near | Modgud-near

🤷‍♀️ Friendship on the rocks? 💔

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Cut ties with Mary 💔

R_Mack | R_Mack

NTA: 🤔 why keep a 💔friend?

FourLeafClover0 | FourLeafClover0

🙅‍♀️ Cut ties with toxic people 🙅‍♀️

MizZo2 | MizZo2

NTA: 👎 She's not a friend.

IEnjoyInsanity_UwU | IEnjoyInsanity_UwU

🤦‍♀️Friend crosses the line!

ZionBane | ZionBane

😲 NTA: Bye, Mary!

LaurenGBrown31 | LaurenGBrown31

Friend's hurtful remarks 👎🏼

totallynotalaskan | totallynotalaskan

👎🏼 NTA: Mary wants your man?

starzzfall | starzzfall

🤔 A confusing situation 🤔

trutheality | trutheality

👎 Not a true friend!

Responsible_Lawyer78 | Responsible_Lawyer78

🤔 Is Mary really a friend?

ZookeeperScar | ZookeeperScar

NTA: 🤔 jealousy or 🤐 insensitivity?

Common_Indication773 | Common_Indication773

NTA – Mary's an a**hole!

mastifftimetraveler | mastifftimetraveler

No a**hole here 🤷🏽‍♀️

Queen_Sized_Beauty | Queen_Sized_Beauty

😔 Friends don't treat each other like this!

chad_ | chad_

🤔 Cutting ties with a childhood friend 🤔

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Friendship gone wrong 🤔

2squirrelpeople | 2squirrelpeople

👋🏼 Stand up for yourself!

CODE_NAME_DUCKY | CODE_NAME_DUCKY

Friendship betrayed 💔

LivvyBumble | LivvyBumble

🤔 Distance yourself 🚫

SuggestionChemical93 | SuggestionChemical93

🎉 NTA: Throwing a lavish party!

ApprehensiveShame610 | ApprehensiveShame610