When 28F decided to make healthier choices, she wasn't expecting the reaction she got from her family. After successfully losing almost 100 lbs., she went to visit her family before her sister's wedding. But, her sister, 26F, had gained some weight and accused her of trying to upstage her. Now, the family is taking her sister's side. Is the 28F in the wrong for losing weight before her sister's wedding?
Has Losing Weight Become A Source Of Conflict In This Family?

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Weight loss is often seen as a positive thing, but can it cause conflict in a family? 28F has recently lost almost 100lbs and has come to her sister's wedding two weeks early to help out and catch up. However, her sister 26F was shocked to see her and accused her of trying to upstage her, since she had also gained some weight. Her family is now taking her sister's side. How can this family navigate this situation? Let's explore the comments and reactions to find out.
OP worked hard to lose weight, but her family accused her of being petty and delusional 😳

MaybeAWalrus | MaybeAWalrus
NTA. You didn't lose weight to upstage her 😉

nonasuch | nonasuch
🤦♀️ Toxic family? Cut 'em off!

glossyjikookbun | glossyjikookbun
Healthy lifestyle choices can create tension 🤔

PurplePenguinPoops | PurplePenguinPoops
👊🏼 OP stands tall and proud!

Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy
🤔 Is the family TA or NAH? 🤔

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NTA: Take care of yourself!

PoisonedCherry | PoisonedCherry
Negative comments & unhealthy food? 🤔

Leggoeggolas | Leggoeggolas
👏 Congrats on weight loss!

AmethysstFire | AmethysstFire
👍🏻NTA: support, not criticism

Mysterious_Damage708 | Mysterious_Damage708
NTA: Your health > her wedding!

SchnootFarms | SchnootFarms
You're not the a-hole 🤦♀️

Andante79 | Andante79
NTA! 💪🏽 A family member achieved 💯lb weight loss for her health 💗

Nikkiistar | Nikkiistar
NTA: 🤬 Family drama!

TheSciFiGuy80 | TheSciFiGuy80
NTA: Taking care of yourself💪

MB1428 | MB1428
NTA: 🤷♀️

pinguthegreek | pinguthegreek
NTA when your sis 💁♀️ tries to bring you down!

Meghnificent | Meghnificent
NTA: 🤬 Can't believe family's mad!

Constant_Camera3452 | Constant_Camera3452
Family conflict 🤔

GabrielGaryLutz | GabrielGaryLutz
NTA: Sister's accusation is 🤯

mattp44 | mattp44
😒🤔 YTA for reposting?

New_Holiday5778 | New_Holiday5778
👏👏👏 NTA for committing to major weight loss!

HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366
Sister sounds like a 🤦♀️

fords42 | fords42
NTA: You did it for you 🙌

snarkyshark83 | snarkyshark83
NTA: Sis' self-worth issue 🙅♀️

Bestkeptsecretsss | Bestkeptsecretsss
Drop the diet 🤷♀️

AllyAddams | AllyAddams
👏NTA: Losing weight an amazing achievement!

MissKrys2020 | MissKrys2020
👏👏 NTA: Celebrating 💪 Weight Loss!

Radiant-Legend | Radiant-Legend
An uplifting opinion 🤗

Sensitive-Bird2900 | Sensitive-Bird2900
You're not an a-hole⭐

craptinamerica | craptinamerica
NTA! 💁♀️

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NTA: Parents lack of support is 🤬🤬

heatheroo83 | heatheroo83
NTA and congrats on 💪🏼 healthy choices 👏🏼

coolgrin1860 | coolgrin1860
YTA or NTA? 🤔

Kingdedede4prez | Kingdedede4prez
Living life and 💪 losing weight ✌️

Gigibean3 | Gigibean3
NTA: 🤬Congrats on 💪weight loss!

Alarmed-Hamster-4047 | Alarmed-Hamster-4047
NTA: Bride's self-centeredness ≠ life choices

Keg-Of-Glory | Keg-Of-Glory
🤩 Congratulations on your weight loss!

Madame_Corleone420 | Madame_Corleone420
NTA! 👎😡

currymommymilkers | currymommymilkers
NTA: 🤷🏻♂️Stay unhealthy? No way 🙅🏻♀️

Harbard12732 | Harbard12732
👏NTA - Support from family

Ok-Entrepreneur61 | Ok-Entrepreneur61
Healthy Change ✔️, Unhealthy Conflict 🚫

iKenzii | iKenzii
NTA: You're in the clear 💯

Jeffinmpls | Jeffinmpls
Healthy lifestyle choices 💪

Saraqael_Rising | Saraqael_Rising
👏 Congrats on the healthy lifestyle!

justyikes1 | justyikes1
NTA! 🤮 Family is out of line

-Little_Gremlin- | -Little_Gremlin-
Losing weight: source of conflict?

IBeTrippin | IBeTrippin
NTA: sister's response is inexcusable 🤬

sexybeast1146 | sexybeast1146
NTA 🤦♀️🤦♂️

mzpljc | mzpljc
Not the a-hole ✔️ Celebrating health!

LingonberryPrior6896 | LingonberryPrior6896
👏 Supporting healthy choices!

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