Uncomfortable Experiences Teen Show Actors Went Through On Set

Sarah Kester
Sam and Cat
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Being a teen star isn’t as glamorous as Hollywood makes it out to be. There are a fair share of drawbacks, including immense pressure at a young age, money tearing families apart, and more. 

As adults now, more and more former teen stars are speaking out about the uncomfortable experiences they went through on set, and with the adults that were supposed to protect them. 

Jennette McCurdy, one of the stars of Nickelodeon shows, 'ICarly' and 'Sam & Cat' has been sharing candid truths about the price of fame recently. 

Jennette McCurdy by locker
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In her memoir, aptly titled, I’m Glad My Mom Died, she discussed the physical and emotional abuse she endured from her mother, Debbie, who died of cancer in 2013. 

"My mom had always dreamt of being a famous actor and she became obsessed with making me a star," McCurdy said.

While she was painfully shy at the time, she went to the auditions to “keep the peace" in her dysfunctional family.

Her mother’s grip on her eventually led her to start an eating disorder. 

Debbie would bleach her daughter's hair and whiten her teeth at 10 years old and even started making her calorie count at the age of 11.

When she was 17, Debbie insisted on performing vaginal and breast exams and didn’t let her daughter shower alone. 

Her time on set wasn’t much better. She recounted troubling experiences with an unnamed person called “The Creator.” This is widely assumed to be Dan Schneider. 

In her memoir, Jennette claimed that The Creator pressured her with alcohol when she was 14 and gave her a shoulder massage against her wishes. 

She also said that she was offered $300,000 of “hush money” from Nickelodeon to prevent her from speaking out about her experiences on the network. She declined.

Other teen stars have been open about their traumatic experiences on set. 

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Everyone and their cousin have been rewatching The O.C. lately due to the seasons streaming on Amazon Prime. But all people will see is a rich, breezy California lifestyle. 

They won’t see the toxic environment some actors faced, like Mischa Barton, who started on the show when she was 18. 

Mischa on The O.C.
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"I've always felt ashamed in a way to really talk about what went on behind the scenes because I've always been a very private person and very aware of people's feelings," Barton said in a 2021 interview with E! News.

When her character was killed off in Season Three, the world was shocked.

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But Mischa said that talk of this started very early on, as did the bullying that she faced from some of the men on set that felt "really [expletive]."

Racial issues weren't dealt with on TV sets back then.

In 2020, Trina McGee who played Angela on Boy Meets World shared the nasty comments she received from her cast members.

She later revealed that it was Will Friedle who called her "Aunt Jemima," but that he had apologized in a three-page letter.

Another popular teen show in the early '00's 'One Tree Hill,' had its fair share of problems.

Cast of One Tree Hill
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In 2017, the cast and crew penned an open letter, alleging that showrunner Mark Schwahn was psychologically, emotionally, and sexually abusive. "More than one of us is still in treatment for post-traumatic stress," they wrote.

Sophia Bush, who played Brooke, summed up why it was so hard to open up about these issues back then.

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"We were in our early 20s playing high school kids, but we didn’t know anything. We were babies," she told Barstool Sports' Chicks in the Office podcast.

"We didn’t get to grow up on a set where people wanted to answer our questions or help us navigate any of the madness of the early aughts. ... We were kind of looked at as pawns. We had grown-ups who we trusted, who now we understand were being really controlling and manipulative."

No one deserves to go through that, that's for sure.