Death is a hard reality that many people fear and don’t want to face. It’s a scary thought that we don’t really know what happens after our last breath and go into an eternal sleep, but the way we deal with it is what makes it less scary. While some people surround themselves with their loved ones and have a proper funeral, others have their loved ones fighting over what words should be on their tombstones.
This online story shared on the AITA Reddit community is about a widow who marked her father’s grave with “In loving memory of John Doe, son, husband, father and adulterer”, which offended his other family members.
While many people in the comments were understanding of the situation, some wanted the author of the story to fix the gravestone.
Father’s affair and pregnancy create tension between the family and the daughter

Father’s plan to start a new life with his pregnant partner angers his family.

The tragic death of the father leaves the family in turmoil and the daughter unwilling to change his insulting gravestone

Families in turmoil as woman refuse to change insulting gravestone despite father’s relationship status

Woman refuses to change father’s insulting gravestone despite her family’s pressure

Woman refuses to change father’s insulting gravestone amid family’s disapproval

A woman refuses to change her dad’s insulting gravestone, despite his family and partner’s protests

A daughter stands her ground when her father’s family and pregnant partner disapprove of his gravestone. AITA?

A woman refuses to change her father’s insulting gravestone What should she do?
A woman’s father had a long-running affair with another married co-worker and was planning to leave her mother for her. Sadly, he passed away from a heart attack while having sex with her. To add insult to injury, her mother marked his gravestone as “In loving memory of John Doe, son, husband, father and adulterer.”
His family and the pregnant partner are now demanding she changes the gravestone. and the woman is torn between honoring her mother’s wishes and appeasing them. She wonders if she is in the wrong for refusing to change the gravestone.
Read on to see what the comments and reactions have to say about the matter .
Mom is an icon NTA Lawyers up for rights!

NTA: Stay out of it!

Mom’s a boss!

A witty take

“Checkmate”

Mom’s awesome! NTA, the problem’s closed.

NTA: Dad chose infidelity over divorce

NTA: Treat your mom

Cheating husband’s ultimate karma!

NTA. Mom’s choice has ♂️ significance.

Father’s passing and pregnancy drama ✋

NTA – A personalized memorial stone is an option.

Family drama ♀️
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A woman’s dad’s family is mad

Can I be your mom’s friend?

NTA: panty pudding

♀️ Drama and immaturity abound.

NTA: Classic!

NTA: Not Your Problem

Mom’s hurt & wants revenge, but is defacing her ex’s gravestone the answer?
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Gravely Honest

NTA. ♀️ Stay out of it.

NTA. Situation is tricky.

Grieving families, hurt feelings, and a gravestone

NTA: Let them pay to fix it ♀️
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Daughter refuses to change Dad’s insulting gravestone

Family drama ♀️
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NTA: Standing by Dad’s gravestone

No one is a**hole-free here

Karma won’t miss

Is this story real?

NTA: The truth is

Mom’s awesome!

NTA ♀️️

A meme & a coincidence?

Family drama:

NTA – no changing!

Should gravestones be censored?

NTA: Why can’t they fix it?

NTA, it’s not your !

Living life to the fullest

A grave mistake

A widow handled her husband’s death with grace and class

Mom is a !

Questioning a cruel decision

NTA!!!

Mom is a hero!
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NTA – Mom needs to grow up ♀️
