Male Colleague Accuses Female Colleague Who Left Her Wedding Ring At Home Of Being ‘Misleading’ And ‘Leading Him On’

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There are a lot of reasons why people decide not to wear their wedding rings. Some don’t want to draw unnecessary attention, others don’t like their fingers being covered in metal, and some just don’t want to clean them after each use. Whatever your reasoning is, people will either notice you don’t have a ring or they’ll assume you are single because there are no other reasons for you not wearing a ring. And that might cause some unwanted attention. A married woman recently came to the “Am I The A**Hole?” subreddit to ask if she was the jerk for not informing her coworker that she is married after he kept hitting on her. She had left the ring at home because of skin issues, but that didn’t stop her coworker, “Morgan,” from sending her inappropriate photos and calling her a liar when she told him she has a husband.

A female coworker “F30” is accused of "misleading" and "leading on" her male colleague "Morgan" because she left her wedding ring at home 💍

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He wasn't as respectful as he seemed, leading his female colleague to feel 'misled' and 'led on'

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He offered her lunch and internet, but she asked him to stop when she felt like it was too much

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A male colleague accused a female colleague of "misleading" and "leading him on" after she mentioned that she was married.

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Husband pulls a smooth move to protect his wife from her male coworker who sent her inappropriate messages.

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A male colleague accused the female colleague of "leading him on" after she forgot her wedding ring at home.

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The male colleague was accused of trying to 'enforce a relationship' with the married female colleague

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Did this woman owe her coworkers an explanation for not wearing her wedding ring? AITA?

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An explanation why a female coworker left her wedding ring at home gets misconstrued 🤦‍♀️

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Female colleague *accused* of being “misleading” and “leading on” male colleague 🤔

A recent workplace controversy has sparked a debate over appropriate workplace behavior. A married female colleague (F30) was approached by a male colleague (Morgan) who offered to buy her lunch and internet access, in addition to sending her inappropriate memes and photos. When it was revealed to him that she was married, he accused her of being “misleading” and “leading him on” since she wasn’t wearing her wedding ring.

Other coworkers defended her, calling Morgan an “asshole”, while the female colleague maintained that she didn’t owe anyone an explanation and refused to apologize. The post has raised questions about the appropriateness of Morgan’s behavior and the responsibility of the married female colleague to set boundaries in the workplace. Now, let’s hear what the internet had to say about this situation!

NTA! 🚨 Go to HR immediately 🚨

UsernameTaken93456 | UsernameTaken93456

🤬No a**hole here!🤬

Kris82868 | Kris82868

NTA: Report him to HR!

Freakin_Merida88 | Freakin_Merida88

Stalking & sexual har***ment! ✋

mugofanxitea | mugofanxitea

NTA: 🤦‍♂️ No one is responsible for wearing a wedding ring 💍 🤷‍♀️

Decent_Ad6389 | Decent_Ad6389

😂NTA but arson?!

quokka_mocha | quokka_mocha

NTA✊ Husband has 🔥response!

ElevatorOk8601 | ElevatorOk8601

NTA, HR needs to be involved 😤

Amazing-Passage7576 | Amazing-Passage7576

😱 Male colleague accused of harassment 😱

Throw77away77name | Throw77away77name

NTA: Coworker creepy 🤮

FutureCollar9807 | FutureCollar9807

👀NTA calls out👉🏿 obnoxious colleague✊🏽

LargeRegularCoffee | LargeRegularCoffee

🤯 File a 🚨sexual harassment🚨 complaint! 💯 NTA

Sugar_Weasel_ | Sugar_Weasel_

😱 Can you believe it?!

KimmyStand | KimmyStand

🤬 NTA: Report the man!

Tiny_European | Tiny_European

👎 Don't sexually harass women!

ScienceNotKids | ScienceNotKids

NTA 🤦‍♀️

runedued | runedued

NTA: Respect her boundaries!


👉 Don't suffer a**holes 👈

Realistic-Nebula5961 | Realistic-Nebula5961

NTA: don't let 'AH's try to put * on you!

tatasz | tatasz

NTA! 🤯 Married people don't have to wear rings 💍

tomtink1 | tomtink1

NTA! Inappropriate behavior 😡

Jemma_2 | Jemma_2


thewhiterosequeen | thewhiterosequeen


kjbtetrick | kjbtetrick

Women don't owe 🤦‍♂️

ohnosandpeople | ohnosandpeople

🤬 No more 🍆 pics! 🤦‍♀️

Diloc | Diloc

NTA: No excuses for 🙅‍♂️ Sexual Harassment!

TRoseee | TRoseee

NTA: Report to HR!

bobbywac | bobbywac

No a-hole here 😊

jadepumpkin1984 | jadepumpkin1984

NTA - what a legend 😂

bunkbedgirl1989 | bunkbedgirl1989

Boundary crossing 🛑🚫

Signal-Television510 | Signal-Television510

NTA. Morgan is a niceguy🤦‍♂️

dlabsx | dlabsx

A clear case of NTA 👮‍♂️

DameofDames | DameofDames

😱 NTA: Don't Wear A Ring!

erstwhilecockatoo | erstwhilecockatoo

Should she go to HR?

ElChapulin2099 | ElChapulin2099

NTA 🤦‍♀️ 🤮

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NTA: report him 💥

Griffinsforest | Griffinsforest

Harassment in the workplace 🤯

evelbug | evelbug

Op is considering 📢 HR for sexual harassment 📢

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't tolerate sexual harassment! 😡

goldentealcushion | goldentealcushion

💔 "Nice guy" disregarded boundaries

Evil_Mel | Evil_Mel

No a**hole here 🙅‍♀️

rainyreminder | rainyreminder

No-one deserves this 🤯

Old-Poet6587 | Old-Poet6587

🔥 NTA says report it!

Lilkiska2 | Lilkiska2

🤦‍♀️ NTA: Report him

zingingcutie35 | zingingcutie35

Woman facing unfair remarks 🤬

Similar_Pineapple418 | Similar_Pineapple418

NTA: don't 🤐 🤔 HR 🤝

BCphoton | BCphoton

A woman's refusal should be respected ✋

Ready_Manager4703 | Ready_Manager4703

👀 Random colleague sends 🍆 pics? 🤯

clarenoelledaly | clarenoelledaly

🚨Sexual harassment alert🚨

3113dm | 3113dm

NTA: Report Male Colleague 💔

Tiffykins1234 | Tiffykins1234

Sexual harassment 👎

xinglay | xinglay

NTA on reporting 🚨

messgonemad | messgonemad

NTA ✊: She said no, but he still escalated 🚫

somethingclever1712 | somethingclever1712

Token of ❤️ sets off assault 🚫

QuackLikeMe | QuackLikeMe

Don't forget to ⚠️ report!

modelling_but_data | modelling_but_data

NTA! 🤔 *Aggressive a**hole* needs HR attention 🤬

popoutzombie | popoutzombie

👿NTA: “Don't tolerate harassment!”

Ghandis_Flipflop129 | Ghandis_Flipflop129

NTA: A💍 isn't req'd to respect🙅‍♂️

PacifistWarFreak | PacifistWarFreak

🤦‍♀️NTA: It's their choice!

WhiteJadedButterfly | WhiteJadedButterfly

NTA: NO means NO 🚫

holisarcasm | holisarcasm

Harassment & Sexual Assault? 😱

inego1995 | inego1995

No wrong doing 🤷‍♂️

MiruTheSloth | MiruTheSloth

NTA: no, no, no!

WineAndDogs2020 | WineAndDogs2020

NTA: 🤦‍♀️ Not an invitation!

koekieNL | koekieNL

Protect yourself: 🚨 NTA 🚨

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No a**hole here! 🙅‍♀️

thumpmyponcho | thumpmyponcho

NTA - he's sexually harassing you! 😡

themeganlodon | themeganlodon

🤔 Toxic workplace drama!

davidgarner77 | davidgarner77

Yikes! 🤨

KaidsCousin | KaidsCousin

NTA! Respect🤝Availability✅

LotusSpread4Dayz | LotusSpread4Dayz

🤔🤨 HR Report Incoming! 🤔🤨

Solidus27 | Solidus27

Victim blaming 👎 HR needs to know!

dianaprince2022 | dianaprince2022

Women deserve workplace safety😠

Xsiah | Xsiah

NTA! Protect yourself 👊

SciFiChickie | SciFiChickie

🤦‍♀️NTA: No one owes him anything!🚫

Brutally_honest_peep | Brutally_honest_peep


pessimistfalife | pessimistfalife

NTA 🙅‍♀️ Respect isn't conditional on marital status

bluebell435 | bluebell435