Disabled GF Left Behind on Family Vacation - Fair or FOUL? 🤔😠

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🏕️ Get ready for a wild ride of family drama in the great outdoors! 🌿 One dad's love for hiking and camping clashes with his son's girlfriend's mobility challenges. 🚶‍♀️🦽 Will accommodations be made or will stubbornness prevail? 😬 Buckle up, because this family vacation is about to get bumpy! 🎢😅

🏕️ A Family's Love for Camping and Hiking! 🌿

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😊 Bonding with Emma and Mike in the Great Outdoors! 🌄

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🚶‍♀️ Jenny's Mobility Challenges 🦽

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🏖️ A Family Beach Getaway! 🌊

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🥾 Announcing the Exciting Hiking Plans! 🗺️

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😕 Mike's Request for Accommodation 🙏

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🥾 Sticking to the Original Hiking Plan 🌿

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🤔 Pointing Out the Other Non-Hikers 👥

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🤷‍♂️ Agreeing to Disagree 🙅‍♂️

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😶 The Silent Treatment from Mike and Jenny 🙊

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🤷‍♂️ AITA for Sticking to My Hiking Plans? 🌄

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🏖️ Beach Trip Turns into Family Feud! 😬

This family beach getaway quickly turned into a battle of wills! 😱 The hiking-loving dad wanted to hit the trails, but his son's mobility-challenged girlfriend felt left out. 😢 Despite pointing out that others weren't hiking either, the dad stuck to his plans. 🥾 Cue the silent treatment from the son and girlfriend! 😶 When the dad suggested a car-accessible beach, his son accused him of having some nerve! 😲 The rest of the family wisely stayed out of the drama. 🙈 So, what does the internet think of this sticky situation? 🤔 Let's dive into the juiciest reactions! 🍿😋

Supportive comment defends son's girlfriend's exclusion from family activity. 👍

muonSec | muonSec

User defends OP and calls out Mike and Jenny's entitlement. 💪

Quick-Possession-245 | Quick-Possession-245

Family vacations involve doing things together and separately, NTA.

Innerouterself2 | Innerouterself2

GF shouldn't expect others to stop doing things for her

Adventurous-travel1 | Adventurous-travel1

Different activities on vacation, girlfriend had options. NTA 👍

KikiMadeCrazy | KikiMadeCrazy

Son's attitude ruins vacation for disabled girlfriend 😢

ADHDQueenMelady | ADHDQueenMelady

Mike excluded disabled GF, blamed OP when she complained. NTA 👏

facinationstreet | facinationstreet

Having physical limitations doesn't mean others need to stop living 🙏

Ihateyou1975 | Ihateyou1975

Defending disabled GF: commenter says NTA, calls out selfishness. 💪

Illustrious_Law_484 | Illustrious_Law_484

Creative compromise suggested to entitled family - not the a-hole

COLGkenny | COLGkenny

Agreeing to separate plans on vacation is acceptable. NTA 👍

WelfordNelferd | WelfordNelferd

NTA comment defends son and Jenny in fair vacation dilemma

Lunar-Eclipse0204 | Lunar-Eclipse0204

Independence on vacation: NTA for splitting off for a day! 🏝️

OkeyDokey654 | OkeyDokey654

Engaging with entitled behavior on vacation. 🤔

Mentalcomposer | Mentalcomposer

Not the a-hole defends decision to exclude disabled GF.

WyomingVet | WyomingVet

NTA prioritizes physical activity, but Mike wants to relax 😠

Petefriend86 | Petefriend86

Choosing vacation spots is your right. NTA 👍

Otherwise-Pirate6839 | Otherwise-Pirate6839

Son's girlfriend left behind on vacation, commenters support NTA parent.

Anizziepluto | Anizziepluto

Sibling drama and a fair judgement - NTA 🙋🏻‍♀️

porkypandas | porkypandas

Fair or foul? NTA wanted to stick to plans despite limitations. 👍

GiannaGeranium | GiannaGeranium

Enjoying a hike with others doesn't make you an a-hole 😌

Remember1959 | Remember1959

Empathy lacking? NTA comment stands alone for disabled GF

Aromatic-Creme-2128 | Aromatic-Creme-2128

Including everyone in family activities - fair or unreasonable? 🙂

mlc885 | mlc885

Inclusive compromise or unfair exclusion? 🤔😠

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Leaving disabled GF behind on family vacation - Not cool 😕

Shai7809 | Shai7809

Empowering NTA comment encourages independence and self-sufficiency 💪

patters1079 | patters1079

Disabled GF is the AH for trying to exclude family 😒

_A-Q | _A-Q

Son's attitude towards disabled girlfriend unfair, NTA for going snorkeling

Just_Here_TimePass | Just_Here_TimePass

Red flags raised over girlfriend's unreasonable demands 🚩

Adorable-Answer5288 | Adorable-Answer5288

User defends NTA judgement in disability vacation debacle. 💪

SierraWells | SierraWells

Harsh comment suggests GF should accept exclusion from family events 😔

SignoreDano | SignoreDano

Passionate hiker defends their preference for secluded camping. NTA.

Tomboyish717 | Tomboyish717

Accommodating disability on vacation - NTA 👍

cheeseburgerwaffles | cheeseburgerwaffles

Insensitive comment disregarding disabled person's feelings. 😠

Odd_Calligrapher_932 | Odd_Calligrapher_932

Insensitive comment dismisses disabled GF's needs 😠

Strange_Butterfly837 | Strange_Butterfly837

Confusion over GF's obligation to dad sparks frustration 🤔

rlrlrlrlrlr | rlrlrlrlrlr

Inviting disabled GF on group trip - fair or foul? NTA

WholeAd2742 | WholeAd2742

Son should have organized separate trip for disabled GF. NTA 👍

DoIwantToKnow6417 | DoIwantToKnow6417

Vacation planning can't cater to one person, NTA 👍

Mustng1966 | Mustng1966

Setting boundaries can be healthy for relationships 👍

MollyOMalley99 | MollyOMalley99

Don't let others dictate your vacation plans. NTA 😊

JSmellerM | JSmellerM

Trail over beach, NTA. Son and GF created unnecessary drama. 👍

wildmishie | wildmishie

Disabled woman excluded from vacation, commenter calls out selfish behavior 👏

LawNerds | LawNerds

Girlfriend excluded from family vacation - commenter says NTA.

perfectpomelo3 | perfectpomelo3

One day of vacation without disabled GF is fair. NTA 👍

Aggravating_Meat2101 | Aggravating_Meat2101

Learning to compromise vs stubbornness - parenting advice. 👍

Argorian17 | Argorian17

Son needs to step up and accommodate his disabled girlfriend 🤔

Dazzling_Note6245 | Dazzling_Note6245

NTA. In-laws shouldn't cater to every whim. Red flag situation. 👍

screamqueen57 | screamqueen57

Leaving disabled GF behind on hike - NTA

Own_Lack_4526 | Own_Lack_4526

Son should take girlfriend to the beach, NTA for not joining.

ILoveLemonHeads | ILoveLemonHeads

Disability weaponization backlash from commenter - NTA.

a1b3c3d7 | a1b3c3d7

GF's negative attitude towards family vacation raises red flags 😠

Artistic-Blackberry9 | Artistic-Blackberry9

Don't let one person hold back the whole group. NTA 👍

Odd_Yogurtcloset2891 | Odd_Yogurtcloset2891

Spouse planned hike, disabled GF left out - NTA or FOUL? 😠

ConfectionExtra7869 | ConfectionExtra7869

GF called childish for spoiling vacation plans. 😑

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

Son's entitlement ruins family vacation for disabled GF 😒

misskittygirl13 | misskittygirl13

Including a disabled person in every plan isn't feasible. 🙏

FishScrumptious | FishScrumptious

Partner's physical limitations cause conflict on family vacation ⚠️

elfbentovertheshelf | elfbentovertheshelf

Embracing physical limitations with grace and maturity 👏

Sorry-Instance8611 | Sorry-Instance8611

Vacation should be enjoyable for everyone, NTA.

verminiusrex | verminiusrex

Partner's disability requires compromises, NTA for accommodating but family drama. 👍

sarahmegatron | sarahmegatron

Partner's family excludes disabled GF from vacation activities. NTA.

PhatCatOnThaTrack | PhatCatOnThaTrack

Including disabled GF in every activity is not always reasonable. NTA.

MerryMoose923 | MerryMoose923

Respect boundaries, but considerate to offer alternative plans.

hiketheworld2 | hiketheworld2

Son defends GF, but was it the wrong hill to die on? 🤔

nuffaholes33 | nuffaholes33

NTA! GF's limitations don't mean everyone must miss out 👏

NOTTHATKAREN1 | NOTTHATKAREN1

NTA- Empathetic comment from a fellow disabled person.

Sad_Construction_668 | Sad_Construction_668

Being considerate is nice, but it's not their responsibility. NTA 👍

DrummerClear7639 | DrummerClear7639

Inclusive family vacations allow personal activity choices for everyone 🏝🙌

dunemi | dunemi

Family leaves disabled GF behind on vacation, commenters call them a**holes 😠

administrativenothin | administrativenothin

Choosing not to participate in an activity - NTA 🙌

Sea-Maybe3639 | Sea-Maybe3639

Creative solution suggested for family vacation dilemma. 😎

Major-Distance4270 | Major-Distance4270

Taking a break from group activities can be healthy 🙌

IAmARichPie | IAmARichPie

Son should prioritize spending time with his disabled girlfriend 💕

ChickenCutlet99 | ChickenCutlet99

Traveling with physical limitations - NTA for wanting to hike 👏

Cretaceousthegnome | Cretaceousthegnome

Emphasize inclusive alternatives instead of excluding disabled girlfriend. 👍

DonutExcellent1357 | DonutExcellent1357

Controlling GF tries to limit vacation, throws tantrum over disability.

OwnWar13 | OwnWar13

Son blamed parents for girlfriend's incompatibility, NTA for vacation choices 👍

Boofakblankets | Boofakblankets

Balancing individual desires is key. NTA.

Nrysis | Nrysis

Mobility issues shouldn't hold back family vacation plans. #NTA 😊

yetzhragog | yetzhragog

NTA, disabled commenter doesn't let their disability ruin family trips 👏

Euphoric_Egg_4198 | Euphoric_Egg_4198

GF excluded from one activity, but family is being unreasonable. 👎

NoCod3769 | NoCod3769

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