🍼 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a family drama for you today. 😬 Meet our 28-year-old protagonist, the forgotten first grandchild who's been ignored by her grandparents for her entire life. 😢 But now that she's had a baby of her own, suddenly they want to be all up in her business! 🤨 Is she wrong for telling them to stay away? 🤔 Let's dive into this juicy tale of family dysfunction and find out! 🍿
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🍼 The Forgotten First Grandchild 😢
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🚫👵👴 New Mom Tells Neglectful Grandparents to Stay Away! 😤
Well, well, well... looks like our new mom has had enough of her grandparents' BS! 😠 After 28 years of being ignored and forgotten, they suddenly want to play happy family now that there's a baby in the picture. 👶 But our protagonist isn't having it! 🙅♀️ She's setting boundaries and telling them to stay put. 💪 Can you blame her, though? 🤔 I mean, they didn't even bother to check on her during her rough upbringing! 😢 And let's not forget the shocking words they said about her mom when she was born. 😱 Yikes! 😳 So, what do you think? Is she being too harsh, or are the grandparents reaping what they sowed? 🌱 Let's see what the internet has to say about this family feud! 🍿
Earn the right to be in your life 👏
FlutterByCookies | FlutterByCookies
NTA. 28 years too late. Ignore them and move on. 🙌
Dangerfyeld | Dangerfyeld
Reconnecting with family may be awkward, but harmless. 😉
Randomusername7294 | Randomusername7294
New mother establishes boundaries with strangers claiming baby's time. 👶
Korlat_Eleint | Korlat_Eleint
Calling someone to visit and then telling them not to come? YTA 👎
BaronSharktooth | BaronSharktooth
Opinionated comment calls out YTA for opening communication with family.
SunnyTheGinger | SunnyTheGinger
Sending a message after 28 years: Closure or Invitation? 🤔
Viper120769 | Viper120769
No obligation to involve grandparents in your life 🙅♀️
CrashDisaster | CrashDisaster
Open-mindedness can lead to pleasant surprises 😊
jakbutt | jakbutt
Old-fashioned sexism questioned. Baby's gender may be the reason?
abrokendefinition | abrokendefinition
Engaging with family is a two-way street 🙌
ACatGod | ACatGod
Set boundaries or stop complaining: NAH comment on family visits.
HoratioKane | HoratioKane
Mixed feelings about estranged family wanting to visit newborn 🤔
KittyGrewAMoustache | KittyGrewAMoustache
It's time to have an adult discussion with your dad 👨🎓
handsfull13 | handsfull13
Engage in a conversation with them, before grandma and pops arrive. 📣
barleyqueen | barleyqueen
Redditors advise caution in letting estranged family meet new baby 🙅
lesssthan | lesssthan
Having a baby doesn't make estranged family come back. 😔
DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks
Dad defends OP but wants them to call the shunners 🤔
fiki222 | fiki222
Setting boundaries with family during pandemic 🙏
excoriator | excoriator
Harsh but fair feedback for entitled and bitter OP 🤯
Jzumong | Jzumong
After 28 years, NTA for not wanting relationship with family. Clarify intentions.
ItsJustABigCow | ItsJustABigCow
Setting boundaries is important for a healthy relationship 👍
monday-night-fuckbal | monday-night-fuckbal
Ignoring someone for 28 years? No baby, no welcome 🙄
KyonaAidoneus | KyonaAidoneus
Curious commenter questions family's sudden interest in OP's baby 🤔
Allisonb93 | Allisonb93
Putting my baby first - NTA disowns entitled grandparents. 👏
[deleted] | [deleted]
User rates woman's actions as 2 out of 5, questions her excuse.
AMazeOfGlory | AMazeOfGlory
Setting boundaries with in-laws after having a baby 🙏
Stairowl | Stairowl
OP is only slightly in the wrong for not wanting contact 🤷♀️
TheYesMan7656 | TheYesMan7656
Civil disagreement, NAH judgement and mutual understanding 👏
bulletmother | bulletmother
Setting boundaries and protecting your baby from toxic behavior 👏
stressernotafighter | stressernotafighter
Polite distancing from grandparents after 28 years. Congrats! 🎉
saradil25 | saradil25
NTA. The comment may have sparked genuine regret, but no obligation.
bluebell435 | bluebell435
Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself is important. 👍
LittleMtnMama | LittleMtnMama
Setting boundaries with family. NTA. 👍
Cent1234 | Cent1234
Defending the right to privacy as a new parent. 🙌
SardonicAtBest | SardonicAtBest
"No is a complete sentence." Setting boundaries with family 💪
seagull321 | seagull321
Family who shunned her for 28 years want to visit now 😒
soullessginger93 | soullessginger93
Protecting your baby from toxic family members. NTA 🙅♀️
Zeldaspellfactory | Zeldaspellfactory
Toxic great grandma? NTA for cutting her off. 👏
Togic996 | Togic996
Don't worry about deadbeat relatives, they rarely change 👍
[deleted] | [deleted]
Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing up for yourself.
doublestitch | doublestitch
NTA. Don't let them use your baby for cuddles 🚫👶
acrobatichopes | acrobatichopes
Motherhood can bring to light past family wounds. NTA. 🤯
jhuskindle | jhuskindle
Family only cares about the baby, not the mother. NTA.
HocraftLoveward | HocraftLoveward
Congrats on the beautiful baby! NTA and don't look back! 👶
married_pineapple | married_pineapple
No love lost between OP and their grandparents. 👍
queenC1983 | queenC1983
You don't owe them anything. NTA. 👍
incognitoville | incognitoville
Asserting boundaries with family, NTA. 👍
shiny__happy__people | shiny__happy__people
Avoiding toxic family during pandemic 🚫
Allonsydr1 | Allonsydr1
Don't let their past judgment hold you back. 👍
mytwocents12 | mytwocents12
No contact and no visits. NTA for keeping them out 👍
tacticprime | tacticprime
Cutting out toxic family. Respectfully declining involvement with child. 🙌
mathhews95 | mathhews95
Don't put your precious baby on a silver tray for strangers 🚫
Dacookies | Dacookies
No relationship with either parent means no relationship with baby 👍
GoddessofWind | GoddessofWind
Reconnecting with estranged family - NTA or NAH? 🤔
OneMoreGinger | OneMoreGinger
Cutting off toxic family members for a healthy future 💪
Tato269 | Tato269
Grandparents ignored commenter for years, then asked for help. NTA.
Accomplished_Care960 | Accomplished_Care960
New parents beware: Unvaccinated family members can't hold the baby 🐢
murder-she-yote | murder-she-yote
No obligation to form a relationship. Your wishes should be respected. 👍
wariowars | wariowars
28 years too late 🤷♀️
LilliannaWinterWolf | LilliannaWinterWolf
Setting boundaries: NTA and busy with the baby 👶
AmbiguousAnonymous | AmbiguousAnonymous
Congrats on the baby! NTA, entitled people need boundaries 👏
NYKRSTN | NYKRSTN
User suggests OP may be in the wrong for denying child relationship with grandparent 🤔
dirtymelverde | dirtymelverde
Sneaky revenge plan against shunning grandparents. 🤯
snowmisertm | snowmisertm
Balancing family and safety during COVID-19 pandemic 🚡
abcwva | abcwva
Not the a-hole, but don't hold your breath for reconciliation. 😕
[deleted] | [deleted]
Putting toxic grandparents out of grandchildren's lives is justified. 👌
shinmae95 | shinmae95
Family shunned her until she had a boy. NTA for distancing.
Froken_Boring | Froken_Boring
Intrusive family members? NTA, they don't get to decide for you. 👍
higaroth | higaroth
New mom defends not wanting strangers near her baby 👶
Bulimic_Fraggle | Bulimic_Fraggle
Sneaky yet cautious approach to meeting estranged family. 🤯
Stinkerma | Stinkerma
Grandmother only cares about baby, not you. NTA.
nerothic | nerothic
OP and family both suck in this situation. 🤯
public_weirdness | public_weirdness
