🎂🎉 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a birthday drama brewing! 😱 Our birthday girl is about to turn the big 3-0, but her brother's wedding plans are threatening to steal her thunder. 😤 Will she be able to celebrate her milestone birthday, or will she be stuck at the wedding, watching the clock strike midnight? 🕛 Let's dive into this family feud and see if we can untangle this messy situation! 🙌
Diply | Diply
🎂 Sis, It's My 30th! 😱
meganstephania | meganstephania
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📅 Save the Dates... But Wait! 😳
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🤨 Bro, Why'd You Book Around My B-Day?
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😒 Gee, Thanks For Moving It... A Day! 🙄
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🤷♀️ No Other Days in Summer? Really?! 🌞
meganstephania | meganstephania
🎉 Midnight Birthday at Their Wedding 😞
meganstephania | meganstephania
📅 Two Days of Wedding... Why?! 🤔
meganstephania | meganstephania
💬 A Heads Up Would've Been Nice! 😤
meganstephania | meganstephania
📨 Where Are My Save-the-Dates, Bro? 😠
meganstephania | meganstephania
🔮 I See This Happening Every Year... 😩
meganstephania | meganstephania
🌿 Extending an Olive Branch... Sort Of 😏
meganstephania | meganstephania
🎪 Venue Details: Marquee & Pub 🍻
meganstephania | meganstephania
🤔 Gaining Some Perspective... But Still! 😑
meganstephania | meganstephania
🇬🇧 In the UK, 30 is a Big Deal! 🎉
meganstephania | meganstephania
🎂🎉 Birthday Girl vs. Wedding Bells: Who Will Win? 🥊
Well, well, well... looks like we've got a classic case of birthday vs. wedding drama! 😱 Our birthday girl is feeling pretty miffed that her brother decided to box in her 30th birthday with his two-day wedding extravaganza. 🎩💒 She's got a point - couldn't they have picked any other days in the summer? 🌞 And a little heads up would've been nice, bro! 😤 Now she's stuck celebrating her big day at their wedding, watching the clock strike midnight like a sad Cinderella. 🕛👸 But hey, at least she's got a day in between to nurse her hangover, right? 🍾🤕 Let's see what the internet has to say about this birthday-wedding showdown! 🥊
Celebrate the wedding, skip the second day. NTA's advice.
PsiBlaze | PsiBlaze
Wedding planning can be tough, but stealing a birthday? YTA.
Neomerix | Neomerix
Bridezilla chooses sister-in-law's birthday for a mid-week wedding. NTA.
BusyLady8956 | BusyLady8956
Bride-to-be prioritizes wedding over sister-in-law's birthday. YTA.
grossly_unremarkable | grossly_unremarkable
Avoiding event clashes is key to prevent permanent reminders. NTA.
Opposite-Guide-9925 | Opposite-Guide-9925
YTA steals sister-in-law's birthday for wedding! 😱💔
neoprenewedgie | neoprenewedgie
Turning 30 can be a big deal for some 😱. NTA for feeling put off.
CrazyHistorian1939 | CrazyHistorian1939
You can have your birthday and wedding too! YTA 🤪
PoetRevolutionary160 | PoetRevolutionary160
YTA comment shuts down self-centered bridezilla. 🙄
DontRunReds | DontRunReds
Bride-to-be steals sister-in-law's birthday week for wedding. YTA.
coffeecoffi | coffeecoffi
User suggests compromise and prioritizing loved ones. 🙌
RedKittieKat | RedKittieKat
Friend's baby born on birthday, YTA for getting upset.
KintsugiMind | KintsugiMind
User calls out bride-to-be for stealing sister-in-law's birthday. YTA.
goodwima | goodwima
Choosing wedding date on sibling's birthday is insensitive. NTA.
Wrong-Construction40 | Wrong-Construction40
Sister-in-law gets upset over wedding on her birthday. YTA.
wwwyzzrd | wwwyzzrd
Acknowledgement of being TA makes for a self-aware comment.
Fangehulmesteren | Fangehulmesteren
Birthday is not a competition, YTA needs to chill 🙄
realhorrorsh0w | realhorrorsh0w
Choosing a wedding date is tough, don't whine about it 🤷♂️
gastropodia42 | gastropodia42
Celebrate triple! NAH thinks sister-in-law did nothing wrong 👏
tooreal4u_5101 | tooreal4u_5101
NTA, sometimes it's just bad planning 😅
Forsaken-Program-450 | Forsaken-Program-450
Bride-to-be steals sister-in-law's birthday for wedding. Commenter is NTA.
1234WhoAreYou | 1234WhoAreYou
Savage response shuts down complainant's birthday whining. 😂
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Birthday bridezilla? Comment defends stealing sister-in-law's day for wedding.
ExplanationMaterial8 | ExplanationMaterial8
Birthday not important? Commenter thinks YTA in wedding clash.
Ok-Yogurtcloset-4378 | Ok-Yogurtcloset-4378
Existential comment advises to enjoy birthday without bride drama. 😅
foundthemobileuser | foundthemobileuser
Attend the wedding or decline. Birthdays happen every year. YTA.
PA_Archer | PA_Archer
YTA for stealing sister-in-law's birthday for your wedding. 🙄
maninthemoonpie | maninthemoonpie
A YTA comment suggests looking at the situation humorously.
MrTaxEvader | MrTaxEvader
Consulting with family before booking venue is key to success! NTA
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Bridezilla steals sister-in-law's birthday for her wedding. Commenter calls her out.
come_what_may02 | come_what_may02
Frustrated commenter defends sister-in-law's birthday, calls out dismissive family.
Decent-Caramel-2129 | Decent-Caramel-2129
Turning the situation around with positivity and birthday love 🎂🎉
PremeditatedTourette | PremeditatedTourette
Turning 30 is a big deal, stealing it for a wedding 🤦♀️ #NTA
No_Limit_2589 | No_Limit_2589
Attitude towards sister-in-law's birthday is harsh, YTA.
WaywardPrincess1025 | WaywardPrincess1025
OP and family could have communicated better. ESH. 😒
TerribleResource4285 | TerribleResource4285
Embrace it! YTA, celebrate both, and change your mindset 🙌
Elegant_Spot_3486 | Elegant_Spot_3486
Celebrate your birthday even on the wedding day, YTA.
Diligent-Language-79 | Diligent-Language-79
Guest confused about two-day event and logistics 🤔
ExistenceNow | ExistenceNow
More info needed to judge if FSIL is a**hole or not 🤔
AlGunner | AlGunner
Birthday plans ruined by brother's wedding; commenter shares own experiences.
Princess-81 | Princess-81
Considerate response to a family conflict over a wedding date.
AffectionateHand2206 | AffectionateHand2206
Sharing a birthday with a wedding can be tough. 🤷🏼♀️
AbstractArtist5 | AbstractArtist5
NAH thinks celebrating on exact day isn't necessary, be flexible 😊
Kdejemujjet | Kdejemujjet
Sharing birthdays is frustrating. Brother could have chosen another day.
Plenty_Honeydew6532 | Plenty_Honeydew6532
Birthdays on weekdays should take priority over weddings. NTA 🎂
hxcn00b666 | hxcn00b666
Respect others' birthdays. Weddings can be planned around them. 🎂🙏
Willing_Curve_927 | Willing_Curve_927
YTA censored. Comment defends bride-to-be's decision with logical reasoning. 🤔
Swirlyflurry | Swirlyflurry
Sister-in-law stands up for herself against entitled brother-in-law 👏
Jsorrow | Jsorrow
Birthday overshadowed by wedding: NAH, but communication is key.
itscourtb | itscourtb
Bridezilla steals sister-in-law's birthday, called out for selfishness. 🎂
wowbragger | wowbragger
Wedding on sister-in-law's birthday? Definitely not the a-hole. 😜
WayiiTM | WayiiTM
Balanced view on importance of birthdays and weddings 👍
Pure-Relationship125 | Pure-Relationship125
Party the night before the wedding and get drunk! 🥃
BlacksheepNZ1982 | BlacksheepNZ1982
Don't be a bridezilla, consider others. YTA 😜
OkapiEli | OkapiEli
One-day wedding is enough, stealing a birthday is not cool 🙄
Unr3p3nt4ntAH | Unr3p3nt4ntAH
OP called YTA for starting a fight over stolen birthday
SimpQueensWorld | SimpQueensWorld
Birthdays: celebrate the day or the month? 🤔🎉
HiScoreHero | HiScoreHero
Is obsessing over your birthday worth ruining someone's wedding? 🤔 😯
Cheeseballfondue | Cheeseballfondue
You're acting like a child, YTA 🙄
hatetochoose | hatetochoose
Birthday or Wedding? YTA comment shuts down self-centered sister-in-law
rosworms | rosworms
Bride steals sister-in-law's birthday for wedding. NTA stands up.
M1ssM0nkey | M1ssM0nkey
No birthday priority in adulthood, plan celebrations accordingly. YTA. 🙄
Pianoplayerpiano | Pianoplayerpiano
Be flexible with birthdays, YTA if you steal someone's thunder 🎂
Saxfire2 | Saxfire2
Selfish bride-to-be steals sister-in-law's birthday for wedding. YTA
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Birthdays are overrated, but stealing them for a wedding isn't cool 😒
redditsavedmelife | redditsavedmelife
Perspective check: Birthday vs Wedding. Not all about you 🙄
Happy-Atmosphere-914 | Happy-Atmosphere-914
You don't own the day 👍. If upset, grow up!
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Skipping the wedding, sending a gift instead, petty but satisfying 😏
Thedarkfic | Thedarkfic
NTA's milestone birthday hijacked by bride-to-be without warning 🤷♀️
GoofyGooberzilla | GoofyGooberzilla
Planning a wedding on SIL's 30th bday, NTA explains anniversary conflicts 👍
Mykona-1967 | Mykona-1967
Adult birthdays aren't that important, but stealing is wrong. ESH 😒
Neither_Grab3247 | Neither_Grab3247
Suggests celebrating 30th before wedding to avoid bride's annoyance 😊
Practical_Place6522 | Practical_Place6522
Celebrating an adult birthday all day is weird and excessive 🙄
venturebirdday | venturebirdday
Entitled OP gets called out for selfishness. YTA 🤨
HourCaterpillar9927 | HourCaterpillar9927
