Bride Has To ‘Kick’ One Of Her Bridesmaids Out To Make Room For The Last Minute Invite, Confusion Ensues

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A wedding is one of the biggest celebrations in a person’s life. You need to plan it carefully so everything will go well and the guests will have a great time. And if you want a big celebration, you need to choose who will be in your wedding party because it’s not enough for just you and your partner to celebrate.

Having bridesmaids and groomsmen makes the weddings look like something from a movie, but not everyone has them. It’s up to the couple how big their wedding party is going to be.

This woman on Reddit prepared for a big celebration and had six bridesmaids. But then because of certain circumstances, she did not have her sister-in-law as a guest and that meant she did not have a spot in the wedding party. So the woman came up with an idea to include her in another way, by asking one of her bridesmaids to give up their spot so the sister-in-law could be a bridesmaid.

That led to drama among the bridesmaids and now the woman is asking if she was responsible for it, wondering if asking one of the bridesmaids to step down was wrong. Here's how the full story unfolded.

Last minute invite leads to unexpected wedding drama! 🤯

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The bride has to choose between her two friends to make room for a last-minute invite, but her solution creates confusion

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Bride 'kicks out' bridesmaid to make room for last-min invite, causing confusion & debate among bridesmaids 🤯

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Confusion erupts when a bridesmaid is ‘kicked’ out to make room for an unexpected guest. 😮

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Cassie was kicked out of the bridal party to make room for the last-minute invite, causing confusion amongst the wedding party and their families. AITA? 🤔

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Bride forced to “kick” bridesmaid out to make room for last-minute invite, causing confusion and hard feelings

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A wedding with conflicting views 👰🤦🏽‍♀️ What would you do?

It's only a couple of months until an upcoming wedding, but the bride and her fiance are now dealing with an unexpected situation. The bride's fiance had another sister, Anne (31 F), who wasn't invited to the wedding originally due to family issues but has now received a last-minute invite.

However, the couple only had room for six bridesmaids, so the bride asked one of the bridesmaids, her cousin Cassie (25F), to step down in order to make room for Anne. Cassie seemed confused by the request, and the other bridesmaids suggested that the bride apologizes to Cassie.

Some of the bride's family think she handled the situation correctly, but her mother had a different opinion. This leaves the bride wondering if she did the right thing. Let's hear the reactions and comments from our readers on the thread to see what they think.

OP scrapes bottom of the barrel 😳

dolomike_824 | dolomike_824

YTA: 🤬😳 Bridesmaids & 🤝family before 🤔 last minute 🤝 🤮

Sk111W | Sk111W

Screwed up wedding plans😡

CommunicationOdd9406 | CommunicationOdd9406

Cousin's shock & disappointment 😱

jobrummy | jobrummy

The Bride's 🤬move😡

Samael13 | Samael13

Bride *kicks* bridesmaid out for last minute invite 🙁

Holiday_Eggplant_937 | Holiday_Eggplant_937

YTA: 🤦‍♀️ seven bridesmaids instead!

Bellbell28 | Bellbell28

YTA!👎 Bridesmaids are not disposable

janewilson90 | janewilson90

Telling it like it is 🤔

happybanana134 | happybanana134

Cassie has been involuntarily replaced - 🤔 🤔 🤔

Djiniii_123 | Djiniii_123

Bride kicks out bridesmaid 😱

youshewewumbo | youshewewumbo

👤 YTA: Bride 🧹 Treats Bridesmaids as 🗑️ Disposable?

jrm1102 | jrm1102

Are consequences inevitable?

Darkwingduck48 | Darkwingduck48

When life gives you a🍋, don't kick it away! 😉

xLostandAfraidx | xLostandAfraidx

Bride kicks out bridesmaid 😲

Lenethren | Lenethren

YTA: kicking out a bridesmaid!

mm172 | mm172

Bride's last minute decision 🤔

sarilly | sarilly

‍♀️ YTA: Cousin's feelings ignored for superficial invitee.

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🤦 Bride kicks out bridesmaid for last minute family invite, but is the a**hole? 🤔

Ok_Site9042 | Ok_Site9042

Bride *kicks* bridesmaid😮

Ok-Pair9188 | Ok-Pair9188

🤦‍♀️ Bride kicks out bridesmaid at the last minute!

photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach

The bride's burning 🔥 bridges?

Flier982 | Flier982

YTA drama unfolds 😱

sr9876 | sr9876

People aren't happy 😞

Rare-Affect-8040 | Rare-Affect-8040

The bride has a tough decision!

ChilindriPizza | ChilindriPizza

🤷 Bride’s Last-Minute Changes

grumpyspudgal | grumpyspudgal

A shocking wedding drama 🤯

LowArtichoke6440 | LowArtichoke6440

Bride kicks out ⁉️

Edbtdb | Edbtdb

The bride asks a bridesmaid to leave the wedding party 🤔

Bgnpm | Bgnpm

What a drama! 😱

Mackymcmcmac | Mackymcmcmac

😰 Difficult situation!

Dadbot1001 | Dadbot1001

😠 Bride kicks out bridesmaid

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Bride 'kicks' out bridesmaid 😱

Sel-Reddit | Sel-Reddit

Bride has to choose between two 👰 but one might not be so innocent 🤔

punkrockscience | punkrockscience

The bride is 👎🏽for kicking out a bridesmaid!

Lopsided_Sweatshirt | Lopsided_Sweatshirt

YTA: Bride’s last-minute 🤔

Busy_Leader3979 | Busy_Leader3979

Bride replaces bridesmaids 😱

OkBoss3435 | OkBoss3435

Bride kicks bridesmaid out🤭

friendly_cub | friendly_cub

Fuming bridesmaid 🤬

Drewherondale | Drewherondale

YTA: bridesmaid booted to make room for late invite 😟

GratificationNOW | GratificationNOW

Bride leaving a cousin out 🤷‍♀️

HeavyGogs | HeavyGogs

Friendship betrayal 👎🏼

StunnedinTheSuburbs | StunnedinTheSuburbs

🤬 YTA! Bride not thinking things through.

Anizziepluto | Anizziepluto

Bride ‘kicks out’ bridesmaid. 😮

Ducky818 | Ducky818

The bride makes an uncomfortable decision 🤔

Trick-Panda-7509 | Trick-Panda-7509

A Bride's Last-Minute Choice⏱

Trouble_in_Mind | Trouble_in_Mind

🤔What's up with the number 7?

bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo

Bride says YTA 🤔

Puzzleheaded_4779 | Puzzleheaded_4779

Bride ‘kicking’ bridesmaid out 😱

Kittyxstorm | Kittyxstorm

Facts are 💯! 🤔

ArbitraryAngelfish | ArbitraryAngelfish