Bride-To-Be Notices Her Fiancé Returned Her Custom Wedding Dress And Replaced It With His Mother’s Choice, Loses It

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According to researchers, the average wedding costs about $30,000 to $40,000. In fact, buying a wedding dress is one of the most expensive parts of the whole celebration, costing more than $2,000 on average. And believe it or not, brides actually lose sleep over what to choose and think about this very serious decision for years. Many couples budget for their dress, so the bride doesn’t want to get it wrong and wind up being regretful. You can probably imagine how annoyed and offended this bride was when her fiancé returned her chosen dress and replaced it with another one that his mom chose as she “always pictured her son’s bride in it.” As you can predict, this was a huge conflict between the bride and her future family and they are still at odds because of it. This Redditor shared her story, asking people whether she was right to lose her temper, no matter what the circumstances were. Here is what she wrote.

Bride-to-be notices her fiancé replaced her custom wedding dress with his mom's choice, causing tension

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Bride-To-Be feeling stuck between fiance and his mother's different wedding plans 😔

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The bride-to-be found her perfect dress, but her fiancé's mother had a different "vision" in mind!

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Bride-to-be was not impressed 😯 when fiancé returned her chosen wedding dress and replaced it with his mother's choice

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Fiancé replaced custom dress with mom's choice, bride not impressed 🤬

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Bride-to-be faces dilemma between expressing own desires and preserving family harmony 🤔

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Bride-to-be finds her fiancé replaced her custom wedding dress with his mom's choice, drama ensues 😩

A bride-to-be was presented with a dramatic surprise when she found out her fiancé had returned her custom wedding dress and replaced it with his mother's choice. The couple had been planning their wedding for some time, with his mother providing input on all of the details, but it seemed even his fiancée's choice of wedding dress wouldn't be exempt. After the bride-to-be refused his mother's dress, her fiance returned it and replaced it without her knowledge, causing arguments and drama in the lead-up to the wedding. Will the couple be able to come to an understanding before the wedding or will they be stuck in a stand-off? Let’s take a look at what the internet has to say in the comments and reactions.

Bride-to-be 👰 calls off wedding?

CaptainPatent | CaptainPatent

NTA:🏃 Run from the️️ conflict!

[deleted] | [deleted]

🤷‍♀️ NTA for the groom's mom

alisong89 | alisong89

🤪 Exchange wedding suit for clown outfit?!

RatioNo1114 | RatioNo1114

Run away from this🏃‍♀️

Peasplease25 | Peasplease25

👀 Fiancé siding with MIL over kids?

JoshDunkley | JoshDunkley

Bride-to-be 🤔 shocked by fiancé and his mom's audacity!

Prudent_Border5060 | Prudent_Border5060

👰🏻🤵🏼 NTA: wedding canceled!

oddpolyglot | oddpolyglot

NTA! 🤬 Run away! 🏃‍♀️

IAmHerdingCatz | IAmHerdingCatz

Molly, you're in serious danger 🚨

JBB2002902 | JBB2002902

👉 NTA. Don't let gaslighting stop you! 🚫

wittiestphrase | wittiestphrase

Bride-to-be faced with an ultimatum 🤭

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't let someone else control your wedding ✋

Wordsmaybeenglish | Wordsmaybeenglish

🚩Bride-to-be notices odd behavior from fiancé + mother🚩

sylance9 | sylance9

🤯 NTA: fiance's maternal interference isn't OK

TracyMinOB | TracyMinOB

🤔 Is the groom already married to his mother?

gailyd_75 | gailyd_75

NTA: 🤷 Don't marry him!

12thMemory | 12thMemory

Not The A**hole 🤔

timespassing_ | timespassing_

🤯 Cancel the wedding!

bestcoastcraft | bestcoastcraft

⚠️ Fiancé's mom wants a three-person marriage ⚠️

madelinegumbo | madelinegumbo

NTA: 💔 Deal breaker alert!

old_arkansas_gamer | old_arkansas_gamer

😢 Heartbreaking story of 👰🤵 priorities.

CakeEatingRabbit | CakeEatingRabbit

NTA 🚨 Break Up 🚨

General_Relative2838 | General_Relative2838

Bride-to-be's 😤😬 reaction🤔

dyllandor | dyllandor

NTA: 🚩Run away🚩

BlissfullyKnowhere | BlissfullyKnowhere

Bride-to-be notices her fiancé's lack of respect and steamrolling of her desires 👀

CreativeGPX | CreativeGPX

Skeletons in the closet 😨

Vehemor | Vehemor

Run away from this man! 🚨

Most_Duck4260 | Most_Duck4260

Bride-to-be loses it 🤯

Pretty_Heart_467 | Pretty_Heart_467

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do 💔

barrone1000 | barrone1000

NTA: A huge red flag 🚩🚩🚩

Superb_Programmer127 | Superb_Programmer127

Runfast! 💨 🏃 #opinion #weddingdress

DenizenKay | DenizenKay

Run away 😱

KnittingforHouselves | KnittingforHouselves

NTA: He's ❌ proxy marrying his mom 🤨

pm_me_ur_throbbing_D | pm_me_ur_throbbing_D

Run far, run fast 🏃‍♂️

Fractionleftattract | Fractionleftattract

Welcome to a sneak preview of your married life. 😳

anthony___fell | anthony___fell

🚩 Biggest Red Flag Alert! 🚩

jwjnthrowawaykfeiofj | jwjnthrowawaykfeiofj

Don't marry a man who would do this 🤷‍♀️

RaysUnderwater | RaysUnderwater

She thought it was forever, but he showed her true colors.

MisachuHawke | MisachuHawke

In a relationship Rut? 🤔

Shells613 | Shells613

😮Dump him! 💔

CompleteInsect8373 | CompleteInsect8373

NTA: Don't marry him 👎

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Bride-to-be 🤦 🤷‍♀️ returns fiance's custom dress 🤔

The_final_frontier_ | The_final_frontier_

What would you do in this 🤔?

NtlDerpFoundation | NtlDerpFoundation

Bride-To-Be Heeds Warning 🚫

lowri92 | lowri92

Marrying this man? 🤔

Notsogoodadvicegiver | Notsogoodadvicegiver

❌Don't marry him!❌

ladylyrande | ladylyrande

👰 Exchange the dress or 🛑 Calling it off? 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Bride-to-be 🤦🏻‍♀️: NTA 🏃‍♀️

christina0001 | christina0001

🤔 NTA. Fiancé trying to please mom?

jwrx | jwrx

NTA: Time to 🏃‍♀️?

Smitty_80013 | Smitty_80013

Yikes! 💔 Don't marry him.

Darth-Vader17 | Darth-Vader17

Fiancé choosing mom over bride 👎

[deleted] | [deleted]

Run, girl, run! 🏃‍♀️

Major_Barnacle_2212 | Major_Barnacle_2212

Run away🏃‍♂️ NTA: He's showing his true colors.

JukeboxTears | JukeboxTears

Run away from this 🏃‍♀️

21stCenturyJanes | 21stCenturyJanes

NTA! 🚨 Major red flags 🚨

[deleted] | [deleted]

🚩A warning to run!

Lea_R_ning | Lea_R_ning

A**hole Alert! 🚨

[deleted] | [deleted]

⚠️👉🏽 Don't marry him! 👈🏽⚠️

Powerful-Adventurer | Powerful-Adventurer

Girl, watch out for your ex 🤦‍♀️

unknown_928121 | unknown_928121

The son 🤦‍♂️ should return to mummy 😤

Reasonable-Rich6650 | Reasonable-Rich6650

Bride-to-be 🤬 when her fiancé replaced her custom wedding dress with his mother's choice 🤦🏻‍♀️

alien_overlord_1001 | alien_overlord_1001

Don't do it! 🚨

Admirable-Frog-3748 | Admirable-Frog-3748

NTA✊🏼👗 Burn it at the altar!

LtTempest7 | LtTempest7

🤔 rethink marriage?

Extension-Guess5911 | Extension-Guess5911

NTA: 🚩✋Marrying this man means regret, frustration, & gaslighting.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Momma's boy alert😱

AlarmedAlbatross2350 | AlarmedAlbatross2350

Bride-to-be 🤦‍♀️😮

Nelly_WM | Nelly_WM

OP's fiancé stole her wedding dress😱

HavePlushieWillTalk | HavePlushieWillTalk

Leave or 💔❓

Tight-Background-252 | Tight-Background-252

🤦‍♀️ NTA, but only if you don't stay

emzbobo | emzbobo

Time ⏰ to run! 🏃‍♀️

harleybidness | harleybidness

🤔NTA: pre-wedding warning?

Much_Ad7595 | Much_Ad7595

Sometimes, it's time to 🏃‍♂️!

Ok_Candy7966 | Ok_Candy7966

Bride-to-be faces a 🤔 choice!

DisasterMouse | DisasterMouse

🤦‍♀️❌ NTA: Don't marry him!

agentWallflower | agentWallflower

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