Unless we're very closer to a soon-to-be-married couple, it's hard to tell how a wedding will go until we actually get there.
But without meaning to, some couples will get aggressive or greedy enough in their messages before the big day that they warn us about how miserable of a time we're about to have. And as we've seen time and time again, that goes double for those in the wedding party.
However, not everyone is so unintentionally revealing and they'll be able to slip an obvious turn-off past us after we've already responded to the invite.
Of course, we're about to see that devious moves like these are a little lacking in the "evil genius" department judging by how badly a galling request turned out for one bridezilla.